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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Thanks Aeryn , understand him perfectly as a parent , where he is coming from .

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: akruz
Tomorrw if the same Adi says leave Ishita and come back to my mom coz we need you, should he hear that as well.??? Will he be justified if he gets carried away by his sons demand...this is not love or bonding, Ramans feelings for Adi is madness nothing else...
Raman is a weak weak human...he will always be "USED" by the mother-son duo...poor ishita and ruhi...

👏 BRAVO we'll said this is the reason why even I'm mad at with Raman 😡 It's almost like if some one who is close to your heart tells you jump off the window will you do it will you not 😡

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Anisha_anitan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

I knew these type of posts were going to come but we'll said completely agree

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Aeryn

@Aeryn

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Kools I am not a parent but then I don't think you need to be one to understand Raman's situation.

I have mentioned in an other thread earlier today that Adi's mental stability is bound to play a role into Raman's decision...as it should!! Raman and Shagun got separated in bad terms and unfortunately he was left with no rights over his son. With the child abuse allegations plus Adi's open hostility towards his father, chances are that a court would take a lot of time/think twice before giving legal rights to Raman

In all this Shagun became Adi's only "solace", his anchor in his life, the only adult he trusts to rely on...

If Raman had not considered his son's plight it would have been a very unnatural and downward cold reaction from his end...Aditya has turned out being a brat, that does not mean his father should stop loving him

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

If Raman had not considered his son's plight it would have been a very unnatural and downward cold reaction from his end...Aditya has turned out being a brat, that does not mean his father should stop loving him

Whether the son turns out to be a brat

whether he turns out obedient like Ram

a parent can never stop loving him .

A parent's love is egoless and unconditional , irrespective of whether the offspring loves him or her back .

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there comes a time in each parent's life when this question arises ...does love mean NOT doing the right thing if it makes you an unpopular parent .

Each parent goes through this tussle and finally realises that doing the right thing will help the child in the future although it may make u unpopular currently .

But today in Raman's case

its not fear of being an unpopular parent , today he is not in any popularity contest with Shagun

its not love for Shagun

its not less consideration for Ishita or her family

its just tremendous GUILT ...Raman sees Adi as the victim in his messy divorce with Shagun . He is seeing his destruction with open eyes and its killing him every day . It is merely an attempt to salvage the remnants of his son .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago

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Dolly-heart

@Dolly-heart

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

No doubt that Karan Patel did a great job in his emoting.

But as a responsible Father is where he has erred.

A good parent thinks of teaching ones child right from wrong. It is called ''Tough

Love" is a choice a parent has to make throughout his life so the child grows up understanding responsibility and can make hard decisions that comes into their lives later when they are caught between doing what is right or protecting a son and setting a

bad example for him to follow.

This was a hard decision for Raman but as Adi's father no matter how much you love him it is essential to show him how to be a good and responsible adult.

Loving someone should not make you blind to their faults. Raman in his love for his son has momentarily forgotten that his decision today will reflect on Adi throughout his life.

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pomegranate

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Dolly-heart
No doubt that Karan Patel did a great job in his emoting.

But as a responsible Father is where he has erred.

A good parent thinks of teaching ones child right from wrong. It is called ''Tough
Love" is a choice a parent has to make throughout his life so the child grows up understanding responsibility and can make hard decisions that comes into their lives later when they are caught between doing what is right or protecting a son and setting a
bad example for him to follow.

This was a hard decision for Raman but as Adi's father no matter how much you love him it is essential to show him how to be a good and responsible adult.

Loving someone should not make you blind to their faults. Raman in his love for his son has momentarily forgotten that his decision today will reflect on Adi throughout his life.

the other day I was just saying how he is a future shaurya goenka in the making. Adi has grown up in a toxic environment that has caused severe psychological damage, it's time someone intervenes and sets him straight.

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Dolly-heart

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: pomegranate

the other day I was just saying how he is a future shaurya goenka in the making. Adi has grown up in a toxic environment that has caused severe psychological damage, it's time someone intervenes and sets him straight.
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I agree. This is a good opportunity for Raman not to be driven by guilt but take this
crossroads he has reached to teach his son a lesson to not take an easy way out
that will affect him in future and maybe take him on the road to crime.

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Tanni

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: akruz
Tomorrw if the same Adi says leave Ishita and come back to my mom coz we need you, should he hear that as well.??? Will he be justified if he gets carried away by his sons demand...this is not love or bonding, Ramans feelings for Adi is madness nothing else...
Raman is a weak weak human...he will always be "USED" by the mother-son duo...poor ishita and ruhi...

Exactly👏.