New Bakra in YHM land.... - Page 8

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

In start of the show during some ceremony at bala home Vandita clearly said that subbu and ishita should not come face to face in same function. Either ishita or subbu anyone of them only invited not both because it will hurt ishita and I hope Vandita talk to her about it and ishita will understand why raman was angry

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

I would agree to this argument if Ishita doesn't understand those feelings that Raman harbour for her... She understands that Raman gets hurt when someone insults her, she understands the hiden meaning in his taunts but why not this?

I mean Raman teases Ishita about their current relatioship status but he has never played with her concerning his past with Shagun... He has always made that clear to her... Even during accident track, Raman confessed at the end that it was Adi whom he did all that for and NOT SHAGUN...

She understands that Raman gets affected because of Subbu but why not this? Problem is suddenly they are maknig Ishita mahaan and dumb...

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

Yes... She needs someone to explain the actual situation to her... I don't think it has got anything to do with moving on... She is a woman who has cheated the whole family... Its not easy to take her in his room...

Just hope Ishita understands the same in the right context...

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

And she is still haunting them with her mu bola bf and one more person added param. She isnt leaving any stone to hurt raman and bhalla

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

In start of the show during some ceremony at bala home Vandita clearly said that subbu and ishita should not come face to face in same function. Either ishita or subbu anyone of them only invited not both because it will hurt ishita and I hope Vandita talk to her about it and ishita will understand why raman was angry

Originally posted by: sophee72

Loved the post Kri (I hope thats how I address you? 😊) and agree with it 100%.

For the supporters of Ishita, it's not about taking sides of your favorite characters...where my heart wants to support Raman, I've always connected more with Ishita. So it pains us all to see her (read CVs) making a mess of her character. And two wrongs have never made a right! We cannot justify Ishita's behaviour with the counter argument of Raman's behaviour in the past. And even if we do, Ishita will again come across as the loser. In every thing that Raman did wrong by Ishita, he was shown to be aware of it and even repented for it. The instances have all been mentioned in the previous posts so not going to go into the details. But here, the CVs have taken a stubborn stance where Ishita obviously is making some decision errors but she's not shown to regret it. In fact, she is adamant that its the only way and she is absolutely correct in her actions. Bringing Param back per se was not wrong...but taking a decision on her own, on matters that will affect everyone else is simply arrogant if not selfish. Again something that is anathema to Ishita's character. And that is where the forum waasis disappointed with Ishita have an issue with the CVs. Helping a drunk woman in the middle of the night is the humane thing to do and nothing wrong with it. But again, this someone is an individual who has hurt so many people...this woman was the sole reason Mr Bhalla had stopped all communication with his eldest son for more than six years. So again to surprise the whole family with this late night unwanted guest was arrogant if not selfish and there we have butchering of Ishita's character once again. As if that was not enough, Ishita tries to convince Mrs Bhalla and Raman that they were being self centred prigs in not understanding Shagun (and Ishita's) plight. And also accommodates this woman in her husband's bed. Common courtesy demands to at least ask your spouse how they feel about having someone (yahan to ex thi yaroon!!) in their bedroom. But again Ishita decides to take the decision and parks Shagun in their room. Sanctity of marriage ko tu goli maro, basic manners mein hi puch leti!!! When did Ishita become so insensitive to people around her? That is what most of us cannot comprehend or accept. And Im hoping the CVs can do something to get her out of this mess.

Originally posted by: RheaSh

Exactly. At that time Ishita was over Subbu, but it still hurt her that she couldn't conceive. Though I don't think Ishita now will get hurt seeing Subbu in a function, just the same way it doesn't affect Raman seeing Shagun in a party. But seeing Shagun in his bed hurts him because unlike Ishita-Subu who never shared bed, Raman-Shagun were married for six years.

Originally posted by: pomegranate

I don't think it is a matter of ishita knowing whether raman is still hung up on shagun or not. I just think ishita is very dense when it comes to relationships and Men. god knows what she did with subbu for 12 years.