please!!Its always best to do the right thing Raman!!!!

Raman Raman Raman!!!! After everything you always manage to come back to square one!! Adi should become a strength not your freaking weakness ! Raman, ethics and conscience should never be compromised for someone who doesn't deserve it ..actually if you ever have to compromise with your ethics for someone...you can be sure you are doing the wrong thing!Do you really want Adi to be with a Mom like SHagun?. Someone who cannot be a mentor for your kid in any way? DO you really think that a woman who walks with a straight face after she commits an accident is worth breaking the trust of your family? IS she worth being a Mother for Adi? Yeah Adi will be very happy to have his Mom back and he might even start to come close to you but Raman you cheated another set of loved ones to console your son. Your son needs to find his way to righteousness and what you are doing is not going to set a great example.What is the use of building up your relationship on shaky grounds of treachery ? Will you ever be able to forgive yourself? Your inability to choose right from wrong for your son has become a refrain in the whole poem of your life.THis is just going to bring ruins for everyone.Do you realise that if this truth comes out you are going to hurt the one person who trusts you impeccably ? And what about Ruhi? That girl too needs her life.She needs her Mom and dad . WIll your daughter be able to forgive you for hurting her Ishima? Adi is your first son but that is in no way a reason to trivialize R hi and ishita's feelings! I am not saying that you trivialized it but giving Adi the undeserved priority is not going to do anything good.YOu once said that Adi has his own place and Ishita has her own space in your life..YOur decision today shows tht your wife's place why even your daughter's place is below your first son's place in your life.I am not saying that it was an easy decision .you were in a dilemma but even after going through it you could have chosen to be on the right side .Consoling a woman like Shagun was not necessary. Actually its unacceptable !! why does she deserve reassurance from you Raman? you could have just walked off.

Very good post. And, please anyone don't call this bashing.
This analysis is just to say that Raman did a wrong thing to get a right relationship back. Really, if Adi likes him now..what will be the basis of this new relation? Fraud, false and a wrong lesson. This is the reason why many are not liking Raman's this action, whatever reason he has in his mind. And, a wrong message is being given through his Adi obsession...first borns are superior than any other child. Raman forgets everything when it comes to Adi, he even forgets Ruhi too.

I completely agree wid the point of setting a good example in front of ur kids... Ok I agree in this case nothing major happened but then if not mama if somebody wud've died or lost a leg or something shud that person who committed a crime get away with it ?
Also that wud've give n impression to adi who's already a spoilt brat that u can get away with anything in such cases...

@Amgflora please chill.I agree Raman didn't do right thing but it isn't wrong too.see his dilemma not about shagun and Ishita but Ishita and adi.you may not like adi because his actions.but he is a kid manipulated by shagun.so what wrong he did.Raman knows adi at no fault then why can't he support adi and understand one more thing morals are just reference but situations are real exams to test us.don't think Ishita trusted Raman.Raman won her trust by his goodness.so Raman didn't cheat her anytime.he bounded by problems and villains.he needs a support.either Raman or Ishita realise this and then face problem as IshRa.Raman didn't do it for shagun so no reason to blame him.I believe sooner or later Raman will apologise Ishita for his helpless lie.