Most important for Ishita why is she thinking twice?? - Page 6

Originally posted by: Nichuss

y cant u all have aptience...

bash her...if she does aft the epsd aired...

dont come to conclusion of ur own ...n comment

on ishu character

I TRUST CVs n IShita...

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

@nichus

C'mon nichus this isn't bashing just putting their view across

We all know she won't touch pervert feet

But fact is she is considering it for simmi who is showing open hostility is bit too much

Writers of yhm Are good most of time but for trp drama they show nonsense

Originally posted by: FieryLioness

sachi... i know its tough but m really holding my patience ...

i don't want her to touch his feet... but in worse condition if we get this...

first will try to see what made her do so...then only have any opinion abt whole scene

Originally posted by: Nichuss

its bit conclusion type views...so i told to have patience...

and One thing if she touches...i wont leave ishu...😡

we conclude something n happening something doesnt make sense na...

so i commented like tat...

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

May i know

why Ishita did such a big hoo haa about the rape and demanded apologies and all if she was going to condone a rapist ultimately with faltu excuses like 'Simmi ke liye ' ?

She was insisting that a rapist must have rasams ...EXCUSE ME ?

Did i hear right , was this bullshit propogated by Ishita ?

What 'Simmi ke liye '? Simmi needs treatment , counselling , she is not exactly right in her head !

That rapist has done a number on her and addled her brain ! How about sending her to forced counselling and getting her compulsorily divorced for the baby's future ? Getting pregnant does not mean u have to tolerate the jerk for life if he is a criminal , rapist or abuser ! No court in the world will give even visitation rights to Parmeet after his track record ! What bache ka baap aakhir woh hai and we HAVE to do rasam bullshit ! And what Simmi ke lye rubbish ?😲

Why did the Bhallas organize a function if Simmi was not ready ? Had they talked to her about not making last minute faltu tamashas in their function ? Has Toshiji talked firmly to her about how much her brother is spending for her function , the fifteen lakhs given earlier have not been returned yet ! And this bimbo criticizes brother in public , does Paramjee Paramjee who does not spend a dime except has phokat sex with women ,insults his wife at every opprtunity and is openly friendly to his ex wife who gave him humilation and pain ?

Even more than Param , Simmi needs a slap from Toshiji and a firm get out go and stay with your Param if he means more to u than ur family who raised u .

As far as Ishita goes , Raman should not even waste time getting angry with her . She desrves nothing short of silent treatment with no 'Ruhi ke liye' nonsense . Today's episode was an insult to women in general .

Originally posted by: vampire12345678

We can not jump to conclusions that she will touch parmeets feet
And CVs are keeping ishita 's character in mind
She is a mature woman 30 I suppose in the show and not a teenager who will react very impulsively in such a situation and start with woman right speech
She is a bahu she could not have. Just said NO NO NO
She is thinking the Cvs are showing her inner turmoil
And slef respect is not harmed when thinking
So I don't think anything is going haywire
And its hindi serial afterall I think they have shown a lot of woman rights and everything so if ishita just reacts without thinking the audience will not understand her character and it will be too bold and many people in india where the trps are recorded won't connect because. Ven working woman and strong headed woman face situations where they need to give in to their family and ishita thinking on what to do is very very normal and it does not harm her self respect to think on what to do she was just analyzing the situation in her head
That's my POV only :D

Originally posted by: MERARAI

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2"><font color="#0000ff">Is Ishita's brain scrambled from the stress after her mother's accident? Seriously!😲"Simmi should never experience loneliness, so we've to do everything to make her happy" said Ishita to Raman. Did she really say that?🤔Maybe Ishita needs someone to snap her out of her delusionary state of mind. </font><font color="#990000">No one has control over what someone feels or doesn't feel no matter what the situation.</font><font color="#0000ff">It's egoistical to think one has that much control over someone else's emotions. Simmi's misery is her choice. If she misses her husband, she is an adult, she can pack her bags and move in with her Paramji and his equally warped new friends. The Bhallas can give Simmi all their possessions and she will still be a miserable, nosy, ungrateful gal. </font></font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2"><font color="#0000ff">Simmi is the worst kind of backstabber, she is tattling to her husband everything that's going on in the Bhalla household and neither Raman nor Ishita have done anything to throw her out or call her out on her betrayal. Raman took Romi to task for his acts,</font><font color="#0000ff">Simmi's spying can have far reaching consequences for the family, so why isn't she being called out on her spying on the family for her husband.</font></font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2"><font color="#0000ff">For someone like Ishita to even give a second thought to the idea of touching Param's feet is preposterous, that too in consideration of Simmi's happiness on the occasion. It's a baby naming ceremony, the baby is too young to remember she peed on her ex-mami or that Ishita named her. She'll hear about it later on. Simmi has never been seen bonding with her child so why all the fuss around this event and her happiness? Ishita should remember that people pleasers are usually miserable people bec' they put other people's happiness ahead of what they believe in and their own self-respect.</font></font>

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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

<font color="#0000ff">Speaking from strictly my POV</font>

<font color="#0000ff">It really does not matter now if she gets out of touching the rapist's feet , THAT won't make her clever , smart , great ANYTHING in my eyes . SHE wanted the rapist there for rasams , the rapist who had attacked her and molests women .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Mr Bhalla and Toshi were not shown inviting him there or even considering he would be there.. neither was any Bhalla family member except loony Simmi . Ishita WAS . Educated Ishita , often called Jhansi ki Rani , was actually saying regressive stuff like</font>

<font color="#0000ff">aakhir woh baap hai</font>

<font color="#0000ff">its a rasam</font>

<font color="#0000ff">we gotta do it for society or something to that effect .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Now</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Mrs Bhalla and Simmi were saying this regressive bull from day one . That time we blasted them right ? They r shallow , not so educated women who believe that ignoring crap and plodding along in life and maintaining a fake status of sorts in society is imperative . A woman MUST have a husband , a marraige . A damad MUST be tolerated whatever nonsense he does . Social snickering is awful , a taboo . This is what they believe .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">So , what is the difference between them and educated Ishita today ? I see none and getting out of the feet touching really does not absolve her . She should have walked out of the function . THAT is upholding dignity of a woman , not these fake flip flop double standards .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Ananya peeing on Shagun and Ishita getting to name at last minute or Ishita getting out of the feet touching at last minute by some so called intelligence does not impress me a bit . Its so juvenile . We r talking of rape here . She was the one who kept clothes ready to gift the rapist and she was the one who actually gave it to him by making bahu eyes at Mr Bhalla and she is now gonna be hailed as a heroine coz she got out of feet touching ? My foot .😆</font>

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<font color="#0000ff">When Raman wanted to slap Romi , she started lecturing to him about how to handle grown up youngsters ...Some crimes are not solvable by lectures boss . When Raman did not want Parmeet in the function again some bull convincing . What Raman said was perfectly right , if she has faith in her capacity to handle everything why include him in ANYTHING ?</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Simmi ke liye is not tolerating Parmeet , Simmi ke liye is getting her away from Parmeet . Simmi needs family intervention . Mr Bhalla , Raman , Ishita , Romi all should make her sit and tell her look , we had enough of ur nonsense . Either divorce him or we will take ur baby away from u coz u keeping relations secretly with a sex offender and bringing the likes of him or Shagun in the house won't be tolerated by us , its going too far . Your deep hurt on one side and the safety of Ishita , Rinki and even the baby girl on one side . We will all testify that you are an unfit mother , so divorce him NOW .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Neither will Parmeet get visitation rights coz of his sexual crime record and Simmi will get a speedy divorce .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">If Simmi still does not listen she must be thrown out like a gangrened organ is cut , but Ishita , Rinki and the baby girl must not be jeopardised for Simmi's dangerous emotions .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">This is Simmi ke liye .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Simmi ke liye , Ruhi ke liye r excuses to do any nonsense . Toshi needs to observe how Simmi is now acting pally with Shagun and taking Raman's money and shelter for granted . She should wake up . Regarding Ishita i have nothing to say , whether she now touches feet or not .</font>

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Superb post!! Agree with everything