Should Ishu forgive and forget?

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silvermoonlight

@silvermoonlight

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

The Bhalla's have treated Ishu terribly, and have crossed the line this time

Toshi Ji and simi said some terrible things to Ishu...things no innocent DIL should hear!

Personally I want to see Toshi and Simi kiss Ishu's feet, metaphorically, before Ishu decides to return

These two witches need to eat crow

Simi needs to be removed the Bhalla house permanently..she is married and her place is in her home..not her parents

So what do Simi and Toshi need to do in order to get Ishu back?

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100GIRL

@100GIRL

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Posted: 11 years ago

i think simmi action is justifies it was her hubby so she had some.right to yell at ishu
bt toshi jad nt ryt like parmeet was the son in law ishu was daugjter in law i want toahi to beg iahu to come home!!

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Kanika

@kankabhor

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Posted: 11 years ago

Disagree..

Toshi was wrong because she supported only her SIL and not DIL..

But for Simmi, she is totally rjustified.. Why should she trust Ishita over her husband.. You know the truth Simmi does not.. And when such situation comes any person will stand by his/her partner which is right thing to do.. The way ppl are are crying all over forum and bashing Raman as bad husband not supporting wife, not trusting his wife and all then by that logic Simmi was just being good wife. We are saying this only because we know truth and we know Ishita.. How will Simi know her and how can Simi trust Ishita who has just come in house over her own husband whom she knows for more time.. And Parmeet was always sweet to her so Simi was totally justified..

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Anju.

@ALUJNA21

Trailblazer

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Posted: 11 years ago

I agree with you.
Toshi is at 100% fault in a way for her if Raman can marry a second time, so why not a third or fourth time?? "A way of saying" that's why she cares only for her son in law and not DIL..
But I disagree Simmy is so naive because her seedha sadha husband is being accused for the second time and the allegation is the same.Any woman if not dumb will at least doubt her husband though the % will be very less.
Why Simmy is acting so indifferently. Why is she so sure for her husband?? But she can doubt Ishita... Excuse me, I will never digest such stupid reason that Simmy is so naive bechaari patni..
Well, I'm entitled to my point of view.

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silvermoonlight

@silvermoonlight

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

I agree that Simi's anger might be justified

But the words Simi used are not...she could have expressed her anger another way

grabbing her SIL and calling her "Bachalan" is going too far!!

Simi has always talked very crass in the past...I dont think she is some seedhi saadhi ladki...

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sudhi03

@sudhi03

Inactive

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Posted: 11 years ago

This time bhalla's has crossed all the limits. some where i can forgive simmi but not toshiji. Mrs. bhalla needs to suffer very badly. I hope after revelation of truth ishita refuses to return bhalla house. Raman and ruhi stays with ishita. Toshiji can happy live with her pyaare SIL pervert permeet.

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Nikeeta

@ipkkndmoments

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Posted: 11 years ago

It was just gross to watch the way that Toshi was talking about Ishita...being a mom herself, she should have been more in her senses!!

I suppose as a loyal wife, Simmi was right in her anger...but the slap was most definitely uncalled for😡 based on their relationship, by now, I think that Simmi should have at least heard Ishita out...come on, their entire family are all under a roof because of the woman that they're raising their hand at 😭

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 11 years ago

The whole fight was very realistic .

Nobody minces any words at such times .

I agree with the member who says why will Simmi trust some months old Ishita over a four year married husband with whom she shares a baby

It was a super bad idea to thrash it out in public instead of telling husband and father in law who is more reasonable privately after seeing and knowing the reactions of saas and nanand .

Even maika members were not told .

In fights like this , women lunge and hit , pull hair , give bad words .

EDUCATED women .

The goal of exposing the sexual predator so he won't go on to molest other women is fine , the way to do it was rather naive and bound to fail .

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john909

@john909

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

what i really dont understand is people saying simmi's actions are justified. but same people refuse to accept that raman is right in not picking sides and trying to find out a logical solution to this. simmi knows ishita now and she atleast trust that ishita cant do such a thing. i m saying this because ishita spend a lot of time helping these two and hence knows what a good person ishita is. she was helping her and that pervert even after what she went through at home. doesnt that tell her that ishita is not like this? infact she has more reason to trust ishita than permeet. parmeet already was accused and this was the second time and that too by a reasonable woman like ishita. if a guy keeps getting accused of same thing, doesnt that tell a person like simmi to open her eyes and brains to see her husband for what he really is?

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pomegranate

@pomegranate

Sparkler

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Posted: 11 years ago

#10

I understand simmi's reactions to an extent. I mean, why would she believe ishita over her husband? they have a proper husband/wife relationship and she shares a a baby with him. also, pervmeet never gave simmi any reason to doubt him.

Any wife would try to defend their husband against such disgusting accusations. simmi seemed distraught and frustrated and finally lashed out. Blind faith is never a good thing but it's not that reaching to say that most wives would react like this.

she still needs to apolagize to ishita though, the way she behaved with her was unacceptable but it's not suprising- simmi was alway very crass.