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From the beginning of this accident track I'm stood for Raman. because I believed in his character. he caught between two big things Love and Care. he really didn't know how to accept the truth that accident made by his own son. he didn't know what to do. I always feel punishments for kid doesn't make them good. not only kid every human needs love and care. with out love and care we can't change anyone. same here a rich spoilt kid deem as worth only by love and care not by punishment and scare. now on Raman case he doesn't know whether to save son for love or punish him to make good for care. he can't punish adi because adi isn't spoiled by blind love but parental careless. every child need parental love and care else his or her life will spoil. he didn't know how can he punish adi when ashok and shagun did mistake. in p.o.v of love he tried to save him from mistake of parental careless. in p.o.v of care he need adi to learn his mistake whether adi feel bad or not. he didn't know what to do. he choosed JDC. he didn't know whether it is good decision of bad decision. But he took this decision not because punishment for adi (how can we punish alone.) because of adi to commit no more mistakes and realise his own standard. that's why he compromised himself for his most lovable son. in case adi get custody we can't tell he will be good but far better than staying with shagun.till today I didn't state Raman is right or wrong because we have our own morals so do Raman. even today I won't state Raman is right or wrong but I have to state he did everything for love and care. I don't know will you accept Raman or not but myself Raman not only justified himself , he justified myself too. he kept my trust. I must thank him whether he is real or not.

Originally posted by: suseesuez

From the beginning of this accident track I'm stood for Raman. because I believed in his character. he caught between two big things Love and Care. he really didn't know how to accept the truth that accident made by his own son. he didn't know what to do. I always feel punishments for kid doesn't make them good. not only kid every human needs love and care. with out love and care we can't change anyone. same here a rich spoilt kid deem as worth only by love and care not by punishment and scare. now on Raman case he doesn't know whether to save son for love or punish him to make good for care. he can't punish adi because adi isn't spoiled by blind love but parental careless. every child need parental love and care else his or her life will spoil. he didn't know how can he punish adi when ashok and shagun did mistake. in p.o.v of love he tried to save him from mistake of parental careless. in p.o.v of care he need adi to learn his mistake whether adi feel bad or not. he didn't know what to do. he choosed JDC. he didn't know whether it is good decision of bad decision. But he took this decision not because punishment for adi (how can we punish alone.) because of adi to commit no more mistakes and realise his own standard. that's why he compromised himself for his most lovable son. in case adi get custody we can't tell he will be good but far better than staying with shagun.till today I didn't state Raman is right or wrong because we have our own morals so do Raman. even today I won't state Raman is right or wrong but I have to state he did everything for love and care. I don't know will you accept Raman or not but myself Raman not only justified himself , he justified myself too. he kept my trust. I must thank him whether he is real or not.

I agree n it will b easier for Raman to prove in court that Ashok n shagun r not deemed to b worthy parents who can provide the much needed love and comfort to the kid ... Hopefully Adi will return to Raman n Adi will receive his due love and care from Bhalla family ...

@mnr adi believes her mother is good for him.so he hated Raman.if Raman got ADI's custody,adi would see him as bad and try to give problems. he can't be happy.that's may Raman left him at shagun.when adi understand Raman love everything will become fine.

Well, Raman could've done this way before. He now suddenly decides to do this. Am damn sure, it's Ishita who made him realize this, who made him take the right decision after their coming conversation.. Only if he would have talked with Ishita at the first hand, all these messes wouldn't have been created. Adi will still hate him. What if Ishita never forgave him? I know, Ishita forgave him, she is just like that..doesn't take anything to heart that much. But, if Ishita dint forgive him, he would have ended up losing Ruhi's respect too. For me, he isn't justified still fully. It's my opinion. So, no bashing is expected.

@Divz please don't take me wrong. you see Raman as wrong not because of Raman did mistake. because of you loves Ishita. simple psychology of justify their choices. that's why you see Raman as wrong person. consider prosecution and defence. you can understand the case better.

Originally posted by: suseesuez

@Divz please don't take me wrong. you see Raman as wrong not because of Raman did mistake. because of you loves Ishita. simple psychology to justify their choices. that's why you seem Raman as wrong person.

Sorry, but I dint say that Raman is wrong. I dint say even in this track. I always said he did mistakes which hurt others esp. Ishita. And hurting people for self interest is obvi wrong.
Yeah...I like Ishita character, but I love Raman's character equally, at least I loved it before this track. Now, my respect and love for this character has reduced and that I agree. I can't help it. And, yeah, I said he isn't justified fully to me, but half. If he sets his mind not to be so obsessed about Adi leading to any further mistakes, he will be fully back as the RKB I loved.
Ok..no worries, it's our opinions na..it would vary, you would find justification for Raman, I would not. It's not that serious. So, don't take me also wrong friend😳.
BTW, this track has given us insights to arguments😆.

i feel watevr he thought (sendin adi to JDC) is bcs of ishu...i dont mean dat ishu wud hav suggeted dis idea bt i feel dat ishu must hav made him realise his fault tellin dat adi needs a proper guidance!!! its nt raman's but ishu's "ravan kumar" who has taken dis decision!!!

@divz I agreed Raman hurting Ishita but matteris how. why should she get hurt when he hang with shagun. it's because she fall on him. if we have to under stand yhm, we have to travel from beginning. at pre marriage ishra got wrongdimensions about each other. at beginning Ishita thought Raman is love less and uncaring father. at engagement she told iyer that RanJanwon't get any love from her. at marriage share thought Raman is a monster who beat his son. at Dna track she got fishy about Raman shagunrelation. at shopping episode she said don't have to care Raman shagun relation but you can see slight disappointment in her expressions.at mihir engagement she stated him as friend. after speech she realised shagunhaunts Raman. at picnic she expressed her trust. at amma conversation she feels bad for she is unlucky to get Raman love. she did marriage for ruhi now she got nice sasural and two nice devars still she feels some empty. shecan lie herself but in heart she knows she deserves her husband's love and care. now in Raman case, Ishita got break down and hurt because Raman lies. but we forgot Raman trusted and loved blindly shagun. when she cheated him he caught break down like Ishita infact compare to Ishita he got ultimate hurt. helost trust on women. at pre marriage Raman thought ishita as gold digger. at marriage he understood her car towards ruhi. at DNA track he treated her as ruhi maa. at Holli track he realised Ishita and ruhi also important in his life. at engagement he treated her as friend. after speech agenda he shared his problem with her as well wisher. at anniversary party he gave a place with adi and ruhi.unbelievable ishra fall in love whom they hate most. it isn't because of compromise but their goodness did it.now they are emotionally attached. they gets hurt when other sites mistake.he never interfered in between ruhi and Ishita.as per deal he didn't do any mistakes.but problem is deal is no more. that why ishra hurt.if we want to understand Raman we have to understand Ishita. remember Param track when Ishita got to know about param she didn't try to get justice for sarika instead she thought to give another chance to param.why did she do .its because param is her relative and he has wife and daughter.that time we saw her as Mahan.she can give another chance to adult pervert brat param but if Raman did for spoilt kid we blame him as injustice selfish father.do you know why just because of we love some characters. that's why we trying to justify them without consulting opponent's points.if I did hurt forgive me.

@divz personally sorry for double post.I can't handle my new phone properly.it touch sensitivity is peek.single touch makes post before I edit.I think I need time.

What you said most are absolutely right.

But, Param did try to molest her, but couldn't fully na! She thought of giving him chance for a whole family. But, later, when he fully attacked her, she told everyone. Why isn't Raman doing the same? He now knows that Shagun is manipulating him and Adi isn't feeling guilty even, still he isn't telling this to anyone. IshRa's relationship has improved, trust is there, still he isn't telling. Ishita, in Param's case, dint trust Raman that way, their relation was still for Ruhi, still she told, cos she thought later this will create problem in families not only for her. Raman too saw that his family is hating him, still he isn't revealing. He is hiding this only for one person, only for his own self interest. Is it justifiable for you? Would you support such men? I donno about you, but I can't support such selfish person. I never liked any too selfish person whatever reason may be behind this.
Okay, Raman himself knows he is hurting Ishita and the whole family by hiding this thing. He needs not love Ishita for relieving her from pain, out of his gratefulness towards her is enough for that. He should be grateful to her always as because of her he got Ruhi back. Yeah, it was her for whom Shagun took Ruhi, but a cunning woman like Shagun would have taken Ruhi few days later or sooner even if Ishita dint interfere. So, it's solely Ishita who brought Ruhi back to him and made his and ruhi's relation good. He, out of humanity at least, should have lessened her pain sharing this.
Anyways, it's his choice to be suffered and make others suffer, as he himself is the biggest enemy of himself...he loves to want and get what he doesn't have, but doesn't value what he already has.