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Nisha

@Nichuss

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: sang3241
@Nichus, he ddnt deliberetedly pointed out that . I know its because of that Simi called her charecterless but please understand his situation also. its only because of that stupid messages he questioned her that too infornt of his family , also when everybody accusing her.Its veri bad but I dont thaink Raman purposefully dd that.It all came spontanously

he could have mainted quiet...silence showing he dont trust her...

now eevrything out of hand...

raman didnt do it purposefully it was human nature to explode...

that one line... made everything fall down...

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Meera

@MeeraHK

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: sang3241
@Nichus, he ddnt deliberetedly pointed out that . I know its because of that Simi called her charecterless but please understand his situation also. its only because of that stupid messages he questioned her that too infornt of his family , also when everybody accusing her.Its veri bad but I dont thaink Raman purposefully dd that.It all came spontanously

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pomegranate

@pomegranate

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: serendipity.
Enough with bashing Raman. Seriously. Everyone beforehand jumps to conclusions, bashes Raman, and then, at the end of the day, Raman saves the day n sabki bolti band. I'll brb with the same review/answer that i wrote yday. Brb
I DONT BLAME Raman. I still dont, and i swear im not being biased. Im just putting myself in his shoes. I feel so sad for him. I feel for him. Seriously! I soo know hes going to be bashed like always, and then he only will be the one to prove his wife innocent!
Adi k school wale chakkar mai bhi, everyone came down to conclusions, bloody bashed Raman, next day, sab ki bolti band!

Poor guy man! HES RAMAN KUMAR BHALLA! NOT MIHIR (whatever his fullname is) he WILL NOT accept only or say MY WIFE IS INNOCENT MY HEART KNOWS THAT. He CANNOT say that!!!!! Hes unsure himself, he KNOWS ishita cant do this yaar! He just wants to get to the bottom of this himself. He has to have CLEAR-CUT proves to prove to his family and EVERYONE. I thought Ekta was OVER this tyohaar k din sacchaai reveal karofy wale tracks and stuff but i guess not!?, but please guys, dont be so harsh on Raman usko bhi samjho!

He doesnt LOVE ishu to trust her blindly and hes STILL trusting her, and i was disappointed in him kholingg the relationship wali baat, but now that i come to think of it. The phone, the message, is revolving in front of everyone... everyone WILL read the messages sooner or later... pata toh chalna hi tha? Toshi ji etc ne toh dekh hi liya tha, toh chupana kis se tha!? -__-

I feel so sorry for Ishita... but then, everyone IS sorry for her. She, poor soul, my baby, shes the victim 😔 but again, RAMAN k angle se koi kyu nahi sochta i wonder! -_-

CV's have created such a situation in which raman will save the day and restore her dignity, no one is doubting that. I know he trusts ishita, people just wishes he kept his mouth shut towards the end. I think someone pointed this out in another thread, the deeper issue here is, CV's paint raman in an awful light then later when he saves the day, everything is ok and forgotten. he suddenly becomes the hero all over again. that's fine but how many times will these hindi serials use this tactic? heroes make shameful mistakes but then they also become the knight in shining armour and somehow, all the mistakes he has committed becomes a non-issue. Ekta mayyi does it in all her serials and it needs to stop.

Raman blurted out their private matter in the heat of moment but who paid the ulimate price? sure "it happens" but the reason people are so miffed is because ishita's dignity was at stake. everything about today's episode, from the moronic bhalla's to raman's final blow was a shameful moment for womankind. ishita's expression when raman said that still makes me tear up, I usually don't connect with characters of hindi serials, but today's episode drove me to tears today.

the reactions all over forum has been volatile because this is a sensitive issue and most of us are woman. it's bad enough that crimes against women are peaking all over the world but in india, when a women is brave enough to stand up, they have tolerate this type of nonsense.

Ps: just because raman will investigate further into this matter and save the day, does not excuse his indiscretions

Edited by pomegranate - 11 years ago

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Meera

@MeeraHK

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Nichuss

he could have mainted quiet...silence showing he dont trust her...

now eevrything out of hand...

raman didnt do it purposefully it was human nature to explode...

that one line... made everything fall down...

anyone in his place wld have exploded..he was shell shocked...and as i say in real life this happens man can explode bt woman cant ,,men supp wife and all lovey dovey thngs happ only in MILLS AND BON not in real life...jst wait and see how cv;;s take it fwd...

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KurbaanHua

@KurbaanHua

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

You know what i really didn't understand was why Raman asked Ishita "tum hi thi jo unko (as in Param) iss ghar mein layi thi". I mean WHAT? So, is he trying to say that if he came to know that his jija and sister where in trouble, before Ishita did, he wouldn't have helped them and brought them home? That didn't make sense!

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Anju.

@ALUJNA21

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Ishita should have asked Simmy why only Parmeet there's no other man left on the earth if she wanted to play such dirty game.
If she was the one who was attracting Pervmeet then how come she landed in the jail, she would have kept all as a secret.
Raman fault is he should never say that he has no relationship with his wife in front of everyone.

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Nisha

@Nichuss

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: DeliciousAS
and also the main thng is shw is a hit as the shw is realistic and it dealsd with day to day probs faced by us in our lives
so always expedct the soln also in acc to tht...

i am surprised when folks have been saying ishoo shld nt come bck to bhallas...

does this happen in real life..woman no mtr she earns 10 rs or 1 lac she has to stay with her husband no mtr what as we are bnd by society...

this attitude...this mentality is the root cause of all evilnes.s.. wen a girl is harassed mentally...she should stay with tat family...
staying quiet for family honour... staying quiet of fear...what society name.. her...
how she will be left alone..n the society...

these weakness is the main points the shamelss men take to pounce on woman..and
make them suppress...

RAPE... MENTAL HARRASSMENT IN LAWS HOUSE, HUSBAND Being Monster...
etc...happens all due to this woman weakness...

in real life this is not happening... that was ishita trying to give message...
dont suffer the harassment...RAISE THE VOICE AGAINST UR JUSTICE

next point..ishoo shld shw an indifft attitude to rkb and her in laws,.sorry for this.are we all mad to say like this...it doesnt happen in real life..max max we can hope thy feel sorry for what thy did..tht too we cant guarnatee as no man will say sorry to his wife if she is at mitake or not...

I JST HOPE CVS SHW BHALLS AND RKB ASKING SORRY TO ISHITA...

i dint knw how many of us are married here..im married for last 8 yrs and i knw how this thngs work out..

everytime adjusting..supperressing wont work...
i personally knw..the ones who suffered such types of things...
and on fear of society...family status..keeping mum...at the end...
they lose their life... 😭

sorry this is nt to offend anyone...

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Nisha

@Nichuss

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21
Ishita should have asked Simmy why only Parmeet there's no other man left on the earth if she wanted to play such dirty game.
If she was the one who was attracting Pervmeet then how come she landed in the jail, she would have kept all as a secret.
Raman fault is he should never say that he has no relationship with his wife in front of everyone.
this only me too saying...till then the epsd was perfect... this one line made everything fall down...
may b tey didnt meant the way we r viewing...still...Womanhood insulting is nt tolerated

fighter in ishita died at the moment raman asked her the phone...

so she keeping mum...hopeless,,,shattered...

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Nisha

@Nichuss

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: KurbaanHua
You know what i really didn't understand was why Raman asked Ishita "tum hi thi jo unko (as in Param) iss ghar mein layi thi". I mean WHAT? So, is he trying to say that if he came to know that his jija and sister where in trouble, before Ishita did, he wouldn't have helped them and brought them home? That didn't make sense!

this didnt come under this topic