What is Ishita's game plan? - Page 2

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I don't understand one thing

According to Mihika and Ishita , Mihir is spineless , a slave of his boss .

So why they want to jolt him and marry him and all ?😕 Why only Mihir ? Surely Mihika can get othr wonderful guys , why does Ishita want her to marry a spineless jelly and fight with Raman instead of focussing on her marraige ?

She already has a marraige , Mihika does not even have an engagement , constantly the so called fling is in off on mode

if Mihir is that bad and Mihika is too good for him , why insist on him ?

Great points by kools and pari ...So true ..Mihir is so not worth fighting for ..and I can't imagine why Ishu is going to the extend of organizing a fake engagement just to win him back for Mihika?! ..Seriously ..even if he does marry Mihika...what guarantee that he'll keep her happy when he doesn't have the guts to voice his love!! ..

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Once , he was even suspected of dirty things like doing an MMS on Mihika and beaten up badly by a member of her family . Later he was exonerated but nobody from Mihika's family apologised . They never encouraged him as a prospective son in law , nothing . So why r

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behaving as if the goods Mihir has seal Mihika stamped on him ? Even today Ishita was making faces at the decorator's . Why ? When will the calm maturity be ever displayed in the Mihir thing ? Why make him of all the people an issue in an already rocky marraige which has far more serious ups and downs as it is ?

Exactly, beats me! They never apologized to Mihir for the MMS fiasco. They never really took him seriously as Mihika's love interest, until he said he would do as Raman bhai says. So now, why all this hating on him suddenly? Ishita can be mad about Raman's attitude towards Mihika, but she cannot blame Raman for going ahead with this, since mihir agreed in full consciousness. And we yet do not know the underlying equation between Raman and Mihir. Raman has been immensely loyal to mihir when no one else would believe him. I suspect that when he finds out Romi did it, he will probably believe it, even without evidence. But, he showed blind faith in Mihir, when his own love interest did not. And Mihir for his part, truly cares about Raman. So trying to damage that equation between them, by forcing Mihir to stand up to Raman is in my opinion, not right on Ishita's part. They are all adults and Mihir being an adult has taken the decision to follow whatever Raman says, so why keep on questioning his decision again and again. Instead, go tell your sister that for Mihir, Raman is more important, so be it, move on and sure you'll find true love instead of a fizzled out romance like this. But, I don't get this obstinence on Mihir-Mihika, esp by the Iyer ladies. I feel, it was an immature relationship that did not bloom into something more meaningful, so best to tell your daughter/sister that she can do better and to move on, instead of trying to steal Mihir from Raman or endlessly hoping that by taunting him and being mean to him, he will finally speak up in front of Raman. IT is so childish.

I also do not understand Raman's uncalled for dislike for Mihika. They haven't yet shown any major reason for him to be so miffed at her, that he keeps referring to her in an aggressive fashion whenever he mentions her to IShita. You may not think she is right for Mihir, but she is your wife's sister, so why treat her like that? Keeping Mihir aside, what does Raman have against Mihika to be so spiteful about it? I don't get Raman's obstinence either. It's not like he doesn't know Mihir doesn't have feelings for Mihika, but his random dislike for her, is super weird to me.

Why is it shown that Ruhi can take all decisions like an adult and be Ishita's saviour each time ? Today she gifted Raman to her ...tell me seriously , do children have this power in normal households ? Why is a No never told to Ruhi , sweet as she is ? Coz refusals r firmly given to kids in normal houses . Don't u think the 'for Ruhi's sake ' thing is overstretched in this serial ? Let Ishita attract Raman on her own dum na , why Ruhi all the time ?

I don't like how they are using Ruhi in this show. Sure, husband and wife relationships are known to get closer over a child. And they did marry for her sake, but to keep her happy and have a normal childhood. Not to keep having her witness ugly fights and then play peacekeeper in their adult relationship. Instead, on this show, they repeatedly show Ruhi acting cupid and like an adult trying to salvage their fights. Especially, always making Raman apologize to Ishita. If they married for her sake, they should be a united force in keeping her happy, not her being the front that tries to keep them happy. And, I had assumed that the love and trust in their relationship would be shown growing from their mutual love for Ruhi and caring for her and looking after her as parents. And this realization of being parents to a shared child would lead to them looking at themselves as a couple and they would show a mature side to how love develops. But instead, they are shown to act immature and the adult moments come when Ruhi steps in to save the day. In my opinion, it's ridiculous that she is exposed to these unstable husband-wife relationship issues. Poor ruhi is still living in a family where the husband wife bicker and teh child knows it all, instead of having loving parents who give her a sense of security. She gets her security individually from Ishita and Raman, but not together as a family.

Many things made no sense .😕

I agree. This show started off with an interesting premise and has now become one of many of Ekta's soddy shows. I keep watching in the hope they will improve, and mostly because I found Raman's character very interesting especially given his past baggage and wanted to watch the progress in his character ( which I must say is quite a bit). But I find Ashok's random need to snatch Raman's happiness very absurd. Like he used to be Raman's boss, so why was he so hell bent on ruining his employee's life, when the employee had nothing on him. The wife also willingly went to Ashok, so now what's his crazy obsession with Raman?

I don't understand toshi's flip flops in character. I don't get why Iyers have to organize Mihir and Trisha's engagement. she was their paying guest, not adopted as a daughter. Tandon has so much money and he is a big businessman, so why are Iyer's having to deal with any of this? Their responsibility of keeping Trisha is over, and that should be the end of it.

I am watching this new show, where the marriage between the leads also started as a hate war, and they are relatively younger in age too, but they show a very mature and sensible lead heroine and an immature but a sensible lead hero. I like how they showed a mutual development in their story as husband-wife, without any third parties constantly playing cupid. It's a new production house and hence I feel, the treatment of that show is a very fresh take. I wish Ekta's Cv's learnt to re-invent themselves. Instead we still see same old hatch plots like in Tulsi and Parvati's lives.