Bewafa Hum Nahi..Bewafa Tum Nahi..!!

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Helloo YHM-ianz..๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ...Here i'm with my first topic of this May month..!! All thnx to the ROLLER COASTER epis yday n today...!! Too many things happened..Too much hv said abt...And there equally unsaid words..feelings which were not expressed..!! And the focal point of everything ws two ppl - Raman & Ishita..!! And my this post too,lik most of the times,IS on IshRa and dedicated to them..!!

Raman - Hes THE MOST COMPLEX CHAR of YHM *hands down*...no wonder i love to call him BIPOLAR KUMAR..๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†..And i can BET he would show his bipolarness at his MAX when he will be fultoo in love with Ishita yet will fultoo try to deny it..And am actually waitin for tht phase the most.๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†.!! Nywz comin back to current condition..Raman inn do dino mein jo karnaame kiye hai-does he evn realize hw it affectes sane ppl lik me?๐Ÿ˜•...Ishita ka pata nahi,but Yeh ladka uske saath saath mujhe bhi pagal banayega, PAAGAL INSAAN..๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜†...!!

Raman IS a perfect example of a person who is ALWAYS SANDVICHED b/w Past n Present..!! Aur uske iss khudke trap ke wajah se he end up hurtin the ones who care for him n who love him n who TRUST him..!! But the good thing is he DNT WASTE TIME in repentin for the mistakes too once he realise it..!!

V hv seen offlate,how equation b/w Raman n Ishita hv been changing..!! Two ppl who once couldn stand each other were slowly slowly gettin used to each other's presence in their lives n evn subconsciously were acceptin each other too slowly...!! But as their relation is at a very nascent stage-one wrong step it could take them either towards full break to the relation or a new beginnin to the relation..!!

And tht one wrong step came in yday epi..!! When Ishita ws revealing Pervert's truth,Raman's actions n wordings did show he trusted her..!! When Simmi tried to stop her sayin things,he let Ishu talk..!! When Simmi slapped Ishu,then too he shouted at her..!! He ws still nt sure to take sides-yet in a way he ws takin Ishu's side..And tht in a way ws givin MORE STRENGTH to Ishita too..!!

But when Pervert changed the scenario n put the blame entirely on Ishita with SMSes...Raman went off track for a while..!! He HAD TO SAY MOST WRONG THING AT MOST WRONG TIME bcoz of his SAME OLD prob of being caught in past n present..!! He let the truth out infront of evryone tht they DNT share a physical relation...!! And tht KILLED Ishu mentally n tht ws THE WRONG STEP..!! He COULD HAVE remained SILENT,bt he chose to speak..!! And tht ws THE MISTAKE of Raman..!!

But lik i said before,the GOOD THING abt Raman is once he realise his mistake he DNT waste a second to make up for it..!! Yday he told things by goin off track..!! But when he saw today hw it SHATTERED Ishu-esp her silent tears,with hurt n disappointment in her eyes..it ws ENOUGH to Bring Raman back on track..!! And he knew things nw hv literally gone out of control,so only thing he could do nw is BEING SILENT&then wait for right opportunity to prove Ishita's innocence..!! Upar se THE SPOT ON lines from Mrs Iyer n Bala made things evn more worse for him..!! But he was way beyond HURT when he saw Ishu goin away-with lots of disappointment,hurt which mainly happened coz of him..!!

Raman is a char who reacts ONLY when he is put to extreme conditions..!! So here evn though he trusted Ishita,he let things go worse for her n made her evn more devastated with his words n silence..!! And when he saw all tht made her go away from her,tht ws tht last thing he DID NOT wanted to happen..!! He is NOT realisin hw much hes affected coz of Ishita..!! But he DO REALIZE how much there is an EPIC NEED to prove Ishita's innocene n GIVE HER BACK the respect n dignity SHE DESERVED n by tht he would be able to heal the wounds he gave her too with his words told yday n his silence today..!! He knew Ishu is hurt more coz of him than pervert as Ishu had all her hopes,expectations ONLY frm Raman..!! She first time expected somethin frm him lik a wife..!! And Raman is NOT DUMB to NOT REALIZE it..!! So thtsy hes now EVEN MORE DETERMINED to bring the truth of Pervert as soon as possible and bring HIS JHANSI KI RANI,HIS SUPERWOMAN back to his life..!!

So this one wrong step frm Raman is going to lead to a NEW BEGINNING of IshRa relation..!!

Ishita - Shes such a beautiful soul inside n outside..Yet destiny always played its cruel game on her..!! But still our Ishu is a VERY BRAVE GIRL..!! And thtsy she FIGHTS evry situation to the max she can..!! And this positive approach towards her life helped her change Raman FOR HIS GOOD slowly slowly..!!

Ishita married Raman only for Ruhi..!! But she herself din realise when did she DILSE nibhaoying this rishta..!! She already proved shes THE BEST MOM Ruhi could ever have evn before marriage..!! But post marriage,she also proved to be a BEST DAUGHTER IN LAW,BEST SISTER IN LAW...!! And slowly she ws bcoming WIFE of Raman too in REAL manner..!!

Its this track which let the subconscious feelings of Ishu out..!! When she first time escaped frm the molestation of Pervert,she wanted Raman's presence to cope up with situation..!! She needed HER Husband's love n support then...!! And tht she eventually got indirectly by talkin to Raman,though she din share the matter,bt jst talkin to him,feelin his presence ws enough to CALM DOWN the tsunami of emotions happened due to the sick behaviour of Pervert..!!

Next when she almost escaped from rape attempt by Pervet and then evn had to be in jail for thing she din did,she ws still in a way able to cope up with the probs coz from within she felt SHE HAS SUPPORT n TRUST of Raman on her..!! She did confess entire truth infront of family..!! But whenvr she faced counter attacks still she ws able to resist coz she ws realisin abhi bhi usko Raman ka support hai..!! BUT when SMS matter came n UNFORTUNATELY Raman chkd mob n let the truth abt their relation in public,she ws DESTROYED FROM WITHIN..!!

She would face the monster pervert...She would face evry single blame game by Bhallas..BUT SHE JUST COULD NOT TOLERATE one person's wrong words followed by silence whom she thought would support her,trust her..!! Ishu dnt realise Raman STILL trust her..!! But the damage ws done-Ishu ws no more in a state to analise anything..!! But still she hopelessly hoped kuch toh bolega Raman or atleast would stop her from goin..!! But he just stood there as a silent spectator..!! So now Ishu might feel END OF RELATION which jst started..!!

So this is how Raman n Ishita bcame victims of situations n manipulative ppl n their relation hv such stage jahan ek ko rishta poori tarah se khatam hote hue dikh rahi hai aur ek ko rishta firse shuru karne ki ek aas dikh raha hai..!! Par jab tak inki jo uljhane hai vo sulajh nahi jaate,yeh dooriyan unke beech bani rahegi..!! Par yeh dooriyan actually unke beech ke nazdeekiyon ko badaane ki saazish hai kaaynat ki..!! Jo yeh do Dhakkans abhi samjhenge nahi..๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†..Par dheere dheere yeh zaroor samjhenge..!!

The flashbacks both had abt each other,somebody wearin somebody ke fav color shirt in this missin missin chakkar-r proofs to show yeh dooriyan jo aayi hai inke beech vo ekdum CORRECT TIME pe aayi aur yeh desired result dekar hi mit jaayenge..!!

So IshRa Happy Separation Days Ahead..๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜‰..And luckily this time atleast one of u(Raman) is AWARE abt full situation..so hv full hopes of this sep being there only for shorter duration..!!

And here i end my post with the song lines dedicated to IshRa which PERFECTLY SUITS current condition of IshRa..And thts from one of my fav songs-"Chalte Chalte" frm SRK film "Chalte Chalte"...
Bewafa Hum Nahi..Bewafa Tum Nahi..!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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OKAY. OKAY. *tries to breath* ๐Ÿ˜ณ NIKKI I AM FIRST TO RESERVE ON YOUR POST FOR THE THIRD TIME IN A ROW! IT'S A HATRICK! ๐Ÿฅณ Btw remember my antaryaami waali baat from yesterday? where I predicted that you would make a post?! ๐Ÿ˜‰ *sigggh* I am SO good at this. ๐Ÿ˜Ž
NOW. On to the main topic. Today's date will be marked down in history in the land of YHM because today is the day Raman & Ishita realized the meaning of their relationship. Today is the day they realized that this was not "sirf ruhi ke liye" any more. Today they realized that a man was nothing without his wife.. and that a wife was nothing without her man's support. TODAY starts the beautiful journey of LOVE between Raman and Ishita. Today they both realized.. that they cannot live without each other. :)

The following lines from one of my favorite movies inspires me to write this post:-

"aaj..ek hansi aur baat lo, aaj ek dua aur maang lo, aaj ek aansoo aur pee lo, aaj ek sapna aur dekh lo..aaj, kya pata.. kal ho naa ho."

That one eye-lock stole the show for me today. That ONE LOOK and it narrated all the feelings.. all the ehsaas Raman and Ishita had for each other subconsciously. They might not know it but today was a start of a breathtaking love story. They may deny it all they can but both of them cannot live with out each other...and it was proven today.

Ishita: The way she looked at him with those vulnerable eyes, the tears rolling down her face said EVERYTHING. She wanted his support, she wanted him to stop her from going, to tell her that he was there with her. But she didn't get that from him. She was devastated ever since he revealed the truth about their non existent relationship to the whole family. She was shocked at how easily he could tell the whole world that they didn't have anything between them.. and it hurt her not because it was true, but because she wanted it to be true subconsciously. She wanted Raman to trust her.. she wanted him to believer her so desperately. But that hit the last nail in the coffin and Ishita was no more the same. She shattered to pieces.. when her husband didn't support her she was done. Done with the family, done with the insults, done with the accusations.. she was done proving herself because her own husband didn't speak up for her. In her eyes she saw Raman become a statue who didn't say a word that showed he believed her. But before she left, she had a little bit of hope left.. she wanted to solve this with Raman that's why she told her parents this was a "ghar ka maamla". But once her mother was taking her away she didn't want to leave.. she wanted Raman to stop her the yearn to stay back with her husband was subconsciously surpassing all the other emotions. At that point she didn't care if he believed her or not she just didn't want to go away from him, the poor soul :( My heart truly went out to Ishu in all this mess the poor girl DID NOT absolutely DID NOT deserve this at all. But my dill says that Raman sab kuch theek kar dega and he WILL bring back his jhansi ki rani with aan baan aur shaan! :)

Raman: My baby, my jaan! This man never seizes to amaze me or surprise me whenever he's pushed into a dilemma! Like you said Nikkoo! Raman needs to really be stuck in an extreme situation to realize Ishu's worth! And it couldn't get any more extreme than this! Starting with what happened in yesterday's episode.. I am SO glad he listened to Ishita's side of the story will all eyes and ears open. The way he shut everyone up and let Ishu talk was extremely nice of him.. and the way he reacted when Simmi slapped her was a treat to the eyes. He cannot STAND ANYONE saying shit about Ishita even if it's his own family members! From yesterday's episode I had concluded that Raman trusts Ishita one hundred percent! There is absolutely no doubt there what so ever! He definitely believed what she was saying but the poor helpless soul was so stuck between his wife and family that he didn't know what to say and how to say! and because of that in the heat of the moment he blurted out about how Parmeet knows that they don't have a relationship. He knew that he shouldn't have said it.. he knew it was a mistake AFTER he said it. He knew he broke Ishita's heart after saying that.. but again from his POV that was the first thing that caught his attention after he read those messages.. and in a way I think he said it to also plan Pervmeet's doom by trapping him. (I could be wrong about that though) Also, like you said NB, because of what he said made Ishita so heartbroken it'll be DOUBLE the effect on him when he repents for what he did. All this has already had a HUGE impact on him! Now coming to today's episode.. he also didn't want the Iyer's to know about this matter, he wanted them to stay away so he could solve it on his own.. and this shows that subconsciously they did not want to be apart. They wanted to work this out together. Raman chaha ke bhi nahin bol paya Ishu ko ki he was there for her, and that he will ALWAYS be there for her. And today my baby proved it :D He told the WHOLE WORLD that he trusted his jhansi ki rani, that he believed his superwoman, that he wanted to re-build this relationship that once was "sirf ruhi ke liye" but now was MUCH more than that. He will bring back Ishita with the dignity and respect she deserves! :)

*Sigh* ab chain se saans le sakti hoon. ๐Ÿ˜†

Coming back to the quote I used from Kal Ho Naa Ho.. I wanted to symbolize this whole track via that quote. Both of them will know the value and worth of each other, especially Raman! He will fight tooth and nail to re-build his relationship with Ishita, this time as his wife and not just Ruhi's mother! :) This time there's going to be lots of ehsaas..dard ka ehsaas, doori ka ehsaas, dosti ka ehsaas and finally pyaar ka ehsaas! :) The way they both stood at their window's having flashback's of each other. Ishita thinking about how her husband didn't support her or for that matter didn't stop her when she was leaving. And Raman thinking of Ishita's speech especially when she mentions that Ruhi is the string that attaches all three of them together and makes them a family. This phase of them being apart will bring them so close for eternity! :)

As I leave I'd like to put a line from one of my favorite songs that describe's Ishra's situation to the T! :)

"sab kuch wahi hai.. par kuch kami hai.. teri aahatein nahin hain"

P.S. Ab jaake khatam hui meri Ramayan. ๐Ÿ˜† Hopefully everything made sense Niks! :P Just like to say once again that I LABH YOU AND YOUR POSTS SO FREAKING MUCH! ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿค— hehe and love the colors you chose as well! ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜† LOVE YOU MY TSS! Muaaah! Just like Raman LABHS thinking of Ishu! ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜† Byeee! ๐Ÿค—
Edited by -Garima- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I waited 10 minutes after the episode finished and knew you disappeared writing post ๐Ÿ˜†
Awesome post Nikki ...Felt bad for ISHU ..she was so heartbroken when AMMA was taking her and she was looking back in hope he will stop her ..POOR GIRL, felt really bad for her !!! And then BALA gave some left and right to RAMAN ๐Ÿ˜†...I am loving this BALA ..SUCH A GEM OF A PERSON HE IS !! Raman wanted to tell him he trust ISHU but BALA didn't give him a chance ๐Ÿ˜† MOOH KHOLA bhi to BALA ke jane ke baad ...but when he opened he shut up everyone especially some bashers in the forum ( I agree he did wrong when he opened his mouth yesterday but he didn't deserve it to such an extent ) MIHIKA WAS ON FIRE TODAY ...He gave some left and Right to MIHIR and even called him SPINELESS ๐Ÿคฃ ( SHE WAS FORUM'S VOICE TODAY ๐Ÿ˜† ) BUT I like MIHIR - ISHU and MIHIR - RAMAN scene today and I am not going to call him SPINELESS ANYMORE ๐Ÿ˜†( He was a good boy today saari galti maaf but howcome he is so excited abt engagement ๐Ÿ˜•) I will not write anything for RAMAN his dialogue , expression said everything . He not for a single moment mistrust Ishita
POOR GUY was missing his JKR so much that he even thought of calling her BUT stopped himself and then he found ISHU PHONE and TAaaDaaa here comes our JB 007 in ACTION ๐Ÿ˜Ž ...Eagerly waiting for Tomorrows episode !!!

I Seriously dont know what i wrote pad kar batana ๐Ÿ˜†

AAj SAB KUCH GREEN ANDBLUE ๐Ÿ˜†
Edited by --Sia-- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome post nikki๐Ÿ‘
coming to Raman Bipolar Bhalla yes he came to his senses today explained his point of view. He trusts ishu and wants to prove her innocence. His silence has hurt ishu the most poor girl expecting raman to speak on her defence but he didn't.

The eye lock of ishra aww can't get over it. They didn't realized how much they are affecting each other. Ishita has started expecting some thing from the relation. Now it's time for MR. Raman Bipolar Bhalla to take charge for his jhansi ki rani
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Posted: 11 years ago
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mine
PS: I love how its BLUE for Raman and GREEN for Ishu! ๐Ÿ˜ณ

HIII! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
Guess who has an exam in 2 days? MEEE
Guess who's here for her Ramayan? MEEE
yayy!

Okay. So today, officially marks the start of something NEW. Something ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY new... Finally, iss ehsaas ko mai kehsakti hu, Pyaar Ka Ehsaas... Pyaar Ka Dard! UFFF! โค๏ธ
aaj ka episode was definitely one of the most most beautiful episodes in the history of Ye Hai Mohabbatein! Undoubtedly! ๐Ÿ˜ณ

Matlab UFF. you will hear/read a lot of "UFFS" this time round ๐Ÿ˜‰ hahaha... Your post... well, i stick to it, Raman ki woh mistake wasnt EXACTLY a mistake, since the mobile was already circulating through out and koi doodh peeta baccha nahi hai... SMS mai clear tha, sab ko sab samajh ajata.. so yeah =P other than that... AHH! โค๏ธ BANG ON!

Ishu was broken, she wanted Raman to say atleast ONE WORD in her defence, and id like to quote the WHOLE THING Bala said to Raman... to Raman... from my side too... but then id have stayed to see Raman's reaction... poor soul ๐Ÿ˜” BANG ON! his inner turmoil! My heart went to him! He wanted to bring full on dignity of her wife back, totally... PROOF k saath! aise hii word of mouth nahi, and he gave it back to them, silently though, that ONCE he collects enough proofs, hes going to give it to them, IN THEIR BLOODY FACES! ๐Ÿ˜Ž EVERYONES! ๐Ÿ˜ก

Toshi jii has to die. bas. main unnko nahi bardaasht karsakti. i liked her and Mrs Iyer annoyed me with her OTTness.. i take back my words Toshi ji needs to be crushed under a TRUCK! ๐Ÿ˜ต my Poor Ishu! How dare she say all that bullshit to her, man!? ๐Ÿ˜ณ UFF!

Poor ishita. the way she sat there unmoved... tears rolling down her cheeks from time to time... her sitting idle, not answering anyone... not liking anything... and then finally... when she goes to her room... opens her cupboard... AAAH... ๐Ÿ’” Everything keeps coming back. The betrayal, the mistrust that she had to bare. The aching, chubhte hue words of Toshi jii, she called her manhoos and cursed Ishita had started wondering, if she was one!? ๐Ÿ˜” AAH. and then, HER thinking about him, and there HIM thinking about HER... was just โค๏ธ AAHHMMAAZZIINNGG!! Mihir was epic too btw, he also played a vital role in putting more sense into Raman... he only got more determined to get Ishita back ASAP after that :)

UFF, when they were thinking about each otherrr! โค๏ธ + ๐Ÿ’” < SERIOUSLY YAAAR! i dont know Aaj toh IshRa really nailed that window k paas wala scene... in the previous eye lock when Ishu was going, Ramans eyes didnt reveal a lot, but Ishu's did, LOADS... she was pleading him, still saying she wasnt at fault, and she somewhere knew he does realize that!

The window scene was superb yaar! Not getting over it AT ALL! Raman... thinking about HEERRR! seriously! and im just delusionally assuming and believing that when he took his phone out, he was nihaarofying Ishu's photo โ˜บ๏ธ << lets just believe that, okay!? ๐Ÿ˜›
DELUSIONAL BGDs! ๐Ÿคฃ ๐Ÿ˜‰

Khair, its so epic, and i so hope that jaise dikhaarahe hain, we DO go ahead of the spoilers... Precap was super awesome! Detective Raman on to WORKKK! ๐Ÿ˜Ž please dont show fillers/drag tomorrow ๐Ÿ˜” like always, and even if they do, filler / drag mai ISHRA hon! IshRa ki feelings... like dont show any advancement... but the ache! ๐Ÿ’” AAHH! <3

CANT WAIT FOR NEXT WEEK BABYYY! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Pata nahi aapko kitni posts banani pare!? ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜†
Edited by serendipity. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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frist i wld like to tell bashers dare nt bash rkb again...and dont say why rkb didnt open his mouth yesterday..

he told tdy he didnt as he was worried abt his sister and her family...hope all undd now...

what an episode..the scene where ishoo sep frm raman was worth the watch...dican rocked there..there expressions were jst out of the world..

and the last scene where rkb sat on thw indow...and ishoo at her home..

thy have fallen i love and waiting to c how it wld be when thy actually fall in love...

gd post nik..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: serendipity.

mine

PS: I love how its BLUE for Raman and GREEN for Ishu! ๐Ÿ˜ณ



n tht ws a DELIBERATE CONSCIOUS DECISION..inspried by some1 wearin some1's fav color shirt...so i thought y nt me too follow the same..๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜‰
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Excellent post

Well interesting point my lord was

Raman having positive fb

Ishita having negative fb

Raman finding ways to meet her

Bala scene with Raman was very good
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post... You have analysed them very well... But, at one place, i think i saw something. You quoted that Ishita has lost her hopes on Raman...
Yes, she did till Madavi took her out. That eye-lock changed everything. Raman's eyes said something which Ishita expected some minutes before...

Why did i feel like she still believes in Raman??? Yes, she does... Somewhere in the corner of her heart, she's expecting Raman to retaliate...

With Ruhi returning back to her, she'll definitely sense her Raavan Kumar's intentions... Also, if Raman is going to go downstairs without pant, it is because of the disturbance inside him...

Ishu doesn't need words to understand Raman... Maybe, i am overlooking stuff... Still, chalta hai...


Best part in the episode was when Ishita and Raman wanted the issue to stay within their family... Both of them wanted Iyers out... Waiting for Raman Kumar Bhalla to strike back with a bang...
Edited by krikumar.91 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good post Nikki

my comments from other posts;

i think everything has been said about this episode. Only one thing I would like to add is that the anger I saw on Mihika's face. the way she cursed him! Hope she doesnt go and do something like side with Ashok in the partnership deal. Thats how she may want to get back at the BHallas...

one more thing... the caterer... paneer taste karo ๐Ÿ˜† worst possible timing for him to push his business. I couldnt resist laughing in that scene

Let the healing being๐Ÿ˜Š

Once the healing starts, lets all sit back, relax, grab some popcorn... and enjoy the separation track. I am sure its going to be innovative, typical YHM style... Cliched scenes with a twist ๐Ÿ˜Š

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