Handling of Simmi-Param angle sticks out like a sore thumb..

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Amu_queen

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Posted: 11 years ago

In a show where 90% of issues are handled in a very mature and unusually realistic manner...the way they have addressed the Simmi-Param issue sticks out like a sore thumb...

Though far fetched..i'm still ready to accept the fact that simmi does not believe Ishita and thinks she tried to attract Param.Maybe she thinks that since Ishita and Raman dont have a relation..ke shayad Ishita ne Param ko badhava diya...ok fine...silly but ok...its a tele serial...everything cannot be perfect.

She can ignore Raman's words thinking he is siding with his wife...But she is so close to Romi,has no reason to mistrust him...so atleast should Romi not tell her that her husband talks about Ishita in an indecent manner now that he realized that Simmi and Parmeet are still in touch?

If it were me...i would DEFINITELY tell my sibling ...i cannot think of a single reason under the sun why a brother would not open up to his sister about such an important matter.

I hope that if Parmeet indeed comes for the naamkaran..Romi SHOULD confront Simmi and tell her everything Parmeet said at the farmhouse and how she can still be on the side of such a man!

Edited by Amu_queen - 11 years ago

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Vedika211

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Posted: 11 years ago

I agree. It's like Simmi Param (and often Shagun and Ashok) are in an Ekta serial of their own while everyone else are in some other show!

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eternalasha

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Posted: 11 years ago

Great well-needed post Amu_queen.

I was thinking about the same thing. Param has made lewd comments about Ishita in front of Romi as well as in front of Pathak and Mihir at the hospital.

Ok Now lets say Pathak/Mihir would be unlikely to interfere unless there were dire circumstances or without Raman there.

So what about Romi ? - well it was only until the Param/Romi scene yesterday that Romi realized Simmi was in touch with Param when he exclaimed surprise when Param said he was still in touch with Simmi and got informed of Romi's whereabouts from Simmi.

Right after Param went to jail remember Param told her to behave like she was ok with everything. It seems, that the Bhallas while sad thinks perhaps she has accepted things.. So there would have been no reason for Romi to have said anything. While Romi thought Param was a louse it seems he didn't realize Simmi was in denial.

Now, that being said, I agree they have handled Simmi situation poorly so far in that they haven't shown any conversation between even Raman and Simmi and Raman threw Param out - such a big event and no conversation between bro/sis?.

Also, Simmi while petty, small-minded and a bit of a trouble maker they seemed to have dumbed her down. It is a waste of a good actress.

Granted she is in denial and Param is doing his best to keep it that way, wouldn't any woman in her shoes do some reflection? It would be good to at least have shown Simmi asking herself questions and then perhaps rationalizing it away - thereby explicitly showing denial. While they have shown the victim/victimizer angle of molestation with Ishu/Param, the husband Raman standing up for his wife, they are missing the betrayal of a molester's wife who is also a victim.

Perhaps at the Naam-Karan it will become evident to all the Simmi-Param are in touch and they will start to address this yet unaddressed issue.

p.s. I agree with Maneets comment:

"I feel that the family should sit down and make Simmi realize the reason behind their decision to geet Param behind bars. It's high time she realizes reality and accept it. Giving her space to this extent is only letting a wrong notion grow in her mind."

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Maaneet099

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Posted: 11 years ago

Very true Simmi-Param issue is stretching without proper foundation. Simmi's thinking is very silly but I give the benefit of doubt (even though very slight) to her. But what irks me is the fact that Ishita is trying to mellow down the situation by making sure Simmi is not being left alone. I feel that the family should sit down and make Simmi realize the reason behind their decision to geet Param behind bars. It's high time she realizes reality and accept it. Giving her space to this extent is only letting a wrong notion grow in her mind.

Simmi is being very quite and acting all normal as told by Param so I don't think Romi or anybody in the family knows that she doesn't believe Param is guilty. It's just been a day in the serial Romi has returned after the fiasco. With so many things going I dont think he had the time to talk to Simmi.