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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dear very much agree with you you are right bura kaam parmeet ne kiya aur yahan bura raman ko kaha ja raha hai what is this. Even if i am in place of raman and someone says my husband cheated me and give me a proof i definatly so same thing. One normal person how behave in that situation raman behave same why we are talking too badly for raman we are going to extreme level i think. i am sorry but reading some posts i am too disappointing😡. Raman case are different he saw one bad example in his life that one woman cheated him and he blindly loves him she is also woman so why he beleive woman are always right. There only two or three months are passing b/w ishita and raman so how he knows that ishita is very best woman and what she says she is always right. Slowly he knows that ishita is wonderful lady and he trust her defiantly. And one point we every one are forgot that ishita thi woh jo parmeet ko ghar leke ayi thi aur usne raman ko kaha ke usko job dede raman ne teek kaha ke woh itne din se yeh baat usko kyon nahi bata rahi thi. Kuch bhi ho parmeet pe yaqeen karna ishita ki mistake thi raman ki nahi so why Rman are bad.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

i AM disappointed with Raman today...n i stick to it..!!

i would say SAME thing here too which i said in other threads..!!

Raman TRUST Ishita..theres NO TWO WAY abt it...Todays epi 90% scenes were CLEAR ENOUGH to show he do trust her..!!

BUT...a million dollar BUT..i CANNOT ignore the fact either ki instead of being "silent",he HAD TO SPEAK n tht too MOST WRONG things AT WRONG time..!! my disappointment LIES THERE..!!

n thts wht make Raman look doin a MISTAKE.. n thts wht would make him evn more better husband once he realise his mistake n will try evry single way to win his wife's heart back n give back the RESPECT which evryone took away frm her..!!


and y i'm this much disappointed with last scene is mujhe farak pada...!! bahut bahut farak pada..!! as the changin raman in past epis..y past epi...todays epi's 90% scenes-evrythin ws givin me hope Raman trust ishu...bt as he ws stuck b/w family n wife,hes remainin silent..!!

bt when he said this,it ws lik i ws bought to earth frm heaven..!! THE GREAT FALL DOWN i felt..!!

nywz jo hona tha vo ho gaya..nw Raman hv to WORK HARD to bring pervert's truth...and WORK HARDER to win Ishita's trust back n GIVE HER BACK THE RESPECT she DESERVES...!!



Agree with u Nikki the way Raman talked to Ishita it was heart wrenching he hurt it my eyes were wet when i heard muajy phone do uff he did not need to say openly abt his married life ,whenever couple share their problem with other people than they have to pay for it ,its a harsh reality of life but bhuddu raman bhala ko kon samjhae kab or kahan moon kholna hai,Ishita ka kuch nahi bolon ge she stole the show today
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Posted: 11 years ago
#13
I just wrote my Ramayan on today's episode (correction - i should call it mahabharat :D)

Its too long to paste here again... the subject is "Looking for logic again"...

I agree with everything you said... very good post... straight talk... i like it 😊 and admire it.

Romance (and our shipping) are one thing, but this is how most people would react. Like you said, even people married for a long time. Raman was shown to be sensible. I did like that he did not blindly support Ishita.

and yes, I DID see that he was the ONLY one who did not go stop Param... HE was being as rational as he could be. In fact, i think I like this Raman more than the imaginary one I have built in my mind (a more caring and more romantic one)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with u Forbidden love this thing is happening in our society most of the cases people blamed woman even their near or dear one too,But still I am happy Raman did not ask anything from Ishita?why u did this? he even said her u have to told me this thing why u hide it?so plz don't blame him too much he was exhausted

Raman has smelt something fishy but guys how could u forget this yeh wohi Raman hai who said ishita say sorry to Adi n Shagun he was not doing eye contact with her at that particular scene he knew it he was doing wrong thing he did same thing today he knew it that Ishita aisa nahi kar sakte so my finger r crossed i hope this track will end soon

but I must say he did not need to leaked out his n Ishita relationship openly that was not acceptable
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i don't know what to say...it was a nightmare
all i could say that there are many other beautiful way to make Ishra relationship stronger...bring the trust and faith factor in a relationship...but what we watched tdy or the whole week was the most disgusting and cheap way to strengthen a relationship

a women...wife...mother is openly tag as a characterless women...then husband solve the issue...their relationship grows stronger...this is no way to strengthen a relationship...when the damage is already done...when a women...wife and mother self-respect...dignity has been crushed mercilessly

there lots of ways to show the journey of a beautiful relationship...this cheap drama for trps was not needed at all...

i got disgusted watching tdys episode...it was so disturbing...this episode is going into the book of the worst aired episode till date of YHM

raman trust ishu...his expressions and eyes says all...but then i wish he was silent rather than disclosing his relationship status infront of his freaking family full of idiots...whatever the motive...positive or negative...i wished he stayed silent...becos his one disclosure openly tag ishu as characterless and cheap by the whole family...he could have avoided this...silence can be interpret in many ways...i wish he was silent tdy...his one word totally shatter and break ishu down...her self-confidence...self-esteem became so low after his revelation...

the fault with ishu...she began to have expectations with this creepy family and raman...i hope she gets her reality check now...do not keep expectations...go with the flow...everything will become positive...

once we keep expectations for someone and it breaks...its too painful...it crushes the soul...and thats what ishu went through



Edited by Mages - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am with you dear. We will stand by our hero!

It was a depressing episode!!. Felt very very bad for Ishra. Such unfortunate circumstances around them..
If we decide to revisit the scene, before SMS thing came up, Raman had no doubt in his mind about ishu being right.
His eyes reflected her pain, his expressions shared her hurt, his body language gave all pro-ishu vibes.

Then the dreadful SMS was revealed and it shook him a bit. If one really put oneself in his shoes, i think his reaction was okay n real.

We fans have painted such vivid and beautiful pictures of Ishra but if strictly serial context is considered, they are not even friends n seriously what they share is mutual respect than implicit trust n emotional connect with each other.

Their relationship is at such a fragile stage that momentary lapse of trust is possible.

Raman said he is not able to decide whose side to take.. So he is not doubting ishu but is plain dumbstruck for those few minutes.
It is a disappointing situation but I cannot hate or be angry on Raman for that; NOPE!

His sense will prevail and he will be able to decide whom to trust when he will replay ishu's hurt eyes in his mind; of that I am sure!

and till then I am going to support him with whole heart. :)



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PreciousPri

Simmi... her behaviour was justified...she is in love with her husband ... she has a small kid ... it is obvious she wouldn't want to believe IRB ...no wife can hear something like this about her husband ... and esp after reading those messages even that slap was justified... anyone would have done the same...I really liked her line that mu se nilki hui baat wapis nahin aa sakti .. so true... she is afraid for her family and uska gussa jayaz hain
Toshiji ... I don't know.. she doesn't seem to want to use her brains...she wanted it all to stay hidden... was shocked what happened today... she did acknowledge when IRB said PervMeet sent everyone for the movie while he stayed back ... she did stop Simmi in the end who was again getting aggressive with IRB... but when Simmi mentioned IRB hovering around PervMeet she was like yeah that's true...and then her saying no one in this house is like this?? what about your supoot Romi...
Romi... he was good today...when Simmi was getting aggressive with IRB he was the one to try and stop this ... he was also shocked and disgusted when IRB was mentioning the things PervMeet done with her ... ofcourse he is not doodh ka dhula either but he does respect his bhabhi
Mr Bhalla... was definitely shocked and disgusted...just look at his reaction towards PervMeet esp when IRB is talking about Pervmeet trying to touch her thighs while driving... and he kept throwing disgusted looks at his SIL too
My only question is .. where is Rinky?? Why isn't she here to witness all this... was this deliberate ??... Would she have said anything in relation to this??? ... I feel as a woman she should have heard what IRB was saying about Pervmeet so she herself can be alert... I don't know
Finally PervMeet... no words or comments
That's all


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Very well said PP.

If I have to blame one person in this entire bandwagon of bhallas, I will blame toshiji. Of course I am not even counting their SIL as a family anymore..

- we cannot help but cry for and with ishu.
- No married women will act differently than how simmy acted today.
- all bhalla men were shocked n ill-informed.
- rinky ka shooting schedule match nahi hua na; otherwise she should have been there 😆

But toshi ji had a hint about it and had experience of age going for her.. She should have shown more maturity.. Unless unhone unnhi dhoop mein baal safed kiye ho 😉

But again her character itself has been developed as that of an impulsive women.. so kya kare!
Edited by Ad_Mumbai_Girl - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well said PP.

If I have to blame one person in this entire bandwagon of bhallas, I will blame toshiji. Of course I am not even counting their SIL as a family anymore..

- we cannot help but cry for and with ishu.
- No married women will act differently than how simmy acted today.
- all bhalla men were shocked n ill-informed.
- rinky ka shooting schedule match nahi hua na; otherwise she should have been there 😆

But toshi ji had a hint about it and had experience of age going for her.. She should have shown more maturity.. Unless unhone unnhi dhoop mein baal safed kiye ho 😉

But again her character itself has been developed as that of an impulsive women.. so kya kare!
Thank you and thank you for the lovely PM too 😃...
Toshiji is a very confusing character... don't know what to think now 😕... she did seem to acknowledge what IRB was saying but then seeing Simmi pata nahin what happens to her ... lets see .. like you say kya kare
Agree with what you have said about the others..,...esp Ishita poor soul 😭
yeah I hope it is re shoot schedule for Rinky coz I so wanted her to be there 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Just a note: I love Raman and he is too good but today the character of Raman did not do what he needed to.
Edited by 4856 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Woah..Shivuuu...Brilliant..BANG-ON with the eye contact part of your post..I dint observe it at all today..Loved your perspective..So bloody true..He always looks into people's eyes when he speaks to them..but today he knew he couldn't face her because deep down he knew he was not saying the right things to her ..in other words faking it..

Oh and about the Simmi slapping Ishita, I did observe he got angry ..He just raised his voice and said "Simmi"..Guess he felt like it was a slap to him and his trust toward Ishu ..Kind of got me thinking that even though he dint show it outwardly,internally it hurt him to see Ishita getting slapped by his sis..

BANG-ON again about the mental calculation..Though he was confused whom to believe for a brief period of time, it did not take long for him to realize that who was actually wrong..Somehow I did feel he was thinking a lot when he was reading that message..

Oh ya..bloody brilliant observation Shivuu..He and Ishu were the only ones who dint move from the spot..Though my guess would be that he was too shocked and overwhelmed at the turn of events but still it somehow convinced me that he dint believe Parmeet's cock-and-bull story either..

And as far as toshi and simmi are concerned..when they get to know the truth..REALITY WILL SLAP THEM HARD IN THE FACE..And yes Hats off to team YHM for giving us a reality check today ..Indeed very well executed..



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