Bashing!! give me a break - Page 2

This is called a FORUM for a reason

Originally posted by: loveyhmnew

I haven't watched today's episode yet but I am so much disappointed with the bashing these days.

Forum is full of bashing. Every single minute details of the actors/story/CV has been observed and discussed. Guys let them breathe. And if not liking it don't see the episodes for few days.

I agree they decided to make it lighter, Then enjoy the fun. Bcoz it was funny. If this has to be dealt with seriously it would mean Raman will recede into his shell for being made feel he is a bad husband yet again. So lets go with the flow people. I,m sure when it has to turn serious it will be done too. So Chillax.

Great post...even i m surprised of the negativity...which changes on a daily basis-one day : hate ishu/then she is loved-then hate raman/then love him

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

This is called a FORUM for a reason

Expressing contrary opinion

articulating dissent are ALL part of watching a show

Just like "bashers" stay away from Glory threads

You have a choice to stay away from such topics as well

Its called freedom of speech and expression

Please dont sermonize or mandate behavior based on your own preferences

Agree this is forum and you have freedom of speech. But to use a channel just to express negativity is not acceptable.

Rest, the forum is all yours.

i think its high time now when we should realize the DIFFERENCE between BASHING & CRITICISM

when we get some good scene or episode we can appreciate it, people have no problem...but when we get some blunders by cv's or actors we cant show our disappointment !! Thats not done dear.

I never supported bashing earlier nor i will do...but criticism is something that nobody cant neglect it. I think this forum is not to show only happiness, we can show disappointment too.

Well, i'm upset 2day with the progress of story content, & i told so. I know it was not bashing, it was frustration & criticism

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

This is called a FORUM for a reason

Expressing contrary opinion

articulating dissent are ALL part of watching a show

Just like "bashers" stay away from Glory threads

You have a choice to stay away from such topics as well

Its called freedom of speech and expression

Please dont sermonize or mandate behavior based on your own preferences

Bashing does suck, and when it happens it literally sucks the energy from the forum...but...aside from the actors personal lives, which, everyone should leave alone...who cares what they do off screen, it isn't our business, everything else the TM has listed, like the ongoing discussion of the story the critisim levelled at the CV's...all of this stuff is on point.

It is not "bashing"...it is, as you've said, "articulating dissent"...this is a forum about the show, where else can viewers go to vent frustration about the writing/editing/acting etc...we all watch the show, and we want the quality to be on point, no?

if we can make posts gushing about this and that that one of the characters did, the romance, the brilliant dialogues, and great episodes, then we can and should also make posts about what isn't working, what sucks about it...our opinions should be shared, of course respectfully as possible (but come on homie it's a fan forum so people are more 'relaxed' with their posts), but that's the whole point of a forum.

not everyone agrees all the time...and if something about the show irks me then i'm going to share it on here...the editing and continuing consistency issues...the collective amnesia that the writers seem inflicted with...I have a problem with all of these things, they need fixing...the show is awesome...the only Indian show I watch (I PVR this shit so you know it's serious LOL), but I want it to be consistently awesome.

Originally posted by: Bul3

same here..even if I feel good about an episode like today's episode, so much negative posts just ruin it.. I mean why we have to analyse everything so deeply.. even comedy is unacceptable because YHM is a mature show and it should fulfil that seriousness and depth all the time..so many cute Ishra scenes today like the first scene when Ishita is calling Raman and she asks him to go home and freshen up..than we have Raman's antics to prove himself a good husband even though he clarifies that he has been a good one but maybe needs to do more..like it was all in a lighter sense..nothing serious..kissing scene is also analysed so much..Instead of feeling excited that Raman actually wants to kiss Ishita we have posts that why Raman who is experienced needs tips to be a good husbandtoo much analysing and logic finding..Isnt it good that he is acting like its the first time for him?..nahi..we have to be logical..Raman is divorced and has kissed before so why should he practice😕..bas karo bhai..let us not put too much of our heads into it!

I agree, just because it's a mature theme it doesn't need to be that always..and frankly it was harmless comedy..There have been worse comedies which needed the criticism but where brushed off as harmless comedy..
Coming to Raman and his antics.. It only showed how crazy he was becoming to prove himself as a good husband.. We should see the good side, he wants to prove himself as a good husband for her..even though its for showing Mani..but his efforts are itself a change in his character..
Its known he has always done things under influence.. he did the same today. We can't expect the CV's to change his character in one day.. They are taking it gradually..which is good.
I was stunned to see everyone saying that he was married before and should know being a good husband..but wasn't he cheated despite being that.?? I would hate to see him being Shagun's raman for Ishu..

he is trying to be a new Raman for her...why can't we see that..
I love that he is trying to become something new for Ishita.. googling stuff and acting stupid.. He is going beyond all logic's to prove himself as her good husband..I liked that about his crazy antics today..

I guess it's just opinions..😆😆

Let the current faulty story line and illogical episode like this continue, those who're defending now will be the firsts to join the line to criticize.

I agree, just because it's a mature theme it doesn't need to be that always..and frankly it was harmless comedy..There have been worse comedies which needed the criticism but where brushed off as harmless comedy..
Coming to Raman and his antics.. It only showed how crazy he was becoming to prove himself as a good husband.. We should see the good side, he wants to prove himself as a good husband for her..even though its for showing Mani..but his efforts are itself a change in his character..
Its known he has always done things under influence.. he did the same today. We can't expect the CV's to change his character in one day.. They are taking it gradually..which is good.
I was stunned to see everyone saying that he was married before and should know being a good husband..but wasn't he cheated despite being that.?? I would hate to see him being Shagun's raman for Ishu..

he is trying to be a new Raman for her...why can't we see that..
I love that he is trying to become something new for Ishita.. googling stuff and acting stupid.. He is going beyond all logic's to prove himself as her good husband..I liked that about his crazy antics today..

I guess it's just opinions..😆😆


@bold...exactly!

That's why I for one am excited to watch today's epi despite the not so great reviews LOL...I'm glad he's doing this for her😃