Moments of this day Jul 11 14

Double standards of the day: Raman's self-talk...no one cares if I ate or not. Well puthar, you didn't care that you choices hurt Ishu either. At least she's taking care of you via Ruhi. Please stop the pity party.

Raman's regular reflections: As Ruhi served his meal, an overwhelmed Raman seemed in a reflective mood. Was he thinking about the son who demanded too much of him vs.the daughter who gave him unconditional love more than he could have asked for? When there is so much love given freely why go searching for love where it's not available to give.

Health lessons of the day: Ruhi to Raman: Eating cold food produces flatulence. Do not eat curd (yoghurt) at night.

Blooper of the day: Raman had already mixed the cold food on his plate when he went to freshen up after spilling some food on his shirt. Yet Ruhi brought him anew plate of food in little bowls. She didn't want Papa to waste food, so what did she do with the food he left on his plate when he went to freshen up. How come Mr. Bhalla didn't get a ride with Raman to the court,so where did he go?😕

Kodak moment of the day: Ruhi with Raman: I may be a child but I understand everything. I know Dadu, Dadi and Ishima are angry at you. Did you do something wrong? A girl after my own heart...love how she keeps it real and she's a cutie pie extraordinaire and tugs at our hearts with her personality. There is so much soul in her acting at such a young age.👏

Priceless gift of the day: Ruhi tells Raman "I love you". She spoke Ishu's words too "Don't worry, I'm with you na". 😃

Bonding moments of the day: The way Ruhi warmed Raman's meal for him, fed him and read a book to him so he could sleep. Did Raman notice she does things like Ishu. In such a short time, Ishu has taught Ruhi so much with love and care👏. Raman, we hope you soon realize Ishu's value and the precious love you already have in your life every time you stared into space. Don't make yourself any weaker yearning for a love you may never get. Your pehla aulad is all messed up. Gratitude for what you already have goes a long way in living a happy life.

Painful moments of the day: For Ishu watching Raman holding hands with Shagun in court. For Raman when he hopes Toshiji at least blesses him for he is about to face a test today and Ishu refuses his offer of a ride to court until Iyers accept it.

Wise words for the day: Ruhi to Raman: Don't waste food, there are plenty of children who don't get food. Toshiji to Raman: May the Lord's blessings give you a good sense to be on the side of the truth.👍🏼

Report of the day: Ruhi reports back to Ishu she took care of her Papa just the way she taught her to do.What a precious child! Ishu cares for Raman from behind the scenes. Raman, when you stare into space do you wonder if Ishu taught Ruhi to take care of you.

Rejection of the day: Shagun doesn't want Ashok to accompany her to court. She doesn't want the world to know she's in a live-in relationship, when she never misses a party in town as Ashok's arm candy and hostess. It has to be the world's worst kept secret. LOL! 😆

Dumb reasoning of the day: Shagun hopes to gain sympathy of those present in court as Raman's ex rather than disclose she's in a live-in relationship with Ashok if they were to ask her. Most of them there are on team Ishu anyways and they know your sordid story. Aap ko VIP samajthi ho kya or are you planning to give a press conference at the end of the day's proceedings.

Smart strategy of the day: Toshiji tries to unsettle Shagun by taunting her.😛

Public humiliation of the day: Toshiji broadcasting to the visitors in court Shagun's secrets...Ashok and her drinking.🤪

Joke of the day: Shagun carrying empty files to court😆. Raman had the evidence destroyed and there were no witness testimonies in discoveries in this case so what's she hauling around?😛

Ignorance of the day: Mihika you are an educated girl. Did you really need Pathak to educate you about a lawyer's job😲? Innocent or guilty their job is to defend their clients. Sentimentality has no room here.

Reality check of the day:Oy, Shagun! This is no kangaroo court. In a high court, the judge weighs the physical evidence (Raman already destroyed it) and testimony and applies it to the law to give his judgment. Remember you it's not a jury trial (if it was, Raman will fork out payouts to buy off jurors). Raman expects the case to be behind them once the verdict is not-guilty in favor of Shagun. If the truth is revealed,Adi the culprit could be charged with the crime. Shagun's verdict has no relevance, Ishu could still file charges against Adi if she chose. For Raman's sake she wouldn't do it. Raman doesn't realize how much he already has to be grateful for in his life.

Fashion statements and faux pas: Raman and Ishu both wore violet/marron with black. Ishu looked gorgeous. Yeh kya hai wardrobe designers? Maroon suits or Ashok and Raman...seriously! They are corporate guys not going to a costume party.

Saved by the bell: Raman wants to talk to Ishu, she waits but she's saved by Pathak's bell and Raman takes the call.

Service of the day: Ishu may be angry with Raman but she still made sure she took care of Raman. By having Ruhi take care of his dinner, she was also reminding him even if a wife becomes an ex children never do. It never feels good when the people you trust don't value it. Raman gave Ishu, Toshiji and Iyers a ride to court and released Ishu's saree stuck in his car.

Inspirational words of the day: Toshiji reminds Ishu of her past advice that she needs to be a lioness to take on Shagun the snake who could strike without warning. Ishu won custody of Ruhi and she will win this case too. Is it Ruhi to the rescue for Ishima against Papa and Shagun mama? You go kiddo! Knock some sense into Adi while you are at it.

Conditional vs. Unconditional love: Given a choice which would you. Raman choose? His son's love is conditional. He told Raman he won't speak to him rudely IF he protects his mother from going to jail. Children keep it simple and Ruhi is an example of it. When Raman gets this much unconditional love from Ruhi without seeking it, why waste his time chasing the love of his son who has become a shining example of his mother's bigada huva pyar. There's always a silver lining even in the darkest of situations and for Raman it was the day Shagun walked out on him and left Ruhi with him. Besides the precious gift of her unconditional love, it is her presence in his life that brought Ishu into his life as her mother and his wife. Raman has temporarily forgotten that.

Precap of the day: Adi the spoiled brat didn't have two minutes for his sister in 6 years and he's snarling at her for not praying for her own mom Shagun while badmouthing Ishu. Someone's got to wash his mouth with soap every time he opens it. It looks like CVs wanted to entertain viewers over the weekend so they saved Shagun's courtroom humiliation for Saturday. Looks like it's Shagun's day for bbb.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Conditional vs. Unconditional love: Given a choice which would you. Raman choose? His son's love is conditional. He told Raman he won't speak to him rudely IF he protects his mother from going to jail. Children keep it simple and Ruhi is an example of it. When Raman gets this much unconditional love from Ruhi without seeking it, why waste his time chasing the love of his son who has become a shining example of his mother's bigada huva pyar. There's always a silver lining even in the darkest of situations and for Raman it was the day Shagun walked out on him and left Ruhi with him. Besides the precious gift of her unconditional love, it is her presence in his life that brought Ishu into his life as her mother and his wife. Raman has temporarily forgotten that.

Precap of the day: Adi the spoiled brat didn't have two minutes for his sister in 6 years and he's snarling at her for not praying for her own mom Shagun while badmouthing Ishu. Someone's got to wash his mouth with soap every time he opens it. It looks like CVs wanted to entertain viewers over the weekend so they saved Shagun's courtroom humiliation for Saturday. Looks like it's Shagun's day for bbb.

Originally posted by: pomegranate

Purple: yes but can a father really do that? Raman loves adi unconditionally, can he just forget about him? easier said than done.

RED: I don't see what is the purpose of this scene? ruhi is not that fickle minded to change sides so maybe she will save the day at the end. funny how, even now adi is manipulating and throwing temper tantrums. he should learn a thing or two from ruhi, who is far more mature and wise than he can ever be. Ishita has taught her daughter well.