Raman should/should not yell....

Very well said...👏👏👏👏

Originally posted by: Lekz

Very well said...👏👏👏👏

However ...

Romance as you describe is definitely not what I expect, nonetheless Raman's behaviour does irk at times. My problem is the two not having one meaningful conversation if not when others around, at least in the close confines of their room...

All they do is, one goes off on a tangent doing what she feels is right which is so most of the times and the other screaming and yelling not waiting to give a patient hearing...

Like after the accident-Shagun drama when Raman walked into Ishita's office and broke down...

Or like the short and sweet reminiscence of the past yesterday...

I understand the writers aren't ready for the love track yet, it is also not real blowing off the lid at every drop of a hat...for no rhyme or reason...

In real life it would take extreme patience to endure such behaviour...

Having said this I truly believe Raman has come a long way in this relationship...I think he does not mean most of the things he says when angry and realizes that she means only good in her actions...

Kabhi dil khol ke bol bhi diya karo Raman Kumar Bhalla.

Originally posted by: madhubala123

These kind of posts have been revolving in the forum for the past 2 days. I'm yet to see yesterday's epi but from the saturday n Monday episode I have seen Raman yelling at Ishita. Before tht when the news came tht Ishu is bringing Shagun home, every1 here wanted him to shout at her!!

Well, I'm no one to say whether he should or should not yell.

But if we really want Raman to soften towards Ishu, then gradually we will lose our IshRa and the things that make them unique. If we are complaining about family problems and IshRa solving them then it will gradually lead to meaningless parties as if they r the only thing tht happen in real life, unnecessary balance problem for the lead as they fall on each other and longgg eye-locks, hair flowing in the wind and the unearthly romantic hero who believes that his wife is the angel from heaven and he loves her till the end of the world and he would never say a word against her!! Phewww...which man does that?? 😆 😆 😆 and thats y I love Raman. His reactions are believable and I can relate him to the men I see in my real life. He wont lift his wife in his arms or move the lock of hair on her face which blows in the wind but he would stand up for her always and also show every motion of his to her only. Raman is a very genuine and realistic portrayal of an average Indian man. In that case I don't find his reaction to Ishu's follies unreasonable. Thats y YHM is different as here there is no separate track called hero's realisation track, heroine's realisation track, romance track where the man supports his lady blindly, MU track, confession and consummation track. In real life there is no such formula. At times we feel so much love for someone and at some other times we just wish we could push them away..all happens within a matter of a few days . Love has no such phase and somehow I find YHM shows that.

Agree with you and very well said.. 😊 Raman and Ishu are portrayed as normal common humans.. I like that about them..

yaar u just told out my dil ki baat...its high time raman learns to cntrl his temper n stop yelling at ishu... yesterdy's epi also he yelled at ishu telling dat "ab kya mere sarr pe chadd jaogi"...or sumthin of dat sort😕 dont remembr😆 bt ya i felt it really annoying n ishu must also strt behaving like a wife n express hr anger sometimes...ishu is sho sweet n nvr gets angry at raman, no matter hw much rude he is!!!...its good to be sweet bt itna sweet bhi nhi hona chahiye ki logo ko diabetic ho jaye!!!😡😆