well this show is like a breath of fresh air, i love how it doesn't shy away from being frank, casual especially with the ishita and raman, and i agree that other couples act like if its like the end of the world even at the mention of something intimate or sexual. it feels really raw and real in how the characters are presented. especially ishra right off the bat. i love how it doesn't drag and handle the plots well, executes it well and you know maybe they balance these plots, negative ones, where it doesn't take the whole ep over, its balanced between negative stuff and ishra, so it creates suspense and suspense and actually interesting to watch. it put's its own touch on these story-lines.
Yep thats where YHM scores it doesnt act as if its grossed out at the mention of sexuality and intimacy between couples- these are real people here and thats what appeals to me I cant for the life of me understand how can all those shows have couples madly in love behave as if they are committing a sin if so much as the word bedroom is used at times like really they can be shown producing a brood of half a dozen but still they are shy and the fact that YHM doesnt take forever to close the lid on an issue is so good I could weep with joy I hate shows where the audience has to wait and go crazy for the hero to realize what is the truth and that the heroine was right off the bat, Raman though a flawed hero isnt dumb thank god
also i love how they have characters that represent people in everyday life, we have such strong female characters, like ishita, vandu, mihika, mrs lyer and even toshi when she isnt being you know, then we have toshi, the more older generation mindset and simmi who is blinded by love, manipulated and unable to see reality, rama and bala great guys and so forth. i love how all the characters get space to shine and how they develop and cause ishra to develop. also the vamps are your typical full on vamps, everyone is very 3D and has more to them.
Yep like I said these are real people even ones like toshi and Simmi even if they act like witches cause there are women like them for real, MILs who consider their DIL as curses personified and SILs as some boons 😳 and even naive gullible women like Simi who blindly love and believe so that is true, and like you said no one is just black or white they are grey and real hence 3D which makes us connect to them as a member of the audience.
the way the love story is being handled is amazing, its been what nearly 6 months, they haven't fallen in love but their characters have grown so much as individuals and together, towards each together, how they have gotten closer, more comfortable and causal. i love slow burning love stories where it actually develops and slowly unravel, not just hot scenes thrown together and then BAM. it feels more real in that way. also love how the event take place actually do have an effect on the character themselves and progresses the story. also it the love story has substance and meaning.
That is another brownie for YHM yes IshRa have had their moments of attraction, subconsciously they are drawn to one another, care for each other but there is NO LOVE here, not yet. But there is a growing bond there - like the other day they were so cool and comfortable about tending to each other' injuries she didn't mind helping him take his waistcoat off and he was not the least bit bothered to be seen massaging his wife when his sis walked in, in fact Ishita had to touch his hand to make him realize Simi is uncomfortable as she walked in on them - to him it didn't even ring a bell you know.
also the sub plots in this show are very well handled i must say, there is a lot but they are all being established and slowly built and take turns getting a chance in the spotlight while the others are in the shadow wait and growing. i like how its not random stories out of no where.
Yep barring Rinki so far I have seen all the characters have subplots and each of them has actually been executed well and has added to the show one way or another- no character that is given importance is wasted- like recently the neighbor Pammy was useful when the judge came I like that in a show
ok now back to ashok and perv, so true men like that exist in society and it sucks. just going online and seeing some of the comments they make are terrible. very sexist and misogynistic. guys like that only value sex and beauty, they dont care and women like shagun and simmi exist. the fact society conditions women to believe that our worth is base don a man approvaDl,, needs and want is terrible, and it works, it creates competition among women against each other for a mans sake, society is male dominated everywhere you turn and they use these tactics against women to subdue them to fight among themselves so they maintain their power and distract us from the real issues. and women like this dont realize and give more power to them, assert their stupid beliefs and value and confirm that they are right women and inferior. and man from the moment they are born are taught its alright to be that way, to see women a property, that their opinions dont matter, their only worth is beauty and what they can do for men, they get conditioned as well, with these stereotypes and sexist notions and it only makes things worse. women are so restricted they cant be show to much or they are s**tty, they should cover to much cause that, they should be this and that and blah blah, it boils down to men, we are taught by everyone to change ourselves in society, and men dont have that kind of conditions. boys will be boys excuse gets thrown around to excuse their behavior but women are expected to shut up and put up and conform.
That is an ugly truth that YHM showed us with this scene and I so agree with you its the way these men are raised that leads them to becoming people like these - that belief they are imbibed with that a son can do anything and is never wrong. And the girls being taught to obey their husbands blindly take care no one maligns the name of the family no matter what is a reason that thoughts like these continue to plague society at large. Basically every reaction or action of a woman is dictated right from her birth - till her death while men have a free rein that wrecks havoc
at the end of the day we live in a patriarchal society.
sad but true
sorry went on there i could go on for ages on this and delve further, your posts are awesome and very thought provoking.
thank you 😳 it was a pleasure to read your reply too Nabz 😃
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