Originally posted by: happenstance
Nikki my post- you will see its a lot of rambling on my part-
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tell me somethin new...😆😆
Nikki I hope you dont mind but im going to write about Raman tonight, just in the mood to convey my random thoughts on him.
i would hv minded..😡😡...bt bcoz u r KKG,chalo givin u exception...warna i would hv givn u dande for not talkin fully in regards to theme of my post...😆😆
Im going to be really random here but when I'm watching the show I always seem to find myself thinking about a particular gesture of his towards Ishita. Before they were married, before they were properly involved with each other. That is when he asks her fiancee (cant remember the losers name at the moment) to still go ahead with the marriage. It was to me a true indication of this man's respect for a woman- and more so one who potentially had caused him a lot of difficulties.
he DILSE respect woman...😃😃...
Moving on, up to the run up to the nuptials and after he made it clear that he was tolerating her for the sake of Ruhi. Yes the purpose behind their marriage was to provide a stable and loving home for Ruhi but to me it showed the lengths that he is prepared to go to for someone who is own. He is someone who has gone through alot, and quite a long age really. I can see why he was so jaded, so guarded and adamant that he didn't want anything out of his marriage apart from Ruhi's happiness.
yes its not easy to move on...evn if u move on,its still take a lot lot to convince oneself tht its ok to give second chance to love sometimes...!! so not just raman,evn ishu is also in similar condition...bt wht both dnt realise is,hwevr much they fear at one end,they cant help bt fall more for each other..!!
So fast forward a couple of months and a person who had totally shielded their heart and showed no vulnerability is now opening up to his wife. His confession that everything he was doing during that challenge was for her sake, was so heart warming. Not the fact that he was doing these things (because lets face it he is a gentleman and hes gone out of his way on many occasions to help her family and he has always respected them) but the fact that he was able to utter those words to her. Make it known to her, that it was for her. In my opinion it was more of a self-reflection moment for him and an opportunity for her to see another glimmer of the man she really shares a bedroom with. I am so glad that he did not shy away or make some sort of witty remark. He told her straight and in effect was making it clear to himself too.
exactly...it takes a hell lot to SAY WHAT U FEEL...n Raman is finally finally reachin tht stage where he IS kinda confident to say wht he FEELS for her...he did the beginning...till before this,he did evrythin in gol mol baatein...bt nw he hv started the phase of DIRECT TALKS..!! n nw evn Ishu is also doin the same...in her punjabi speech,there also it ws a mix of direct-indirect...!! but in this scene..it ws DIRECT...she told him on his face tht she LIKES(love she wanted say 😆) Raavan Kumar more than Ram Kumar mode of him...😆😉..n Raavan Kumar mode is one fault side of Raman...yet she said she love him in tht mode...n when one confess tht shes lovin his fault side too,wht else more is needed to clear somebody ka feelin for some1...😆😉...Ishita loves Raman with all his good n bad side...😃😃
I've always felt that Raman has always been more effected' by Ishita, then her him.I guess its because to me hes been shown as quite instinctive and so he senses her effect on him. When he was gazing at her whilst she was asleep was such a beautiful moment. Loved it. He was looking over her, almost in a protective way.
both r EQUALLY mentally attracted to each other...bt physical mein Raman hv upperhand...i am waitin for the day,when Ishu would also join him n start drool on him...😆😆
I love how it important it was to him that Ishita agree to Bala being Adi's tutor. He recognises that she is his friend, his companion and partner. They are in this together.
he ws MAHA IMPRESSED with his JKR..😉😉I'm so excited by this phase that we are currently experiencing...Nikki fab post as always and so nice to read about IshRA too😳🤗
in any love story,the phase from falling for each other to confessing the same to each other,IS the best phase n IshRa hv entered the climax stage of the phase...😆😉