life is about how we act and react.. Updated - Page 3

loved ur points n collage too👏

Your editing makes those pictures tell a thousand tales! And your post very much sounds like YHM's premonition but having said that I think no one can untangle the delicate web laid by Ishita and Raman to protect their little family. Shagun, Adi, Param, Ashok, Suraj, Simmi and many more can come and go there unconventional relationship will only get stronger or so I hope lol

Well put...yes everything seemed to point towards a connection...dots which wait to be interlinked!

Nice points and a great way to describe it.

Originally posted by: redwine1

• First the 2 pics as they appear to Ishita in the beginning .. then all the steps Raman takes .. first he shows her a pic of a dinosaur .. then he supposedly edits a pic of ruhi & Ishita ... but he edits the pic which was taken pre marriage .. outside the COURTROOM .. not the one during marriage ...
  
  
  I am sure the moment u do this collage ur disappointment with the supposed barbs will go ...
  
  
  But anyways .. as promised .. here are my 2 cents on the pic therapy ...
  
  
  The first thing to note is .. whats his expression during the barb .. he is smiling .. so he is in a teasing mode ..
  Now note the next thing .. he puts a picture of a dinosaur .. someone who is even more older than the 150 year old dressing that Ishita is doing ...
  
  
  So first lets pause on this one ...
  Just a few days back he called her dressing sense archaic .. he compared her to Parineta .. the ultimate WIFE .. ardhangani ... a soul mate .. but someone who while she loved her husband .. could not express it to him .. she kept silent about her love ... today he called her a dinosaur .. someone who was EXTINCT in species .. someone who was living in the past ... he actually has started to tell her .. START LIVING IN THE PRESENT & FUTURE .. EMBRACE UR PRESENT .. ahem embrace their love ... & lets move to the FUTURE ...
  
  
  Then he edits a picture of hers ... note he does not edit the one taken post marriage but the pre one .. which is at the court house where Ruhi's custody hearing was undertaken .. its a pic on the day Ruhi selects Ishita as the person whom she would like to LIVE WITH ..
  What does he really do .. he just zooms the pic .. & moves it to one side ..he does not REMOVE Ishita from the pic at all ..
  
  
  Now note the next thing ... this pic was at the courthouse .. where all the PAST DIRT .. CRAP of RAMAN's house lived ... Shagun & Ashok ... this is the place where he REMOVED THE DIRT FROM HIS LIFE .. but Since Shagun was biological mother of Ruhi & also had custody of Aditya .. he could not remove her hand ... that he CANT & WILL NOT REMOVE ...
  
  
  It was during this custody battle ,.. when Raman won .. he mentions to Ashok & Shagun .. from my past all that i wanted i have TAKEN .. & all that I DONT WANT .. the DIRT . i HAVE THROWN OUT ... similarly .. during the licence track .. he mentions the same once again to ASHOK .. whatever i have thrown out of my life . the garbage is what u have .. i have already taken what i wanted from my past ...
  
  
  THE ONLY DIALOG TO FOCUS ON WAS ... " THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN MY LIFE"
  
  
  
  
  Often enuf .. the spoilers & speculations colour our impression of what we are seeing at present .. most people have reacted to the upcoming fight sequence that Raman & Ishita will have ... where he will say something really nasty to her .. but then note he is IN ANGER .. & he is FIGHTING with her .. (when that scene airs . will give the meaning of the same) ... hence the moment he teased her tonite .. what people focussed on was the barb .. but it was NOT A BARB at all ...
  He was teasing her ONLY ... getting a rise out of her ... but wrapped in all that tease was a beautiful reassurance .. just like after palak paneer he says .. Urs was way better than Shagun's ...(note the expressions in both the scene are the same .. they are teasing) he is simply reassuring her on his moving away from his past completely .. so that mam has the confidence to speak her heart to him 😉
  
  
  
  

Gandhari ... right ... beautiful thoughts and even a better presentation of these thoughts via the amazing collage ... sometimes our actions or words may end up as our destiny ... we just do not know about it ...

It will be interesting to watch out how all this will turn out to be ... I dunno but I still have high hopes for MiMi. I think this is a well calculated move by the CV's to present wrong information to the viewers and therefore keep them hooked with the series ... they will discuss and create a havoc but ultimately heave a sigh of relief when MiMi happens ... amen to my thought 😆

Coming down to the personal barbs ... last week, I had supported RKB's behavior in one of the posts when he had not given any attention to Ishita while she was enthusiastically sharing about Mani ... I did it because I felt it was normal ... he had a hard day at work and was too pre-occupied with it to give attention to his wife's evening adventures ...
However, to be frank, the Kachra dialogue pinched me as well ... and even Ruby's interpretation did not provide as a solace for what he did ...

My two cents about why I think what I do

In today's scenario ... Both Raman and Ishita have already moved on from the Sirf Ruhi ke Liye phase but have not accepted it to themselves .. forget about to each other.. they have not accepted it to themselves ...

The acceptance is there but with a veil ... Raman agreed she looks nice in photos or he was worried that she went out after decking up so much .. he is accepting her as a woman ..

On the other hand, Ishita has accepted a bit more with the car scene or the r u jealous of Sanjana scene when she is cornered by him ... she is affected by his proximity ... i have not mentioned rain dance scene on purpose because it was all about healing for both of them ..

So, if I put myself in their shoes, I will say both of them are walking on egg shells right now ... a while ago a barb like this may not have affected her at all ... she would have reiterated with Ravan Kumar or something similar ...

BUT ... in this scenarios ... she is appreciating the fact that he has put her photograph on the phone ... whose photo do u put on ur phone? any Tom Dick Harry in your life ... or let me ask ... would Raman put Ishita's photo on his phone a few weeks into his marriage ...

so, it is clear that both of them kind of accept that a change has occurred ... but just to maintain the same facade ... Raman again goes back to first remove it ... he cropped it and put Ruhi's photo instead ... and then called out ... i have removed the kachra ...

Now, imagine a woman who is struggling with her innerself about the fact that is she attracted to this man who happens to be her husband ... her brain says no .. he is one idiot with no emotions at all .. her heart says ... look out beyond the surface ...

In this, an exact ante-thesis of her husband appears, who respects her, understands her ... in short ... forces her to compare ...
That is when it starts to pinch ... till now she never complained that he has an acidic tongue .. but with Mani she got sad for a moment that why does her husband does not talk to her in this manner too ...

So, as a woman first and a wife later, the barbs were way off the limit and anger me ... but even if I agree with them considering the ever acidic tongue of RKB, ideally it shouldn't have been accepted given the conditions both of them are now in ...

IMO, the best move will be to give a silent treatment to her husband and show him that he cannot say anything and everything to her even if he treats her as Ruhi's mom .. she is a woman first ... then anything else later ...

Cheers

Bhanu

Originally posted by: btalwar

Gandhari ... right ... beautiful thoughts and even a better presentation of these thoughts via the amazing collage ... sometimes our actions or words may end up as our destiny ... we just do not know about it ...

However, to be frank, the Kachra dialogue pinched me as well ... and even Ruby's interpretation did not provide as a solace for what he did ...

My two cents about why I think what I do

In today's scenario ... Both Raman and Ishita have already moved on from the Sirf Ruhi ke Liye phase but have not accepted it to themselves .. forget about to each other.. they have not accepted it to themselves ...

The acceptance is there but with a veil ... Raman agreed she looks nice in photos or he was worried that she went out after decking up so much .. he is accepting her as a woman ..

Is it only that she looks nice in PICS ... does he need a whole score of pics to compare which angle she looks best in ... 😉

On the other hand, Ishita has accepted a bit more with the car scene or the r u jealous of Sanjana scene when she is cornered by him ... she is affected by his proximity ... i have not mentioned rain dance scene on purpose because it was all about healing for both of them ..

So, if I put myself in their shoes, I will say both of them are walking on egg shells right now ... a while ago a barb like this may not have affected her at all ... she would have reiterated with Ravan Kumar or something similar ...

BUT ... in this scenarios ... she is appreciating the fact that he has put her photograph on the phone ... whose photo do u put on ur phone? any Tom Dick Harry in your life ... or let me ask ... would Raman put Ishita's photo on his phone a few weeks into his marriage ...

Now clearly the FIRST PIC is of ISHITA & RUHI is pre marriage .. it was IN THE PHONE only .. he is NOW putting it as his WALLPAPER ...

where earlier it was hidden in a picture folder .. today its for the world to see

NEED I SAY MORE 😳

so, it is clear that both of them kind of accept that a change has occurred ... but just to maintain the same facade ... Raman again goes back to first remove it ... he cropped it and put Ruhi's photo instead ... and then called out ... i have removed the kachra ...


DOES HE CROP IT .. he ZOOMS the pic ( its in the shot itself .. then he shifts the screen) ... he says SAARA AAS PAAS KA KACHRA NIKAL DIYA MAINE ... ALL UNWANTED THINGS GONE ... but HAVE NOT REMOVED THE HAND ...

he removes everything in the pic .. that he did not want .. UNWANTED .. ONLY 2 things are in MICRO FOCUS ... RUHI & ISHIMAA ... he has not cropped her HAND out of the pic . he has not removed her at alll


Now, imagine a woman who is struggling with her innerself about the fact that is she attracted to this man who happens to be her husband ... her brain says no .. he is one idiot with no emotions at all .. her heart says ... look out beyond the surface ...

In this, an exact ante-thesis of her husband appears, who respects her, understands her ... in short ... forces her to compare ...
That is when it starts to pinch ... till now she never complained that he has an acidic tongue .. but with Mani she got sad for a moment that why does her husband does not talk to her in this manner too ...

NOW at the end of this DIALOG as well . .she did not complain .. she did a bit of nakhra .. she never COMPLAINED OR COMPARED .. in thot or in words

So, as a woman first and a wife later, the barbs were way off the limit and anger me ... but even if I agree with them considering the ever acidic tongue of RKB, ideally it shouldn't have been accepted given the conditions both of them are now in ...

IMO, the best move will be to give a silent treatment to her husband and show him that he cannot say anything and everything to her even if he treats her as Ruhi's mom .. she is a woman first ... then anything else later ...

Cheers

Bhanu

Ruby edited my reply 😊

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

Thank you...even I'm hmmm as I wanted to make sense of what the episode was all about...especially Raman's 'kacchra' mart miffed me a little bit...I felt the CVs took it a bit too far. 🤢