Originally posted by: JUHI.HI
@ red
hey buddy ...
i hav read so many post abt ishu nt caring fr raman n etc etc... one must understnd dat ishu does care fr raman bt her love n concern fr raman came much later...it was her goodness which raman fell fr,...n her goodness ovr powers all her insecurity!!!
just bcz ishu got shagun to bhalla house, it doesnt mean dat ishu nvr cared fr him...ishu was the oly supporting pillar fr raman when evryone was against him!!!...during d accident track, when evryone was against raman its was she who sent ruhi to raman to give him some support evn though she herself was shattered by raman's action...she gave more preference to raman's pain than hers...
this can happen oly when u love sum1 more than u!!!...n ishu loves raman more than herself!!...ishu feels raman's pain...in d second half of the serial when ishu was shown crying...she wasnt cryin cz odrs were scolding her or dint understnd her view point...she was crying cz she knows she has hurt raman wid her actions...wat she feels dat raman is affected by shagun evn nw... she doesn noe dat raman is ovr shagun completely...
whras on d odr side raman was crying cz he has hurt ishu...he was bothered abt his "WIFE"...his "JKR"... both were disturbed cz both of them realisesd each other's pain..
its nt easy fr a wife to get ur hubby's ex to ur house, then too in d same room...bt she was left wid no odr option...she cud hav taken shagun to some one else's room, bt d bhallas were vry ignorant..they were nt ready to evn listen to her...so she had no odr option odr dan to take hr to her bedroom (which is wrng...i agree...bt she was helpless..)...nw in ekta's serial if we hunt fr any logic, thats vague...frankly spking she had many odr option bt as per d serial track she dint any option..
but dis step of her doesnt say dat she doesnt undrstnd raman well or she doesnt care fr raman...ishu has always given raman more preference dan herself... bt one cn nt forego her goodness.. it was her goodness who was able to tame down a rude father, an arrogant man, an emotionless person into a person whom we love that is "RAMAN KUMAR BHALLA"... it was her goodness which made us love her...else in real situation which girl wud marry a guy who has bet his son so badly dat his son is scared of him n opted fr his mother (at d beginning of the epi...adi's custody)...though these were wrng allegations bt fr ishu she thought dat to be d truth...still she married raman, just fr ruhi...cz she cudnt see hr little princess's pain...she knew her life wud be horrible wid him, bt still she agreed fr d marriage...why??? its bcz of hr goodness...its her goodness which had made us love hr n raman too... her goodness is a part of her n one must accept dis...!!!...
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