New Bakra in YHM land.... - Page 5

Originally posted by: mnr123

I liked wid ur post n agree wwid u that Ishita is wrong in firstly gettibg Shagun Home without asking Bhalla family members n then putting her in Raman n her bed, she cudve left her on couch which was better than d road Shagun was lying on.

Secondly I too wud liike Cvs to show a proper closure to mess created by Ishita n also she learning something out f it.

Thirdly dont get how can people compare Ramans mistakes n justify Ishitas act here? If ur spouse is committing mistake wud u b stupid enough to create more mistakes in ur life or sort out problems. Just because ur spouse was wrong on certain occassion it doesnt give u a right to make mistakes nn get even with them. This is not true relatiionship its just a competition f who will create more mistakes.

N lets call a spade a spade. Ishita is wrong here she needs to understand her husband too. Let repent over her recent actions.

That's one fabulous comment... I second you on that... She could have put her in the place where Raman slept...

Dunno how people are comparing this track with accident track... TO some extent, Raman was actually helpless there but here, its nothing more than foolishness...

Ishita has committed a grave and she must do the needed to repair the damage done... I don't want cv's to skip the same and go on with the next track... Mi Mi marriage...

Thanks for this lovely comment...

Nice post dear... i really don't understand why CV's doing this with the cherecter of ishita... like everyone said in there posts ishita should not have taken shagun to ishra bedroom... really felt bad for raman... toshi ji's dilouges were bang on... plzz ishita itna mahaan banne ki zarurat nai hai... and plzz CV's spare us frm this Mahaanta..

Originally posted by: Oishi_sonu

Really Kri, they are making a bakra of Ishu's character. I was okay with everything she did, from helping Shagun to bringing her home until she placed Shagun in their bedroom. On top of that, unlike Raman who was drowning in guilt during the accident track, Ishita didn't have an ounce of regret, instead she was trying to make everyone believe she is always right. That isn't Ishita. During accident track, with the guilt added, Raman' character was saved but here in this "what is the track" they are butchering Ishita' character and in the process a bit of Raman too by making him just a silent spectator with no dialogues this days.

Yes... You pointed out another major mistake committed by Ishita... Ishita whom we saw yesterday couldn't realise the mistake that she committed... She was like no one wants to listen to my stand which was unrealistic... If this is how its going to move on, it means that we have lost that Ishita whom we people loved...

She must convince Raman before gearing up for another big drama... She wore that saree for Mi Mi marriage... But, somewhere i'm expecting Ishita to convince Raman too... Let us see...

Thanks for commenting Oishi... Loved that comment of yours...

Originally posted by: s_kavya

Nice post dear... i really don't understand why CV's doing this with the cherecter of ishita... like everyone said in there posts ishita should not have taken shagun to ishra bedroom... really felt bad for raman... toshi ji's dilouges were bang on... plzz ishita itna mahaan banne ki zarurat nai hai... and plzz CV's spare us frm this Mahaanta..

Thanks for liking this post... cv's have butchered her character... All that we can hope is for a proper apology... Let us see if cv's are going to give that...

Thanks for commenting...

Lol this bakra is temporary. Favourite and king bakra will take his place soon. Right now he is on rest 😆

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

Being a woman, I too would have done the same no matter how much bad she did to me.
Now, bringing her to Bhalla house. As CVs themselves showed why she did this. Ashok's one was restricted, her mom is a hyper woman always, she could have been ill while shouting and reacting. These two points are justified.
Now coming to putting her in 'Her' place in the bed. Well, I don't think it was never her place at least when Raman is on the bed alone. It's just Ruhi's mom's place when she is on that bad. And, by this, both Ishita and Shagun have the same place as being Ruhi's mother...one real mom, one biological mother.
Then, coming to why only Raman's room or bed.
Well, someone said that she could've been put in the hall room couch. When you know, there's a Param in the house, will you allow a woman, forget she is your husband's ex, will you allow her to stay open in that hall room? Ishita is a woman, she will think of another woman's respect obviously being a well cultured family girl. She won't allow that.
She could have taken her to Ruhi's room as it is too suggested by someone else in another post. And, some argued that if Ruhi knows that Shagun was in Raman's room, how she would react. If any of the Bhallas don't tell this to her, then how she would know what happened at night, where Shagun slept and all? And, I don't think even Simmi will reveal this to Ruhi.
About others' room, Ishita herself knows that no one is gonna allow her to do that. Only room is left Raman's room, which is her own room also. She has right over that room, she has even right to give shelter to a ruined woman in that room. Here, some may question that she could have put her in the couch of that room. A normal person even can't sleep there properly, how can a drunkard person will be put there properly?
Now, coming to why she dint tell Raman from before hand. I won't go in any comparison with Raman and Ishita's actions. Just want to say that as we all know Raman, he wouldn't allow Ishita to bring Shagun to their house. That's obvious, and if he did that I would have also appreciated that. No one would have allowed in his place. But, then what would have happened to that woman Shagun? Where would have Ishita taken her? To a hotel? We don't know how far any hotel is from that place. We don't even know if Ishita had enough money to reserve a room for her. We don't even know if Ishita came to her house to take money from home, she would have been allowed to leave the house again or not after knowing the reason.

That Ruhi's mom wala justification... Is that easy for a woman to think like that? If this act was committed by Ishita during the initial days of marriage, then i'll happily agree with you because they was not any relation that could get spoilt... Now, both of them have accepted each other as husband and wife...more than Ruhi's mom and dad... Both of them are still shying away from displaying the same and the tension between them due to this progress in their relationship is not letting them share the same bed... That doesn't mean that Ishita can make Shagun sleep in her place... She's Ruhi's mom but Raman's ex-wife which must have struck Ishita in the first place... She has her right in her room but Raman has equal rights too... According to me, no wife can even think about something like that... When i'm against Ishita bringing Shagun into her room, question about that couch doesn't arise...

Param is not going to rape Shagun while Simmi is in that house... Itna parva hai toh wahi baitkar dhyan bhi rakhna chahiye...

Regarding Ruhi's room, she could have put Ruhi elsewhere... In her room or Toshi's room...

Yes, Raman is impulsive but he's not stupid enough to instrct Ishita to throw Shagun on the road... He is the same person who lectured Ashok on respecting woman when Tyagi tried to misbehave with Shagun... He would have definitely found a way rather than getting surprised when he was all geared up to apologise to his wife...

Regarding hotel, i never said that... Its something stupid too... She should have asked for help rather than handling things on her own...

Thanks for commenting...

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Lol this bakra is temporary. Favourite and king bakra will take his place soon. Right now he is on rest 😆

As u said ishita need to learn that shw can also be wrong. Even during court drama she said to raman that she never did anything wrong in her life but that doesn't mean that her action never hurt anyone 🤔

Raman was wrong during accident track and hr realised his mistake and he was juggling between right and wrong but here ishita doesn't even want to think that what blunder she made 😛

After accident blunder raman apologised to ishita and did special for her like picnic track. After every mistake it's raman who rectified his mistake and took initiative to apologised ishita I want ishita do same in future (I know too much expectation. 😆)

Even divyanka said uski band bajegi that means she also feelsher act was wrong 😛

Exactly yaar... Raman commits mistakes but he repents for the same and tries to rectify the same... Here, madamji doesn't have any regret at all...

Even i'm expecting her to apologise and do something special... Pata nahi kya hoga aur hume kya milega... Just hope babaji ki thullu na mile... Been getting that regularly now...😆

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

@bold... True... Ishita doesn't understand Raman well... Somewhere, she's still ignorant of the pain which she gave Raman...

I just hope she seeks Raman's apology soon...

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

That Ruhi's mom wala justification... Is that easy for a woman to think like that? If this act was committed by Ishita during the initial days of marriage, then i'll happily agree with you because they was not any relation that could get spoilt... Now, both of them have accepted each other as husband and wife...more than Ruhi's mom and dad... Both of them are still shying away from displaying the same and the tension between them due to this progress in their relationship is not letting them share the same bed... That doesn't mean that Ishita can make Shagun sleep in her place... She's Ruhi's mom but Raman's ex-wife which must have struck Ishita in the first place... She has her right in her room but Raman has equal rights too... According to me, no wife can even think about something like that... When i'm against Ishita bringing Shagun into her room, question about that couch doesn't arise...

Param is not going to rape Shagun while Simmi is in that house... Itna parva hai toh wahi baitkar dhyan bhi rakhna chahiye...

Regarding Ruhi's room, she could have put Ruhi elsewhere... In her room or Toshi's room...

Yes, Raman is impulsive but he's not stupid enough to instrct Ishita to throw Shagun on the road... He is the same person who lectured Ashok on respecting woman when Tyagi tried to misbehave with Shagun... He would have definitely found a way rather than getting surprised when he was all geared up to apologise to his wife...

Regarding hotel, i never said that... Its something stupid too... She should have asked for help rather than handling things on her own...

Thanks for commenting...

I answered the same in another post.
Raman may not think of himself, but his mom...she wouldn't tolerate it. So, I guess he would've said no, as it is difficult for him to see Shagun in his own house😲.
About being Ruhi's mom...it's not insulting Ruhi. Ishita always tried to keep Ruhi's both parents in good terms in Ruhi's eyes. Even Ruhi too understands now that if there was no Shagun, she too wouldn't have been there. This fact, no one can't deny. And, that thought is not Ishita's, it's my thought as I saw someone saying 'her' place😆.
Last point, we have seen Param trying to molest Ishita, when his wife and MIL were there at home and all awake. Now, Shagun is senseless, everyone is sleeping, he can try a hit on her, we never know.