life is about how we act and react.. Updated - Page 2

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Splendid Gandhari

I love your verses as much as I love your pictures

The B&W pics are quite stunning, KP ofcourse being my most fave of all

You are quite the story teller, today albeit with a lil philosophical twist :-)

Originally posted by: momb24

Always a pleasure reading your post; nice insight and points on the episode and ongoing track.

You always do a great job with the pictures 😊

Originally posted by: swathibalan

Awesome as usual, G.

Do you have an index or page for all of them as I have missed the initial ones bit would love to read them

Originally posted by: Let-It-Go

Hii..
Nice Post yaar.
Throughout the episode I was cribbing. There was not a one moment that captures your heart or makes one smile.
Yesterday was total off. From Raman's cheeky lines to Ishita's hairdo and sarees.
Like I said before Abhimanyu was the only person that made you think that cool and sensible talks are needed in a relation to be mature.
And the points you laid are pretty much hitting the future track.

Today's episode didn't have one moment that captures your heart...it had a few that indicates possible gut-churning drops or turn in the roller coaster ride of YHM characters' journeys...

• Raman's mistaking his 'competition',
• Ishita's understanding of Raman's care about Shagun but baffled by his apparent indifference about her,
• Mani looking for someone understanding enough to raise someone else's kids,
• Ashok's allergy to being tagged as 'cheap' and also from his attention-seeking finacee ,
• Mihir taking Rs15 Lakh loan to fulfill his sister's grandiose wedding plans.,
• Mihika saying how tragic it is to be married to someone like Ashok
  
  ...they all have to be tied somehow to what's upcoming...
  
  
  Raman's conversation with Ishita after the party...probably came from his self-preservation mode...but his barbs were a bit cruel today. My feelings.
  
  
  
  
  Hello there once again ... beautiful pictures ...
  
  
  Since i dunno how to do it .. nor am i able to recreate magic with pictures .. am gonna ask u to do something for me .. can u pls cut a collage ... of the wall paper pics of Raman ..
  
  
  First the 2 pics as they appear to Ishita in the beginning .. then all the steps Raman takes .. first he shows her a pic of a dinosaur .. then he supposedly edits a pic of ruhi & Ishita ... but he edits the pic which was taken pre marriage .. outside the COURTROOM .. not the one during marriage ...
  
  
  I am sure the moment u do this collage ur disappointment with the supposed barbs will go ...
  
  
  But anyways .. as promised .. here are my 2 cents on the pic therapy ...
  
  
  The first thing to note is .. whats his expression during the barb .. he is smiling .. so he is in a teasing mode ..
  Now note the next thing .. he puts a picture of a dinosaur .. someone who is even more older than the 150 year old dressing that Ishita is doing ...
  
  
  So first lets pause on this one ...
  Just a few days back he called her dressing sense archaic .. he compared her to Parineta .. the ultimate WIFE .. ardhangani ... a soul mate .. but someone who while she loved her husband .. could not express it to him .. she kept silent about her love ... today he called her a dinosaur .. someone who was EXTINCT in species .. someone who was living in the past ... he actually has started to tell her .. START LIVING IN THE PRESENT & FUTURE .. EMBRACE UR PRESENT .. ahem embrace their love ... & lets move to the FUTURE ...
  
  
  Then he edits a picture of hers ... note he does not edit the one taken post marriage but the pre one .. which is at the court house where Ruhi's custody hearing was undertaken .. its a pic on the day Ruhi selects Ishita as the person whom she would like to LIVE WITH ..
  What does he really do .. he just zooms the pic .. & moves it to one side ..he does not REMOVE Ishita from the pic at all ..
  
  
  Now note the next thing ... this pic was at the courthouse .. where all the PAST DIRT .. CRAP of RAMAN's house lived ... Shagun & Ashok ... this is the place where he REMOVED THE DIRT FROM HIS LIFE .. but Since Shagun was biological mother of Ruhi & also had custody of Aditya .. he could not remove her hand ... that he CANT & WILL NOT REMOVE ...
  
  
  It was during this custody battle ,.. when Raman won .. he mentions to Ashok & Shagun .. from my past all that i wanted i have TAKEN .. & all that I DONT WANT .. the DIRT . i HAVE THROWN OUT ... similarly .. during the licence track .. he mentions the same once again to ASHOK .. whatever i have thrown out of my life . the garbage is what u have .. i have already taken what i wanted from my past ...
  
  
  THE ONLY DIALOG TO FOCUS ON WAS ... " THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN MY LIFE"
  
  
  
  
  Often enuf .. the spoilers & speculations colour our impression of what we are seeing at present .. most people have reacted to the upcoming fight sequence that Raman & Ishita will have ... where he will say something really nasty to her .. but then note he is IN ANGER .. & he is FIGHTING with her .. (when that scene airs . will give the meaning of the same) ... hence the moment he teased her tonite .. what people focussed on was the barb .. but it was NOT A BARB at all ...
  He was teasing her ONLY ... getting a rise out of her ... but wrapped in all that tease was a beautiful reassurance .. just like after palak paneer he says .. Urs was way better than Shagun's ...(note the expressions in both the scene are the same .. they are teasing) he is simply reassuring her on his moving away from his past completely .. so that mam has the confidence to speak her heart to him 😉
  
  
  
  

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

Aww thank you! 🤗Coming from a brilliant writer like you.. I feel humbled. 😳

Sorry yaar, I don't have an index... I just have started posting here regularly since the rain dance episode I think.. Before that it was Ipk .. I was absent for months in the middle from IF

Originally posted by: redwine1

Today's episode didn't have one moment that captures your heart...it had a few that indicates possible gut-churning drops or turn in the roller coaster ride of YHM characters' journeys...

• Raman's mistaking his 'competition',
• Ishita's understanding of Raman's care about Shagun but baffled by his apparent indifference about her,
• Mani looking for someone understanding enough to raise someone else's kids,
• Ashok's allergy to being tagged as 'cheap' and also from his attention-seeking finacee ,
• Mihir taking Rs15 Lakh loan to fulfill his sister's grandiose wedding plans.,
• Mihika saying how tragic it is to be married to someone like Ashok
  
  ...they all have to be tied somehow to what's upcoming...
  
  
  Raman's conversation with Ishita after the party...probably came from his self-preservation mode...but his barbs were a bit cruel today. My feelings.
  
  
  
  
  Hello there once again ... beautiful pictures ...
  
  
  Since i dunno how to do it .. nor am i able to recreate magic with pictures .. am gonna ask u to do something for me .. can u pls cut a collage ... of the wall paper pics of Raman ..
  
  
  First the 2 pics as they appear to Ishita in the beginning .. then all the steps Raman takes .. first he shows her a pic of a dinosaur .. then he supposedly edits a pic of ruhi & Ishita ... but he edits the pic which was taken pre marriage .. outside the COURTROOM .. not the one during marriage ...
  
  
  I am sure the moment u do this collage ur disappointment with the supposed barbs will go ...
  
  
  But anyways .. as promised .. here are my 2 cents on the pic therapy ...
  
  
  The first thing to note is .. whats his expression during the barb .. he is smiling .. so he is in a teasing mode ..
  Now note the next thing .. he puts a picture of a dinosaur .. someone who is even more older than the 150 year old dressing that Ishita is doing ...
  
  
  So first lets pause on this one ...
  Just a few days back he called her dressing sense archaic .. he compared her to Parineta .. the ultimate WIFE .. ardhangani ... a soul mate .. but someone who while she loved her husband .. could not express it to him .. she kept silent about her love ... today he called her a dinosaur .. someone who was EXTINCT in species .. someone who was living in the past ... he actually has started to tell her .. START LIVING IN THE PRESENT & FUTURE .. EMBRACE UR PRESENT .. ahem embrace their love ... & lets move to the FUTURE ...
  
  
  Then he edits a picture of hers ... note he does not edit the one taken post marriage but the pre one .. which is at the court house where Ruhi's custody hearing was undertaken .. its a pic on the day Ruhi selects Ishita as the person whom she would like to LIVE WITH ..
  What does he really do .. he just zooms the pic .. & moves it to one side ..he does not REMOVE Ishita from the pic at all ..
  
  
  Now note the next thing ... this pic was at the courthouse .. where all the PAST DIRT .. CRAP of RAMAN's house lived ... Shagun & Ashok ... this is the place where he REMOVED THE DIRT FROM HIS LIFE .. but Since Shagun was biological mother of Ruhi & also had custody of Aditya .. he could not remove her hand ... that he CANT & WILL NOT REMOVE ...
  
  
  It was during this custody battle ,.. when Raman won .. he mentions to Ashok & Shagun .. from my past all that i wanted i have TAKEN .. & all that I DONT WANT .. the DIRT . i HAVE THROWN OUT ... similarly .. during the licence track .. he mentions the same once again to ASHOK .. whatever i have thrown out of my life . the garbage is what u have .. i have already taken what i wanted from my past ...
  
  
  THE ONLY DIALOG TO FOCUS ON WAS ... " THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN MY LIFE"
  
  
  
  
  Often enuf .. the spoilers & speculations colour our impression of what we are seeing at present .. most people have reacted to the upcoming fight sequence that Raman & Ishita will have ... where he will say something really nasty to her .. but then note he is IN ANGER .. & he is FIGHTING with her .. (when that scene airs . will give the meaning of the same) ... hence the moment he teased her tonite .. what people focussed on was the barb .. but it was NOT A BARB at all ...
  He was teasing her ONLY ... getting a rise out of her ... but wrapped in all that tease was a beautiful reassurance .. just like after palak paneer he says .. Urs was way better than Shagun's ...(note the expressions in both the scene are the same .. they are teasing) he is simply reassuring her on his moving away from his past completely .. so that mam has the confidence to speak her heart to him 😉