Explanation of IshRa scene - 20th june episode

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Everyone, I'm new here but had been reading all your posts.
Love to read Quick picks by Indian_Isha & the amazing posts on ISHRA by Nikki_Titli and also all the SS,FF,OS by other members.👏 you all are great writers.

The reason I'm making this post is that I wanted to clear the negativity of the forum regarding yesterday's Raman-Shagun & Raman-Ishita scenes which many people here are angry for.

Personally, I loved the heart to heart talk of IshRa. When Shagun left Raman, he was broken from inside. All he had was "hatred" in his heart. He hid his pain inside and wore mask of a "rude buisiness man" outside. He worked hard to achieve success in his profession to show Shagun and the world that he is not a failure, but in the process, he turned his heart into a stone with no feelings. He got drunk heavily all the times, especially in parties where usually he would see shagun-ashok and get all the more angry and hurt remembering her "dhoka".

But see now? He is a happy man😛 He drinks, but occasionally. He still acts "khadoos" but the sweet-khadoos to Ishu 😉. He used to stay away from Ruhi because when shagun was pregnant with ruhi, their relationship was on the verge of breakup. He had not experienced the happiness of being a father second time due to all the tension. And when Ruhi was born, Shagun left him along with his son. Hence, seeing Ruhi reminded him of shagun and the bitter relationship. But now, he loves Ruhi and can do anything for her..😛.

But ofcourse, first child will be always special. That's what even Raman feels. He was happy to be first time father and they were a perfect happy couple back then. Hence it is obvious that Raman is more inclined towards adi emotionally.
And the fact that Shagun is the mother of his kids is what one cannot forget. Even Ishu accepted it.
Raman saying "sorry & thank you" to Shagun were words from a concerned father and not as a lover or husband of shagun.

But agree, when he said " he can never experience the happiness of being a father again" he did hurt ishu, though unintentionally, but it is a fact that she cannot conceive. Though I too feel that it was unnecessary of him to make that statement to his EX-wife!

But, when he realised Ishu heard him over and was upset, he too was visibly upset and immediately cleared to her that he didn't mean it the way she took.😛
Ramanis having feelings for ishu and it was clearly seen today. He couldnt see her upset, that too because of her, and didnt waste a second to clear it.😃

Ishu saying she will never come in between him & adi was to let him know that Raman's kids will always be in his life and she wouldnt have any problem with it. [I felt that this was more sort of her disappointment regarding Raman feeling that ishu doesnt like adi for all that he did to her and that she wouldnt approve bala tutoring adi]
But Raman assuring her that adi has a diff place in his heart and so does ishu is his way of telling her that she has made a place in his heart which no one else can take...not even adi.😳

Ishu was not being mahan by saying respect shagun and let go of all feelings towards her if she doesnt matter to him. Its true.
Anger is an emotion. And Ishu said rightly that if shagun doesnt matter to him, he shouldnt get affected by her words, or actions or even by her presence! Only then Raman can move on in his life and grab the happiness.😛
There's no point in holding grudges against a person who has no meaning in your life. Why give importance to someone when he/she doesnt deserve it?😊

Yesterday's episode was the best in terms of Ishra relation growth. I can see that shagun is gonna create differences in future...with adi or without adi, she will definitely not stay quiet and watch a happy ishra-ruhi family!

Kudos to DIVAN for fab performance. And writers done a fab job in handling the talk so maturely and sensitively.👏 The pain and hurt were so well portrayed by Divyanka and karan in their voice and eyes. I literally cried with them!👏


plz CVs, don't spoil the story...that's my only request. As I know, Ekta ka bomb kabhi bhi phat sakta hai😆.


Sorry for the long post friends😳...looking forward to your comments😃.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Super amazing post
I agreed to everything u said very very much
It makes soo much sense
Just loved it
Have u considered writting an OS on ishra ?? U will do an amazing job I like ur writting style :D
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Posted: 11 years ago
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lovely post😊I also do not understand the negativity spreading regarding yesterday's episode..
I see yesterday's Ishra convo as a realistic talk..Ishita's character is very kind and her motherly protective nature is not hidden..even when Ruhi was just a neighbour's kid she was hell worried for her well being and happiness..Her asking Raman to respect Shagun was her way of wanting a good life for Ruhi and Adi..she is well aware that differences between parents especially divorced parents highly affect children and their innocent hearts..we only see how annoying Adi is as a kid but what we don't see is how much negativity he is facing at such a tender age..he is being manipulated by Shagun and in the process of seeing this bitter relation between Raman and Shagun he has turned into a very bitter child..Ishu has seen the pain behind that rude child's talks..She has also seen how much Adi means to Raman..so she wants Raman to have a better relationship with Adi..hence her thinking..
As for Raman..he loves Adi a lot..Shagun knows his weakness and played on it making him feel guilty that in his new life he has forgotten his son.. Raman just got defensive and as he was drunk got little emotional remembering his good past memories..still he was clear there that all good memories were which had his Adi in them..He apologised because he did forget an important date in his child's life..He realized his mistake and as a responsible father he accepted his wrong..This in no ways is Shagun's win or anything..Shagun did very wrong to Raman but still she is mother of his child so even as ex wife and husband, they should maintain cordial relations with each-other for their children..unfortunately Shagun is still living a facade and it will be a long time when she realizes her mistakes..but Raman is good from heart and even though he hates Shagun, he has a past with her which was good at a time..ONLY wrong thing he said was saying that he wont get the happiness of becoming a father again..it was hurtful and again he realized his mistake and tried to explain to Ishita which Raman of few months back would not even care to do..Raman saying one wrong thing in an emotional state does not make him a bad person or insensitive person..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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...very well said dear...its long but sweet and perfect...👏...yes rk is mad for adi...so when he forgot imp date...he felt sorry...for that...n i guess his saying sorry to shagun...was becoz of madams emotional dialogues abt adi...as she was indirectly taunting rk-adi relp...So his sorry to her...was more as a concern to his SON n not for Ex-WIFE...
...but the best part...ISHRA...n their talk...a step ahead to bridge the gap...between them...
...and ishu was right ki ...if she has entered his life as ruhi mother...so she should also be careful abt ruhis brother and her papa...to the best...👏👏...RK ne ishu ko sirf apni ruhi ki maa banaya...apne baccho ki nahin...so now its time to complete their family...

lastly...RKB crying in front of ISHU shows...he respects her, has special place in his life, loves her (though not accept it), which i think is much more important and best way to express feelings...especially for man like RKB...kyunki rona-dhona...woh ishu ke saath hi kar sakta hain...jisko pyaar karte ho...usko apni weakness bataane se kya problem...this is the third time that he showed this side of his to ishu...kyunki...ISHU KO HAQ HAIN...😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Suprb post .i do agree with u
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well said!!😊 Yes dt and kp are awesome actors yes they made me cry too..basically we cant see ishus pain and so does raman!!😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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great post , completely agree with your point of view, i thought everyone would be delighted after yesterday episode that raman didnt shout at ishita in anger or went back to drinking as usual, he reacted very maturally . but still people are upset over him hurting ishita unintentionally, i fear for RKB if he ever hurt her intentionally, then i will stay away from this forum for weeks.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post dear..

n thnx for the sweet mention of my topics...😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Gud post...
U said th point so beautifully...
N u r ryt ishu wasnt being mahaan..

Indirectly he s freeing raman from bad past...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yesterday's first ten minutes I was pissed off but then when I saw Ishu hearing al talks I was😭

But it was an amazing way Raman cleared it, they indeed came a long way or the previous RKB would have lashed ishu out and let me remember maybe the previous Ishu would also have been lashing him out rather being all sady sady for 1hour

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