Manchala Mann Chala Teri Ore..!!!

Helloo Ppl...🤗🤗🤗...I hv to say THIS POST i will always remember...!! And thts coz i'm making this post literally facing all the odds which stopped me frm makin the post..!! I ws supposed to make this post last nite...I ws half done with post too...But my health din support me,n i jst couldn complete it..Then today mornin i ws in half minds,whether to complete the post or not..!! But as i couldn let wht i wrote last nite(by takin one hour)jst go lik tht n also coz of the wonderful motivation frm 3 of my darling BGDs - GB(Garima), SB(Shivu), Ninz(Nina),i decided to finish the post...!! I again took another two hours n finished writing post..i ws happy with the way the post came..!! I had written on all 3 ishra scenes tht happend yday...!! Ydays 2nd scene-my fav one-ointment scene got max footage in my post..😆😉..And as i realised my post hv turned out long long,i tried to copy the entire post and then i clicked "post new topic" button..But as i expected,the my topic din got posted as i exceeded characters limit...😆😆...I hv faced such situations many times before too..!! So i thought i would post again by cuttin down some lines or emoticons on the "copied" version of my post..But when i went to see the copied version,i WAS SHOCKED..i realised my post din get COPIED...i hadn chk when i pasted...i thought it got copied..i ws in hurry to make post..So i copied n opened new post n pasted n din evn bother to chk wht ws pasted..As i told u all before,such things hv happened to me before..!!But i ws SHELL SHOCKED WHEN I REALISED MY POST IS GONE..😲😲😲..i ws SO SO HURT..😭😭😭...My 3 hours efforts went just lik tht..!! More than tht wht hurt me more ws ydays epi esp ointment scene ws VERY VERY IMP frm IshRa story angle n i had written so so much in the post..sab chala gaya..i ws FREAKING UPSET..😭😭😭...Itne pyaar se likhi thi n u realise all gone-i cant stand it...Also for me my posts r not "just topics"...Its more than tht..Its MY WAY to EXPRESS MY LOVE for my favs-actors,chars,jodis,shows,my frnz(their bdays)..So much sentiments attached to them and thts how i made all those 386 topics(includin todays topic)in diff forums of IF since 2009..!! So it freaking made me upset..I really really wanted to make post for my IshRa last nite..!! GB,SB,Ninz-tried HARD to cheer me up...My darlings thnx all..!! But i literally gave up..😭😭😭..!! I just cudn understand y so much of probs...!! I then tried to divert my mind..!! But this thing-bein not able to post-ws disturbin me..!! So i went to watch kal ke epi ke ONLY ISHRA scenes again..!! And my angels-IshRa DID CHEER ME UP...Seeing the scenes i felt rejuvenated again...!! And i felt tht STRONG URGE to make post again seeing my most fav scene-The OINTMENT SCENE...!! So here i'm..!! I'm rewriting the entire post in totally new manner n new title totally against wht i wrote n got lost today mornin...!! And nw i feel i think this post ws meant to be this way...😃😃...And thts coz when i watched the epi again,few more things striked my mind...n i knew i had to post it..!! So new post,new title,new pov..But my love for IshRa is SAME...😳😳..!!

I dedicate this post to IshRa and my BGDs who ws with me in the roller coaster happened today-GB,SB,Ninz..🤗🤗🤗..

Raman & Ishita - Yeh dono jitna ek doosre se bahut alag hai ek doosre utna hi yeh dono ek jaise bhi hai..!! Dono hi ziddi,dhakkan and hv a craving heart which longs to be loved n cared by some1 special...!!Dono hi apne families ke khushi ke saamne apni khushiyon ko koi value nahi karte..!! Aur dono jab hurt hote hai(either physical or mental),they tend to keep it to themselves and coz of tht somebody has to literally do zabardasti with them to heal the wounds(be it physical or mental)...And thts EXACTLY wht v saw in yday's ointment scene of IshRa..!!

Both Raman n Ishita were hurt coz of curtain stand fall on them as v saw yday..!! But dono hi pehle ek doosre se chot par malham lagaane se mana karta hai...Then doosre party ko forcefully malham lagana pada..!!

Failed Marriage with Shagun had made Raman shut himself to all emotions..He never let anyone see his vulnerable side..!! Not evn to his own parents..!! And then happens entry of Ishita to his life..He hated her..He hated evn the mere sight of her..!! And the feeling ws mutual frm Ishita's side too for Raman..😆😆..But destiny had some other plans...Their paths crossed each other many times and all tht lead in makin Raman married to Ishita..!! Post Shagun's exit,he tried to live for his family includin his own daughter-Ruhi..But he never let Ruhi knw a dad's love and tht hurt Raman too...But he din knw way to come out of it..!! Ishita tried to amend Raman-Ruhi relation..But Raman wsnt givin to her tht much first..!! But when Ishu came to knw Raman ws deeply hurt with Ashok's false accusation tht Ruhi is not his daughter, Ishu FORCEFULLY put malham on his wounds by conductin DNA test of Raman n Ruhi..!! Raman se poochta toh woh kabhi nahi maanta..So Ishu HAD TO DO IT much against his wish n tht did wonders..!! The pain which Raman had in Ruhi's matter ws erased away by Ishita's "dna" treatment..!! And post tht there ws NO TURNING BACK..!! It ws tht which made Ishita FINALLY break the wall which Raman had built around himself post his split with Shagun..!! The wall wsnt broken fully with DNA track..!! But with evry incident,unknowingly Ishita ws able to break the wall slowly slowly and ws able to create a place for her in his heart,much to his surpise..!! And now i can WITH GUARANTEE say the wall is TOTALLY BROKEN and Ishita hv totally won his heart..!! The ONLY thing tht stopping him "accepting" this fact abt Ishita and "moving on" in this relation is his FEAR of loosing her after he starts loving her so much..!! He hv already face the pain of loosing someone he loved so much n definitely dnt want to repeat the same..!!

But wht he dnt knw ws tht his Manchala Mann(Crazy Heart) is already drawn towards Ishita and is rapidly falling hard for her more n more..!! His so many gestures prove tht..

Nikki, you have no idea how DILSE happy I was when I saw the message from you that you have made your post.. Like I swear to god, it was hunting me so much. I left for Shopping with my Mom after the whole incident in the morning and I was even telling my Mom about what had happened. She too was feeling really bad and trust me, all the while this thing kept running in the back of my head... You had no idea how much I was scolding all the bloody technical glitches. This post is definitely going to be close to my heart as well. AND I'm so glad it's finally up...There's NO way Ishra's EPIC episode ends without my NB's EPIC post...YAY!

Raman's past is Different and overcoming it, is most definitely the hardest thing in the world. Ishita's was a Love failure whereas Raman's was a LOVE BETRAYAL and I believe there's a big difference to it. Because in reality, if any man had gone throughout what Raman had I wouldn't be surprised if he had decided to end his life. Seeing your wife, whom you loved with all your heart, walk away from you choosing another man to replace you in her life... Just typing this, gives me the chills. It's like watching your heart being stabbed continuously and that too by the same person who your heart was beating for.

Raman in all these years had somehow managed to gather the pieces of his broken heart and put them back together. BUT the true struggle was not in putting back those pieces...it was making his heart beat again... BUT if it wasn't for his past, Ishita would have never made it to his present. Ishita's entry into his life, came in faster than the speed of lighting. Ishita came in, to make his heart beat/breathe again. She gave him an assurance that he did not have to fight and deal with the wound caused by all the struggling alone.

Without suffering, there'd be no compassion and Raman's suffering has brought Ishita's compassion into his life. AND now Raman has finally understood that, it's possible for two people to fall in love all over again, even when they have been through a lifetime of disappointments in the past...

Couldn't agree more with the points 1 to 11 you stated... RavanaKumar did some heroic jump from the sofa to save his Jhansi Ki Rani in time from being hit by the curtain rod. He took the hit, caught hold of her and did some chapati rolling down from the sofa all the way to the floor all wrapped up cosy in the curtain and finally settling down on the floor. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

I swear to god, Raman Kumar Bhalla was nothing but a child in the ointment scene. He was totally drowned in the eyelock but when Ishu lowered her gaze down back to his wound, it's like someone took his candy away from him that he decided to get her attention by calling his Mumz...LOL I literally rolled on my bed and laughed like a psycho.

P.S. There's still MORE to come.. Because my train of thoughts got disrupted yesterday while typing this Ramaz, my brain just froze... But I will be back with PART 2 of my Ramaz soon...😉

res for ninz

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Originally posted by: luvsagar

Nikki... ...I am sooo GLAD you made this post and feel honored that you dedicated it to us.. I felt HORRIBLE and I KNOW that you were DEVASTATED with what happened initially and despite all we said nothing could bring back the HARD WORK you put into your DILSE post! Despite being SICK you bounced back and made this wonderful post! First and foremost a HEARTFELT THANK YOU because I always LOVE reading your perspective which is so in depth. I feel honored having met you and the entire group of BGDs on this forum!!! ... ...to all of you!!!!!

Raman and Ishita are DHAKKANS...seriously to an extent they have had similar experiences with love and betrayal in their lives .. that is their common ground...and they are more alike than they think...both are family oriented and would do anything for the ones they love! Agreed Raman's pain may be more because he was married and Shagun brainwashed one kid and abandoned the other along with her marriage!!

Both have progressed in their relationship to an extent where they are concerned if the other gets hurt. Ramz despite his constant comments alluding to his wishing Ishita would disappear has progressed in this relationship so much so that he is lost without her. His actions many times are contradictory to his taunts which he uses to hide the fact that she is breaking the barriers built around his heart,

Ishita has been hurt by love as well as Raman but I believe her real heartache stems from her inability to bear children not the fact that Subbu ditched her on her engagement for that reason. I think deep down she realized that it was the best thing for her engagement to have been called off because Subbu didn't realize the true concept of love ..which is that you stand by the person you love no matter what..good times and bad. I think Ishu has realized that slowly with Raman that he is the type who would stand by the people he loves but more so he will stand by the TRUTH! Ishu wants to be Raman's malaam ...she has fallen in love with him even though she hasn't admitted it yet ..She admitted as much to Bala when she said she thought the marriage was for Ruhi's sake and that it would be enough but it's not! She is highly affected by Raman and has expectation from him..she wants to be loved and trusted by him also which was explicit in her pleading eyes when her mother took her away from Bhalla house after pervy revelation!

These two DHAKKANS are playing a cat and mouse game without realizing that their ultimate goal is the same..LOVE! Dono ek doosre pe hak jhatana sharu karne lage hai! This is progress now they need to start by admitting their feelings for one another at least to themselves which I think Ishu will do first however Ramz will take a while or some catastrophe will have to take place for him to admit his love for Ishu.

res for sia

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Originally posted by: --Sia--

Wonderful post Nikki and hope you get well soon !!! Thanks Garima, Shivu & Nina for motivating Nikki when i was fast asleep ... Nikki thats a long Thank you speech 😳

I am keeping it short :

RAMAN : RKB has come a long way !!! He doesn't even know it or hasn't realized it yet how much he has changed since Ishita made entry into his life . You have beautifully explained all stages from Iyers marriage anniversary party till yesterday Bandage scene . Bandage scene was very significant yesterday to depict Raman's feelings . Last time when he was burnt Ishu tried to take care of him but he rudely rejected ( though he was staring Ishu at that time too but later shagun betrayal dominated there ). Yesterday he showed some Nakhra in the beginning but then easily gave up 😆 . He was totally lost in her , watching how much she is affected because he is hurt " longest stare till date from Raman that too of Ishu's face" 🤣 Ishu caught him and then he did what he is best at to save himself from embarssement. But still he wanted ishu to attend his wound then he saw even she is hurt he forgot his own pain and put balm on Ishu ( Tan man dhan sab arpan karke balm laga raha tha 🤣,such a dedicated man )...He even admitted she is a doctor 😆.

And then comes a Bouncer from him after hitting Mauke pe Chuka ( to stay in curtain till family comes 😆 )!! Next day The pati inside Raman was all awake ...Magical curtain effect 🤣. Pati hoon tumhara !!! ye kab ho gaya RKB ? till yesterday you were shouting Tum sirf Ruhi ki ma ho suddenly such a drastic change 😆 ...RKB you are a gone case you wont admit it soon but we all are waiting for the day you will realise your feeling for ishu, tab tak we all are enjoying your antics !!! 😆

ISHITA :

Ishu already expressed her feelings to Bala that she thought she was getting married for "Sirf Ruhi Ke Liye " but she feels that its not only about Ruhi . You already explained about Tamil speech and how she remembered about him after her parent during Pervert Fiasco . She has already started behaving like a typical wife who gets jealous hearing about ex girlfriend . She gets jalofied like a bhutta for Sonali even after knowing that she does not exist 😆. She treated his wound like a caring wife and later even listened quietly Dominating patidev jhad . Not even for a single time i heard " Sirf Ruhi ke Liye " from her .

Now waiting to see how she realizes her feeling for Raman ..

Ye dono dhakkan pata nahi kitna time lenge ..😆

Special mention : Ishu Called Raman NAUTANKI yesterday 🤣 🤣

i think this is a short post 😕 😆

res for pri

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Originally posted by: PreciousPri

Nikki meri jaan!! How do you do this ?? 😲

Hats off to your dedication to YHM/IshRa/DivAn and us !!... Despite not feeling well and loosing 3 hours of work you are able to make this post 👏 and a special thank you to Garima, Shivu and Nina for their support 👏

You have described the whole journey of RKB and IRB so so so well

RKB

This man has changed ... a gradual subtle transition in his feelings ..and at times his attitude too (but at times only 😆)...but being the dhakkan he is ... he will not or rather does not want to admit this the he is LOVE with his WIFE...the change is still in progress!!

At a time when Shagun was predominant in his life...he got affected by her every word/action heck she even occupied his flashbacks for God's sake... but just look how all that has come around... he doesn't give a damn if she is in the same room at a distance of 4 feet... and now his flashbacks are occupied by Ishita

IRB

Ishita! She has definitely accepted subconsciously that Raman is her pati and his family is her family... She accepted his family as her own since day of this marriage...but she is affected big time by Raman...when he thanks her...buys her a gift...gets so jealous if he is with Shagun or even an "imaginary" character... typical biwi wale signs

Coming to the episode... when he said...bas ab mujh mein taakat nahin hain !! I was really?? teri hogayi tai tai phish 🤣🤣.. rather his wife seemed to have more STRENTH but she also chup chaap laid back and rested on his shoulder.. jks apart this showed at times it's better to just go with the flow

Romi!! I'm loving this dude... his best line was... yeh kya Hollywood movie chal rahi hai Bhai ?? He was enjoying teasing his Bhai so much and so was I 🤣... and RKB's standard expression and dialogue...thapad maarunga ek ...phase hua hai hum 🤣...but Ishita bechari sharam ki maari tried to hide herself in the curtains avoiding to look at her MIL/FIL/BIL 😆...

Even after getting up IRB could only think of her pati's injured hand...this was IRB the biwi asking!!

Next scene... despite showing nakhras first he actually gave in to her and allowed to be attended by his WIFE... he couldn't keep his eyes of her... the true concern in her eyes and expressions seeing his wound... actually sift kharosh thi 😆... but IRB ke liye ... like you said bottles of blood 🤣... this is something he wanted...for so long and now that he is getting this care and attention it is like a dream come true... but he still has to pinch himself to realise yeh haqiqat hai

That eyelock wow...before being caught like this... RKB would have instantly looked away... but this had to be their longest eyelock......he kept on looking at her... and she too... until it became too much for her and IRB looked away ... then after a while RKB broke away from the eye lock... spl mention to the way KP breaks away from eye locks esp this one... too good 👏

But he got so affected... as if things had gone out of his control... that like a child he calls out to his ...mother to save him 😆... and then comes the typical taang kichayi and complaining to his mom about his biwi... even though as you said he cuts in supporting IRB too ...IRB called him nautanki 🤣

But as soon as he notices she is hurt to... kitne pati wali style mein haq se kaha betho idhar ... and then with full concentration was applying malam...from the time when IRB and RKB both found it odd to even hold each others hands like when she fell from the couch... now they don't mind this closeness and touch karke moments...that is a big development ...

Such concentration and focus by RKB I must say...mast magan hoke ghus gaya in his biwi's neck 🤣...that when Simmi marches in... he was so lost ...that IRB had to tap his hand to say ...btw that is your sister watching us...kuch to bolo 🤣... lekin lost RKB could only utter Simmi!... and he didn't even go after her to ... that is another change

Then the last argument... Thank God there was no sirf Ruhi ke liye... such a development ... twice RKB mentioned ... me your pati and you my biwi ... BAS keh diya 🤣... he has moved from you are only Ruhi's mom... to saying as my wife respect me and my decisions... and as my wife you will accompany me ... haq se haq jama raha tha 😆😆... seriously what a change...saving his damsel in curtain has caused such a dramatic change in ek raat ?? when did this happen 😆...

IRB too aaram se listened to her patidev...and his words of pati pati biwi biwi

Well till these two dhakkans don't realise and admit their true feelings... till their dimaag ki TUBELIGHT is not turned on ... till then we will enjoy these amusing antics at these two TUBELIGHTS expense 🤣

So Mr and Mrs Nautanki urf Dhakkan Bhalla... lage raho 👍🏼🤣

Bas I'm done 😛

res 😳

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Finally got some free time.
Wow Nikki chechi.This is probably the BEST post I've read till now on this forum.⭐️Truly.The way you have summed up Each and Every thing is just perfect.👏Felt like I was watching YHM from the begining again.😳
Raman..What do I say about him..Such a DRASTIC change he underwent after marrying Ishita.😲Like really.Before marriage he was such a heartless,feelingless man.Business mattered to him the most.Yes he did care for his family.But it seemed as if he had botteled up his feelings.Failed marriage with Shagun made him like that🤢.He hated that lady.She ruined his life.Even that mere sight of the mole on his daughter's face irritated him as it resembeled that lady.
Then,Ishu comes.She was almost undergoing the same problems.Well not exactly the same.The person who she loved dicted her just cz she couldnt concieve.Then ruhi entered her life.She found herself being attached to her.Day by Day their bond became stronger.She loved Ruhi,and ruhi loved her too😳.But she hated ruhi's arrogant papa.😆
Kehte hai na,jodiyaan upar waala banata hai.IshRa ki jodi bhi unho ne banayi😆.This marriage changed both of them especially Raman.He stopped drinking.He started spending time with his family.He started loving his daughter.Rather i should say he started expressing his love.😊
Abhi toh,both are getting attracted to each other.And those eyelocks.❤️❤️
Ishu ka jealousy toh toh hum sab ne dekh hi liya hai.🤣 Raman bhi koi kam jealous nahi hua.He just managed to divert the topic.But poor Ishu failed.🤣
Ab toh sab kuch "SIRF RUHI KE LIYE" se aage badh gaya hai.And ab toh Raman haq bhi jata ne laga hai Ishu pe."Tumhara pati";"Meri biwi".I like it.😉
Bilkul sahi naam diya hai-Mr. and Mrs.Dhakkan Bhalla.🤣 Jab Pyaar hoga toh bhi admit nahi karne waale ye dono for a long time.😡😆
PS.Despite your ill health you made an effort to make this post.👏
Hope you are doing well now. Take care chechi..🤗

Nikki...

I was wondering where you were yesterday... Hope you are doing well dear 😊

First of all, please accept my sincerest compliments on your enthusiasm and energy for posting something like this, day in and day out 👏

About the post now :

Yupp.. all the Ishra gestures you mentioned are pointing towards love. The 2 episodes this week have been about the both of them realising there is something other than Ruhi that is bonding them. In the middle of all the comedy and chaos, the CVs sent out that message.

BTW - the flashback about Bandage in Ishita's clinic, he had the flashback? I thought she did... 😲
I have to watch it again now😊

Sorry, at work, so cannot write a longer reply, but I am sure you are going to get quite a few that will cover everything I want to say 😊

Originally posted by: serendipity.

Areena Karan Patel.

naam toh suna hii hoga...

haan haan definitely bhabhi...bt my dear kaamchor bhabhi better u edit ur post this time n so ALL PPL in first page..!!

bahut mushkil se banayi hai yeh post so i want my pg 1 FULL OF RAMAYANS frm u all...😈