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mayu1982

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Posted: 10 years ago

#91

Originally posted by: yyy

I understand your anger but don't you think Raman has always been like this to Ishita... He can shout at her anytime and everytime...somewhere he had taken her for granted thinking he will put up with his behavior for Ruhi's sake...its high time he realizes his mistake... Mani is just trying yo help them get closer...yes u don't need a third person but for people like Ishita and Raman they need a strong push to understand where they stand.

Raman started valuing Ruhi only when he was losing her...he needed a push in the form of Ashok and Ishita ..similarly he needs that from Mani now...

Respect your views and this just my pov. Already post on on my topic just copying it to convey my thoughts.

I am trying really hard after reading so many post on this topic. THat he needs such type of reality check.. Why? AM trying really hard for this . Now one thing is very commonly discussed in this forum regarding his behaviour towards IShita ( I may be wrong) just like to express my views :

Why ppl think that raman doesn't value IShita at all and this way he will understand her value?

If am not wrong during when he left presidentship for IShita- Mihir ask this que and he clearly says this Ishita was done so many things for him and his family and taking care of his family and its his turn to do something for her and he has done it...

2) After Amma accident - when they fought with each other- but what was the topic of fight- was it that raman was rude and insensitive and not at all listening to her? Raman doesn't care for her? Raman forgets ruhi and IShita like before and ignoring her. NO the reason for the fight was the third person- Param , shagun , Ashok, Mihir, Suraj and what not? Even Ishita was busy in interfering and doing jagaa jossi job more which was reason for their fight. As far as taunting thing once when both of them reach confession level and after that he will definitely compliment her for her looks. That is something IShita need to take a stand for that.. Has IShita seriously said things to him that she doen't like it at all?

Not trying to justifying the wrong thing for RAMAN but i guess IShita was always said things like she like RAAVAn kumar more than RAM kumar. and not objected for his rude behaviour very seriously. She indirectly always encourage this type of behaviour even when he was saying sorry to her when he was behaving rudely with her. BUt ISHITA devi was saying no need to say this and that just to show her mahan attitude.

Point is - No need for cvs to show raman in negative way - just to please 7.30 time slot new viewers to show- RAMAN IS LEADING CHARACTER AND NOT SUPPORTING ACTOR OF THIS SERIAL.

Edited by mayu1982 - 10 years ago

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Anu

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Posted: 10 years ago

#92

Sorry to butt in guys..
But isn't that how Raman is.? Somehow I find him right to be shouting at her in that situation..Well yes, he shouts on her on occasions which is not required and is annoying but coming to this one .. She is in the hospital and still being adamant on fasting.. As far as RKB goes, his reaction is expected...
Yes he can be polite but that's not how RKB is, we can't expect him to change in a matter of few hours. That would be drastic..I hate when he shouts unnecessarily but here it kinda makes sense as she is being adamant..
But somehow her ignorance to Mani's lecture to Raman was hard to digest when she doesn't let her siblings say anything about him..

Well like someone said..everyone has reacted..I myself reacted seeing the video and the episode may turn out to be something else..but as I viewer I find it hard to digest that the third person get's to interfere so much between them no matter who it is..

Edited by -IshRaDivAn- - 10 years ago

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sub_rosa

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Posted: 10 years ago

#93

Thanks for the WU.

Mani is not the hero of YHM, Raman is. So I don't think the purpose of this scene is to glorify Mani at the cost of Raman. Rather, I feel that this scene is for Raman to come to the conclusion that he doesn't deserve Ishita. What will he do thereafter is for us to wait and watch. I still trust the writers. SJ loves Raman...she won't ruin him.

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omshreejaanu

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Posted: 10 years ago

#94

Thanks for sharing Zener.

Poor Mani will b bashed right left n centre now!😆

So Raman was yelling at her for not eating. N then mani comes with Ruhi n his sweet talks. Why bash the poor guy for this?

Why upset on Ishita? How has she let Raman down? The lady is not well and in hospital. Let her behave a bit unreasonable n get pampered for a change. She is vulnerable and needs attention not shouts and intimidation.

Anyway... Looking forward to Raman's miseries.

It is high time he sits and think. Yelling, slapping n blaming Romi in hospital, shouting at his sick wife... Is not the solution!

We all know he cares, he loves her.

Sometimes words are not needed. Sometimes they are.

He is upset and tensed for his wife, he must have been freaked out thinking he might lose her... It is this only who is making him prickly n acerbic right now but he can't do that all the time, not when the woman he loves is so fragile physically n emotionally now. She also needs him, his care and love.

Edited by omshreejaanu - 10 years ago

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Lifeisgrt

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Posted: 10 years ago

#95

Tfs
Mani started his interfere oh god this much..i was expecting ishra scene here 😡
atleat better than shagun leach hugging falling on Raman scene...
Not understanding what's happening
Hope Raman doesn't imagine isitha ruhi mani lfe together

Lets see !

Edited by sobha - 10 years ago

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bscorp13

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Posted: 10 years ago

#96

Just my POV...and might open up some more questions here...

With a calm mind i decided to put myself in Raman's position.., just this scene sequence...i have a similar temperament. ..get angry easily...have low patience ..etc etc...and been married a while...

So my spouse is in hospital...and I have had a harrowing few hours getting the hospital staff to work and treat ...i literally lost my mind trying to understand what was wrong with my better half...but was clueless...i had an arranged marriage too...and I DO NOT know everything b about my spouse too...

Then he gains consciousness. ..i m damn relieved...and literally feel my breath cone back...and then realise he didn't tell me...that there was a serious condition he suffered from and he wasn't supposed to do certain things...it could have turned life threatening. I feel bad..hurt..but i focus on the main issue at hsnd...getting him back on his feet...eat something. .

So i say with all the care i can muster...despite my anger at his carelessness..in the name of adhering to customs...ask him to eat..I try once...twice. ..he throws a tantrum...becomes stubborn and refuses...i absolutely lose my cool...say I care a damn about him...let him die..if this is what he wants to do making this difficult with his stubborn ness...hoping that he is mature enough to not behave like a toddler. ..

Suddenly...his best friend..intervenes...and advices me...that this is not the right way to behave with him...i can make him understand without my so called outburst and rude words too...and pyaar se ..gets him to eat...in a real scenario my husband would have kicked the friend put if we were fighting first of all😆..but since we are speculating...i am going further. ..

My reaction...😲..first of all who allowed the best friend in...it's a private space....if it was my parents or my in laws i would have still taken the advice...grin and bear it..but a friend..however close...CANNOT intervene...🤢

This is the kind of interference which no couple would tolerate...only my opinion ...

I know this is speculation. ...aND the scene hasn't aired yet...but I needed to get this outta my system...cos this is exactly how I felt watching the vid.

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Apparently

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Posted: 10 years ago

#97

Not sure if I heard correctly but is Ishita refusing to eat because she has a vrat? If so, it seems like Raman's "taunts" about Ishita's professional abilities are spot on. What kind of a "dentist" (or sane person for that matter) continues to refuse food because of a "vrat" despite having passed out from dehydration.

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anvni_123

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Posted: 10 years ago

#98

Hope Raman will stop acting like a jerk now.

Have always loved Manis entry into the show...compliments Ishita so well.

Raman has never cared for how Ishita feels when taunts her about Her culture, weight, dressing sense etc...in them name of these one-liners.

Mani will make him realize what Ishita means to Raman...so please stop bashing Mani...

For Raman to come to his senses this is very much needed.

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-dreamland-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#99

Welldone CVs👏 Thank you for ruining Ishra's moment.you guys really know how to reward Ishra's fans..

1.Nagmani:The less spoken about him,the better🤬

2.Ishu:Ishita back to square one,Raman stand by her in every difficult aspect of her life(Param fiasco,Amma accident,licence track etc.),ensuring she stayed strong but all that Raman did for her is totally wasted.😔

3.Raman:Man he doesn't deserve this harsh treatment..thats it.

First Ishu-Manu jaap,then Ashok-Mani jaap Cvs how long should we wait in the name of HOPE..

Thank you for ruining Ishu's character..but some things are beyond repair,I am afraid that the scar may remain foreve.I hope this all Mani jaap finishes fast.Hoping for some magic.

I am sorry but I am trying hard to look for positive things but can't find any..no logic..no theory..seriously I dn't think I have it in me to watch this episode

Ye Hai Mohabbatein epic love story..one step forward,Ten steps backward.

TFS😊

Edited by -dreamland- - 10 years ago

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mayu1982

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Posted: 10 years ago

#100

Originally posted by: bscorp13
Just my POV...and might open up some more questions here...
With a calm mind i decided to put myself in Raman's position.., just this scene sequence...i have a similar temperament. ..get angry easily...have low patience ..etc etc...and been married a while...

So my spouse is in hospital...and I have had a harrowing few hours getting the hospital staff to work and treat ...i literally lost my mind trying to understand what was wrong with my better half...but was clueless...i had an arranged marriage too...and I DO NOT know everything b about my spouse too...

Then he gains consciousness. ..i m damn relieved...and literally feel my breath cone back...and then realise he didn't tell me...that there was a serious condition he suffered from and he wasn't supposed to do certain things...it could have turned life threatening. I feel bad..hurt..but i focus on the main issue at hsnd...getting him back on his feet...eat something. .

So i say with all the care i can muster...despite my anger at his carelessness..in the name of adhering to customs...ask him to eat..I try once...twice. ..he throws a tantrum...becomes stubborn and refuses...i absolutely lose my cool...say I care a damn about him...let him die..if this is what he wants to do making this difficult with his stubborn ness...hoping that he is mature enough to not behave like a toddler. ..

Suddenly...his best friend..intervenes...and advices me...that this is not the right way to behave with him...i can make him understand without my so called outburst and rude words too...and pyaar se ..gets him to eat...in a real scenario my husband would have kicked the friend put if we were fighting first of all😆..but since we are speculating...i am going further. ..

My reaction...😲..first of all who allowed the best friend in...it's a private space....if it was my parents or my in laws i would have still taken the advice...grin and bear it..but a friend..however close...CANNOT intervene...🤢
This is the kind of interference which no couple would tolerate...only my opinion ...

I know this is speculation. ...aND the scene hasn't aired yet...but I needed to get this outta my system...cos this is exactly how I felt watching the vid.

Seriously totally agree with you. I am married and have best of best friends male and female. BUt in real life never ever my friends nor me interfere in their private zone like this. Particuarly hospital If I was in hospital , and am not eating then husband would have given me strong and very strong lectures and not pampered me at all . He would pampered me if I will listen all instructions and follows it without any tantrums and obivously he expect me to behave maturely with kids in hand and not like this...

As far as friend part is concerned if my husband is feeling insecure with my friend the first person I would blame is myself to create this feeling. HAs IShita after coming to MAni in picture said things to raman that you are important person in life and nobody can take this place. IN fact she is enjoying his state .