Present Tense Past Imperfect (NOTE added on PG 2 about CVs) - Page 5

Originally posted by: KK2926

Awesome points raised to CVs Gan.

I was so disappointed with the epi today that for the first time i started thinking in the -ve direction. I was also discussing with my hus about it and he said - the relation will break temporarily and she will learn the hard way.

I am feeling so bad that the CVs spoiled a terrific love story with lack of creativity. There are many ways they might have showed this.

Sorry for venting out !!!

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

Promise! Just finished dinner and some Diwali prep, within an hour kuch thoda sa post for you! You and probably 3 other will read 😆

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Love the pained expressions on Raman's face Gandhari. What a deeply troubled man. I hope he puts HER through the wringer to HEAL her if she does not apologize.

Have Subbu's Mom move in and taunt her daily, or have someone remind her daily of her inability to conceive. . I am not a male chauvinist, why should men alone be "allowed to heal" India offers equal rights, so lets get HER on a "healing plan" also

On a serious note...

I am not at all an advocate of causing incredible pain "in order to heal"

Its a bunch of BS...

I want to ask, is it OK for a recently widowed woman or a man to encounter daily images of someone losing their spouses? How about a parent that has lost a child, be assigned the task of informing another parent of their child's passing?

You think it helps them heal Gandhari?😲

I think even Hitler would have felt that to be cruel and unusual😲

So unfortunate that we recommend such a prescription for a man like Raman Bhalla😭

Since I seem to have zero sympathy for her the last couple days... I will not comment on her pictures. Her character has not connected with me one bit. Your pictures are splendid as usual..cannot find ONE fault with them, beautiful and poignant

I am hoping the last week or so's emoting will give Karan Patel's career a fillip.. he has shown incredible range👏👏

He fully deserves it

Originally posted by: kaulitzprincess

I think you're misunderstanding the whole "healing process" idea - the healing is not about him thinking Ishita's cheating on him or whatever. The healing would be him talking about his own insecurities to Ishita - letting everything out, so he doesn't carry these fears around with him anymore. He has the right to question Ishita, to tell her that he knows and to ask her, straight-up, if she's cheating on him. The healing process is him being reassured of having that right, so that he has enough faith in their relationship to talk (and not yell - from either of them) about these issues, instead of retreating the way he has done in the past. However, he's scared, insecure, and so I understand why he doesn't say anything. But he needs to - keeping it inside will never help him move on.

I say the same thing for Ishita's "healing process" - it's not being confronted with her infertility that will heal her, it's giving all her fears a voice - telling Raman that she's scared of not meeting his "expectations" (which she has done to some extent, but I'm sure it'll come up again at some point).

As for Ishita, I know she seems pretty out of it right now, but I don't know, it makes sense. She knows Raman's irritated by Mani, but at the same time, she doesn't really know the depth of it. Correct me if I'm wrong, but Ishita doesn't know that Raman was cheated on right? She only knows that Shagun left Raman, and then got together with Ashok, but her knowledge of the timelime is pretty murky, if I recall correctly. So she doesn't recognize the problem, and she ascribes Raman's anger and aloofness to the only other problem currently plaguing them - the Romi/Sarika thing. So, in her mind, telling Raman about Ashok's involvement will only make it worse, so she lies about that, and tries to fix the problem on her own. She has no idea that Raman's uncovering her lies and that she's making his real problem worse.

It's kind of irritating, but Ishita's not a mindreader, lol. That's why Raman needs to let it all out, and that's why I'm actually pretty excited for the upcoming episodes. I want him to let all out, because I want him to feel better! I don't want him to carry around this doubt anymore, ever.

And yeah, Karan is def amazing! He's really shining these past few episodes.