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Posted: 11 years ago
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well buddy...nice post...
hmm...ishra always had love in their relatnship...it was love fr ruhi...evryone has different understnding of love... bt any relatnship, be it be parental, friendly or nanythin fr dis matter has love... u cant sacrifice fr sum1 u dont love... ishita-raman relatnship also strted wid love...it was nt love fr each odr bt it was love fr their daughter "ruhi"...well if u ask me...personally i feel love is a "connect"... n their (ishra) connect was ruhi...


nw goin to ishra relationship...these two were strangers...latr misundrstndings brew between d two n they strted hating each odr...bt they still came tghtr fr their love- ruhi... they both love bt oly their way of expressing it was different...evrytym raman goes harsh wid ruhi, he feels more pain dan ruhi... ishu realised it...ishu cudnt see dat pain in ruhi n dats y she tried to bridge d relatn between ruhi-raman... she did dis cz she loves ruhi n she cant see hr in pain... during dis tenure of raman to ruhi's papa, ishra became frnds... dis frndship paved way to respect... during param fiasco, when ishu ws alleged of havin an affair wid param...raman dint believe it...cz he respected ishu n he knows dat ishu isnt any woman to dat kind... during the accident track, these two became each odr's support... thier relatn had gone through the hardest time bt they stood against all d odds... this paved way frm respect to husband-wife relatn... n the so called "physical attraction" or "marital relation" is still undr contructn... they arent completely fallen in love wid each odr... they are slowly falling in love... one neednt oly need to fall inlove bt also build this love... so this phase is yet to come to their relatn... as of nw we can oly see husband-wife bt nt lovers... this love is undr constructn..

bt ya ISHRA always had love...it was RUHI who got them tghtr...😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Muskaan00

I totally feel i get weird thoughts and i think way to much after watching and getting addicted to this show rather the characters Ishita and Raman , one of my weird thoughs which has been bothering me for quite some days, i expect some answers to convince myself of their acts!

I wouldnt disagree these two are one of the most beautiful characters well thought of and executed by the creatives, they amaze me with their gestures and acts towards each other and the situations!

While i totally love them and want them to fall in love and confess it to each other, there is one question tat keeps bothering me! Cos these two beautiful characters are so realistic and i believe somewhere u me and everyone out there could relate now or infuture could face similar situations in their life!

Is falling in love the only choice for both of them? Let me make my question clear!

Its pretty evident they are very attracted to each other!

But is it the only choice? Agreed love is important for any hus-wife relation but we all know this is an unconventional relation and love is not necessary, now my question is love the only option?Its is not as though it is love at first sight , we havent seen witsnessed any dramatic romantic moment as in other serials , Raman is quite vulnerable, i agree , considering wat he has gone through , they have done so many things for each other , sacrifices and have been supportive , yes agreed but why love, why can they start off as friends , atleast the gradual realisation from friendship they to love would have been more b'ful in my opinion!

It started with hate , and quickly to love?

Is it vulnerability , or is it really love, is love the only choice?

Am sorry if am not getting to the point staright or i am confusing, is it really love or is it the support and sacrifice that has been labelled ''love''


Love has many definitions but the fundamental one is acceptance. If these two can accept the other for who they are then they are in love in the true sense. They can be expressed in many ways...physical intimacy, emotional support, mentally matched up, telepathic connection, moral support etc. It's up to each couple to express themselves in the way it works for them. Some couples are more touchy others are not...that doesn't mean they love each other any less. The personalities express themselves in a way that feels real for them.

For Raman taunts and yelling at his loved ones is a given...he treats his mother, Ishu, Romi and Ruhi much the same way. Teasing is a form of foreplay between some couples. Ishu expresses herself by being supportive, doing things to show how much she cares.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well i complitely agree with u they could remain friends...i got ur point...
But i just hope once they had fallen in love, their friendship wont disapear

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