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redwine1

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Posted: 10 years ago

#281

Originally posted by: luvsagar
Thanks again to you fabulous updaters!!

FABULOUS episode..

From RKB opening the door and ishu stepping in..(sor of ghar pravesh IMO)

the intense passionate scene between RKB and IRB where the crescendo reached and all time high and I do believe Ishu has an inkling of RKBs doubts ...

But what i loved most was the precap..KUDOS to SP n Balaji to show a woman standing her ground, KNOWING that she has done nothing wrong..even if she lied it was ONLY FOR HER HUSBAND! She is not going to succumb to accusations on her character and beg and grovel for him to believe her...She did that during Param...NO MORE CHARACTER CERTIFICATE will be given by this woman...She is basically telling RKB..FIND UR TRUST IN ME, BELIEVE IN ME ..BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND BELIEVE IN OUR LOVE WHAT WE ARE AND COULD BE...I WILL NOT MAKE YOU DO THESE THINGS...

KUDOS again to the writers and KP and DT!!!!

Nina

True that Nina ..

if only he had said or asked .. do u love mani .. if he said i heard u say i love u to mani . it would have ended differently for them ..

but he went for the jugular .. he spoke about her loose morals .. & there it ended ..

U know in the KC episode i had written .. the red she wore .. brought passion to the fore .. the love which he wanted to declare took a back seat to the passion she unleashed that day ..

& this is the result of that .. the passion is at the fore .. passion clouds reasoning ..

he threw her bracelet .. but he wanted to mark her in any way possible . be it by bruising her wrist .. be it by physically possessing her .. be it by shoving the fact that she was Mrs. RKB . he was desperate to mark her as his own ..

Phew .. as a writer .. RKB is a case in its own .. The writer has a field day with this guy . he really has the most amazing layers .. but one constant .. his insecurity ..

Kudos to Sonali for this creation & to Karan for bringing him to life

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-Anku-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#282

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

You know what tonight spoke to me - it spoke of a man torn completely - he wants to be claimed that is very evident from his lines, yes he finds himself in a ditch...the moment he came to he was reminded of his act and went looking for her and wondered did she leave because of this - was this the final straw? Raman is definitely at his lowest now - he has hit rock bottom and while he is relying on her to pick him up, give him a hand by choosing him...she cant do that for him- how could she?

A person who suffers from inferiority complex needs to believe in themselves first...when she would stick to her guns, he would realize he has to come and meet her halfway - like you said he finds himself unworthy of her...so now if he wants to prove his worth - he has to cross the distance and make it up to her cos after tonight she definitely will not make that move...he wanted her to claim him but the way he went about - the tone of that scene...it wasnt about making a claim on a relationship, it came across as crossing that last barrier between them...a woman needs to be won over completely - she needs to be secure enough in her mind to claim you but from two epis now all he has done is make her feel insecure, esplly tonight...so yeah he has got to do this for her...only when he deems himself worthy of her because HIS mind thinks so can he overcome this hurdle

I agree. Somehow now, he seems to have just given up. He feels- I am not good enough. I have been given up on anyway. She wants to hold another man's hands. She wants to smile and laugh with him and not me? So he lets his anger out. WHY NOT ME? Mere chune se gandi ho jaogi?

He wants to know where he flawed and to come to that conclusion, he flaws again. He's almost ending up pushing limits now.

The first time he was abandoned, he was told. You're worthless, you're not rich enough, can't provide etc. He fought that and became Raavan Kumar. Today when Ishita has carved out the real Raman, and he feels that the same old Raman was trampled over AGAIN, he does not know WHY? Even though he sits at a bar and realizes that its probably his fault, he's not wanting to merely give up. He badly needs one sign, one ray of hope. He wants to be assured that the woman who seemingly taught him how to love, to trust again will never be what he fears every other woman to be.

Yes, he's gone down to the lowest now. Can't go beyond it. His insecurities are out in the open. Ishita is not liable to justify herself either. Now how he realizes his mistake and walks the distance to her, is to be seen.

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Let-It-Go

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Posted: 10 years ago

#283

Originally posted by: Liashna

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At least Ishita was shown disgusted, kudos to the writer. Felt realistic. But You cannot break an already broken man yaar. I haven't watched the epi yet, but relying on the on loc videos, I can what he said and did was wrong. He went overboard, but he's already in a state where his heart cannot function - he feels alone. Mind isn't functioning - Drunk. Ab any man without the right senses is basically an animal *shrugs*

But as Ishita was doing, ignoring him, was more logical.. as he was not in his senses, a slap wouldn't solve anything there. Nor would saying or explaining anything to him. </font>

Lia you watch the epi..and listen to his dialoguea.

I agree to Raman's state but your heart will go out for ishita..honestly it will

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redwine1

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Posted: 10 years ago

#284

Originally posted by: Let-It-Go
Hahaha Ruby . I so so wish you did.
But yeah, I know Raman's POv. He finay bared it al..in rage but he did. He did tell her that he want her completely. There was not even once mention of Ruhi in the entire outburst. Thats what caught my eyes.

Writers !! Director - Hats off.
and finalu Romi track left incomplete.. For Raman to complete and redeem.

But Ishita's plight caught me *Cant help*

u know i felt uplifted seeing a woman madly in love with a man .. but still had the guts to push him off when he was wrong .. all those people who keep branding Ishita as mahaan & what not shud see this episode .. this woman only ever stands beside right

if she was ur typical saas bahu woman . she would have laid down & eleviated her husbands pain .. UGH ( SHUDDER) .. it was so nice to see a real woman on screen ..

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luvsagar

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Posted: 10 years ago

#285

Originally posted by: redwine1
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True that Nina ..

if only he had said or asked .. do u love mani .. if he said i heard u say i love u to mani . it would have ended differently for them ..

but he went for the jugular .. he spoke about her loose morals .. & there it ended ..

U know in the KC episode i had written .. the red she wore .. brought passion to the fore .. the love which he wanted to declare took a back seat to the passion she unleashed that day ..

& this is the result of that .. the passion is at the fore .. passion clouds reasoning ..

he threw her bracelet .. but he wanted to mark her in any way possible . be it by bruising her wrist .. be it by physically possessing her .. be it by shoving the fact that she was Mrs. RKB . he was desperate to mark her as his own ..

Phew .. as a writer .. RKB is a case in its own .. The writer has a field day with this guy . he really has the most amazing layers .. but one constant .. his insecurity ..

Kudos to Sonali for this creation & to Karan for bringing him to life

Ruby

Totally agree! Kudos to both Sonali and KP for creating and enacting the most wonderful complicated multi layered character on Indian telly to date! Male heros in the past have always eneded up taking a back seat so love how RKB is front line and center of YHM!!!

Nina

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MidnightMusings

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Posted: 10 years ago

#286

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

exactly Janu if someone has already declared their verdict against you based on a one-sided hearing/theory would your justification hold any weight for them? Besides this isnt even about justification - this is about trust and so long as he doubts her even if she yells at the top of her lungs nothing would be good enough - cos to a man poisoned with doubt even truth appears as lies

They are showing how vicious can doubt be through this man hats off to the writers and the whole team of this show 👏👏👏

So so true. No matter how much you can explain someone, if they have it decided, it's of no use. Plus if you didn't do anything wrong why shall you give justification??

I watched this pak show Shukk and the whole concept was how even if the man was not guilty, his wife kept blaming him despite all clarification. And ultimately her married life broke ...

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-kri-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#287

People amuse me at times... All of us went against Raman during Parmeet fiasco because Raman didn't take a stand against his family for Ishita, Today, Raman is doing that mistake by assuming stuff on his own but here, Ishita is taking a stand... But, we are blaming this brave woman... Why are we practicing double standards?

Yes, she lied to him... That was a mistake which can be rectified... Raman didn't confront her...isn't that his mistake? If women can't respect woman, why to blame the makers? For the first time, they are showing something new... Ishita took the right step...They deserve accolades...but here we are, bashing them... I'm disappointed...

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luvsagar

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Posted: 10 years ago

#288

Originally posted by: Shanig123

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Let-It-Go

@Let-It-Go

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Posted: 10 years ago

#289

Honestly Ruby
The scene when he gets up and have flashback of Last night.. He instinctively looks for Ishita but didn't find her. And that was the scene for me.

I am aghast to see people still criticising Ishita for precap.
Precap just said that she had a spine for standing up for herself. And she is surely MAHAAn.