i hate Raman - Page 6

Originally posted by: suseesuez

@anjs you think Ishita did more than enough but I didn't think. that's why this communication gap. may be because of our obsession with respective characters. my final POV is it's better live our lives than advicing others life. that's why I mentioned in first post that Ishita first to live her life as wife of Raman and then gives her attention to others.

Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..

I don't quite agree, because Ishita's interference in regards to Shagun is infuriating. Why can't she just mind her own business? Has she forgotten that Shagun is Raman's ex-wife? No normal woman in her right mind would give a second's thought for her husband's ex-wife, because she would know that things can get pretty messy if the ex-wife is once again involved in family matters. Ishita is constantly concerned about those around her, it's so annoying! Why doesn't she concentrate on her own marriage, which is far from perfect? Whether Ashok marries Shagun or not is none of her business nor should it matter to her.

Originally posted by: anjs

but if she doesnt tell raman n ashok cheats shagun n its affects adi, and then raman finds out that she knew it from before only, will raman keep quiet then...wont he again blame her for hiding such a big thing, when she knew how bad it might affect adi...

matlab yeh toh hadd ho gayii...bole toh bhi woh buri, na bole toh bhi woh buri...bichaari kare bhi toh kya kare...

and as for her marriage...its not her sole responsibility to make her marriage perfect...esp when her husband doesnt leave a single chance to tell her that she is only ruhi's ishima, and nothing more then that

Originally posted by: SAKIV-RAM

m not sure about this but i wrote to another post before:

its kind of domestic violence (i know thats a harsh word) how raman treats n shouts at ishu. i know she has this samajh seva-syndrome BUT its unbearable as a woman to accept the way raman treats her. even in yesterdays episode, many blamed raman for being insensitive calling her kachra n comparing her with dinosaur. i didn't mind that much yesterday, BUT todyas episode was way too much. infact because of RAMAN ishu has all the KACHRA (shogun, ashok, suraj, adi) in her life. n t b honest, have u ever seen a scene where raman tries to manofiying ishita or saying sry!???? NEVER-this is not raman's mistake but CVs. raman shouts-ishu sulks with tears-next scene: raman pulls ishus legs-ishita smiling like a stupid girl

i mean come on now-every mistake they do, we as YHMians notice it the best

You have went too far buddy,Domestic violence.Do you think Ishita will keep quite if something like this happening over her.She knows that Raman scolded her with concern over her or else she will surely give back.She is not the person who is scared of Raman's anger and she have everything yo face it.

You heard Raman calling her Kachara freat then did you remember these words gandha aadmee,cheee..., do you remember any thing .If yes tell me .

Everyone have own styles of mannoying,few by giving gifts ,few by requesting/begging.

Our Raman's style for Ishu is always same make the situation worse piss her off more then when she is not expecting anything and offguard mannoy her,As Ishu would not be expecting in that situation she calms quickly then.If he had done it in regular manner any one will try to play for few time.Just Raman acts smart here.

EX:Punjaabi speech scene.Ishita was angry Raman dint hear it.When she knew he heard it she felt happy and if he had acceoted it was nice directly she will taunt him like she will taunt his praises(mostly),but here he made her more angry then slowly told how much he liked it when Ishita was offguard.Ishita was just left gazing at him .

Originally posted by: suseesuez

@anjs
OK.I agree she did for adi sake. but what's the need to tell this matter to mihika. if you think is it because of she would her sister in law. OK I'm ready to accept this also. but what's the need to tell mihika before telling to Raman. if you feel this is right, I'm sorry.yeah. what's the need to tell Mani that Raman is rude. if this is right then don't find faults in Raman scoldings to Ishita

Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..

if Ishita's interference can be justified in regards to Adi, then why is Raman blamed for asking Mihir to reconcile with Shagun, for Adi? Why is everyone so angry that Raman called Shagun the mother of his children. It may be painful to hear but it's the truth. Shagun is the biological mother of Adi and Ruhi and she will always be present in Raman's life some way or other, because of their shared children. However, on Ishita's part she has done some pretty stupid things for Shagun, which only damaged her relationship with Raman. Why did she have to bring Shagun to the Bhalla's house when she was drunk? Why couldn't she book her into a hotel like Raman said? That was one of the stupidest moves by Ishita which no wife would ever have done.

Ishtia did do a lot for the Bhallas, but Raman has also done a lot for the Iyers. He got Ishita's dental license back, and he supported Bala when Romi wrongly accused him. Both Raman and Ishita have been responsible for each other's families, but it's about time they both make an effort in their own relationship. Both are equally responsible, and worrying about Shagun and Ashok's relationship will not help them.

Originally posted by: KurbaanHua

lol i find it somewhat funny ...but it's typical raman...it fell flat on him so all he can do is take it out on Ishita by throwing things and rasing his voice. I'm not saying it's right.