Juhi ... I have written my POV in another thread about why I feel Raman calling her out is bad NOW as against to him using the same antics earlier ... pasting the same things here ...
Coming down to the personal barbs ... last week, I had supported RKB's behavior in one of the posts when he had not given any attention to Ishita while she was enthusiastically sharing about Mani ... I did it because I felt it was normal ... he had a hard day at work and was too preoccupied with it to give attention to his wife's evening adventures ...
However, to be frank, the Kachra dialogue pinched me as well. My two cents about why I think what I do
In today's scenario ... Both Raman and Ishita have already moved on from the Sirf Ruhi ke Liye phase but have not accepted it to themselves .. forget about to each other.. they have not accepted it to themselves ...
The acceptance is there but with a veil ... Raman agreed she looks nice in photos or he was worried that she went out after decking up so much .. he is accepting her as a woman ..
On the other hand, Ishita has accepted a bit more with the car scene or the r u jealous of Sanjana scene when she is cornered by him ... she is affected by his proximity ... i have not mentioned rain dance scene on purpose because it was all about healing for both of them ..
So, if I put myself in their shoes, I will say both of them are walking on egg shells right now ... a while ago a barb like this may not have affected her at all ... she would have reiterated with Ravan Kumar or something similar ...
BUT ... in this scenarios ... she is appreciating the fact that he has put her photograph on the phone ... whose photo do u put on ur phone? any Tom Dick Harry in your life ... or let me ask ... would Raman put Ishita's photo on his phone a few weeks into his marriage ...
so, it is clear that both of them kind of accept that a change has occurred ... but just to maintain the same facade ... Raman again goes back to first remove it ... he cropped it and put Ruhi's photo instead ... and then called out ... i have removed the kachra ...
Now, imagine a woman who is struggling with her innerself about the fact that is she attracted to this man who happens to be her husband ... her brain says no .. he is one idiot with no emotions at all .. her heart says ... look out beyond the surface ...
In this, an exact ante-thesis of her husband appears, who respects her, understands her ... in short ... forces her to compare ...
That is when it starts to pinch ... till now she never complained that he has an acidic tongue .. but with Mani she got sad for a moment that why does her husband does not talk to her in this manner too ...
So, as a woman first and a wife later, the barbs were way off the limit and anger me ... but even if I agree with them considering the ever acidic tongue of RKB, ideally it shouldn't have been accepted given the conditions both of them are now in ...
IMO, the best move will be to give a silent treatment to her husband and show him that he cannot say anything and everything to her even if he treats her as Ruhi's mom .. she is a woman first ... then anything else later ...
Cheers
Bhanu
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