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Posted: 11 years ago
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NO one can LOVE A person who betrayed you, That can only be Denial or Obsession. Raman is in denial mode I guess.

Definitely today Raman got some Black marks on his personality and definitely today's talks will effect Ishita to accept that she can ever be accepted by her husband .

Raman I always feels a little partial towards ADI then RUHI and this proves today again as they preserves ADI's STEM CELLS but not RUHI's!!!

I love ISHITA today as she asked and told him the real truth of RAMAN that he behaves with SHAGUN just like he has right on her, right as a husband and wife shares. I agree with her .
The way RAMAN open up with Shagun was wrong or we can say he still feels somewhere down there in his heart that she has that special place in his life that he can talk heart with her AND that was DEFINITELY NOT because she is ADI'S MOM .

I love Ishita to understand and still manage to come up with flying colors. I always feels Ishita's soul is much more damaged then Raman's.

Raman only get cheated by his First Love and She took away or we can say she snatched his first child But still he had his second child his family and friends who understood that he got cheated by his wife BUT ...
Ishita , not only cheated by her First Love But during that cheating she got discarded by her love because of her physical inability and then after Don't know how many times how many people time and again reminded her that she is being discarded because of her problem.
DISCARDED listening and writing itself feels so Bad think about people who have to face all this .BUT ... she did with a smile and tremendous amount of storm in her heart, still she is having those storms as she already listens to Raman that SHE IS DESPERATE , SHE IS EYEING ON HIS CHILD ...during Ruhi's custody case ... They can't go from her mind can be suppressed but still there somewhere and this is what we saw today and during pregnancy track also ... SHE related to those words with her inability( which she thinks she is having. ) She herself is so much shattered by the community that even today she feels she is incomplete and she can never be complete ... even though Little Ruhi knows what she is But she couldn't ...

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Posted: 11 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: smilydear

NO one can LOVE A person who betrayed you, That can only be Denial or Obsession. Raman is in denial mode I guess.

Definitely today Raman got some Black marks on his personality and definitely today's talks will effect Ishita to accept that she can ever be accepted by her husband .

Raman I always feels a little partial towards ADI then RUHI and this proves today again as they preserves ADI's STEM CELLS but not RUHI's!!!

I love ISHITA today as she asked and told him the real truth of RAMAN that he behaves with SHAGUN just like he has right on her, right as a husband and wife shares. I agree with her .
The way RAMAN open up with Shagun was wrong or we can say he still feels somewhere down there in his heart that she has that special place in his life that he can talk heart with her AND that was DEFINITELY NOT because she is ADI'S MOM .

I love Ishita to understand and still manage to come up with flying colors. I always feels Ishita's soul is much more damaged then Raman's.

Raman only get cheated by his First Love and She took away or we can say she snatched his first child But still he had his second child his family and friends who understood that he got cheated by his wife BUT ...
Ishita , not only cheated by her First Love But during that cheating she got discarded by her love because of her physical inability and then after Don't know how many times how many people time and again reminded her that she is being discarded because of her problem.
DISCARDED listening and writing itself feels so Bad think about people who have to face all this .BUT ... she did with a smile and tremendous amount of storm in her heart, still she is having those storms as she already listens to Raman that SHE IS DESPERATE , SHE IS EYEING ON HIS CHILD ...during Ruhi's custody case ... They can't go from her mind can be suppressed but still there somewhere and this is what we saw today and during pregnancy track also ... SHE related to those words with her inability( which she thinks she is having. ) She herself is so much shattered by the community that even today she feels she is incomplete and she can never be complete ... even though Little Ruhi knows what she is But she couldn't ...


@bold...completely agree.
And, more to that she had loved Subbu for more years than Raman and so deeply. It also matters.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ankita.M

He didn't intend to hurt her and he was himself shaken when he thought about how she could have taken it. He has learnt to and is leaning to value her every moment. But he can't wipe off those feelings of happiness that Shagun gave him with the birth of his two children. Shagun maybe a witch, she may never think well for anyone, but that doesn't change the fact that they are parents to two children and those moments in life are always memorable. Those feelings and that apology was as a father, not as an ex husband. The fact that Ishita cannot be a mother is a fact of their relation and they both genuinely respect and accept it. But the feeling of being incomplete would come to the fore at one point, what's amazing is that in his own way he's made her realize how it doesn't matter to him. And has also realized just how considerate and amazing Ishita really is, who respects a woman who will never do the same for her. This has only bought them closer. I think they've dealt with a very sensitive situation extremely maturely and adequately.


You do it everytime..😳

First it was Asad now its Raman.. I am so happy to see your comments on this forum and this time also we are on same side.. 😳😆..

No need to say I agree with you totallyyy😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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We always defend Raman saying that he dint intend to hurt, but it happened. He can't get over his past...etc. etc. But, most of the times most of us don't want to see Ishita's pain. It's really hurting like Ishita is hurt.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#45
yes, even i hated too... Ishita has to show her place now, instead she takes everything lightly, this is not done, if this continues raman just takes ishita for granted...he will never understand her value...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Supneetkk

It was pathetic that he told shagun he wouldnt get another child... Why?... Why would he say all that to his ex wife who kept sleeping with his boss n finally left him...n never had genuine feelings for her own children...

How can he point out his wife's inability to his ex-wife...why???...its so wrong...even if ishita wants to forget that part of her life all these stupid men wont let her...
Subbu, prateek n raman all r one n the same... All of them are highly educated but have pea size brain... Being infertile is not in ishita's control but constantly hammering her with it is absolutely wrong n unethical ...
Shame on Raman... Absolute shame...
Above all----
He cant handle his 2 children n he wants another one???


even if nobody in Raman's family (including him) raises a desire for Raman's child with his second wife; if when they all have accepted Ishita as she is still this point will always remain in their minds. it will keep resurfacing from time to time. Mrs. Bhalla also said a similar thing regarding Adi saying that he is her first and only grandson as now she will never have a grandchild. same words were spoken by Raman yesterday.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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raman disappointed me big time

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