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I'm BACK again Bros...
Please mind my language, I might come across as being Rude BUT just wanna let you guys know that, I DON'T sugar coat stuff, I say what needs to be said AND what I believe in... I'm a RATIONAL person, I think through before I say something it has got nothing to do with loving the character or not. I don't believe in blindly supporting someone just because they're MY FAV. Moreover, this post is NOT intended at anyone, it's a post where I'm expressing MY POV, feel to agree or disagree BUT just don't start an argument with me. Like I mentioned, I don't sugar coat stuff,which means I'm NOT going to be the one in the losing end.
PEACE OUT Bros...😎
Leave aside this TRUST for a while & answer these few questions truthfully? [Put yourself in Raman's shoes, AND think.]
If you were in Raman's shoes AND seeing the messages would you have reacted like how he did OR ...?
My Answer: I would have reacted in the exact same manner.
I'm sorry but haven't you guys come across couples who have been married for 30++ years YET while put in the same situation would still react the way Raman reacted regardless of whether it's the Husband OR the Wife.
I'm NOT going to connect this incident with the whole TRUST he has on Ishita. Questioning her has got NOTHING to do with his trust on her. He saw the messages, and like every NORAML human being, she's questioned her about it. What's wrong in that? If he had manhandled her like what Simmi did, than I would say Raman is at fault but he didn't.
And if it isn't obvious enough Raman was as equally hurt than I would have to write to the YHM team requesting them to reshoot the scene particularly Zooming in on Raman's face at least than his HURT would be VISIBLE to all.
Now let's come back to this "TRUST" everyone has been hyping about. Who dare says that Raman doesn't TRUST Ishita?
As far as how I see it, if Raman hadn't TRUSTED Ishu than while questioning her regarding the messages he would have actually LOOKED her in the eye, and asked those questions... He asked the questions because he had too, the freaking messages were right there AND of course leaving the phone back home and stuff it's only going to seem like excuses given to hide what has happen, that's the truth... BUT the thing is, why didn't he look at her when he asked the questions? Take a look at the past episodes and you see Raman facing Shagun looking in the eye and asking her questions, he never looks away EVEN for that Ashok. AND even when he is in the wrong, he would still maintain the damn eye contact yaar BUT today, he didn't look at Ishu... He knew that he HAD to ask those questions lekin deep down he knows & TRUSTS hie Wife and that's why he wasn't able to face her.
AND seriously, how in the world could Raman have stopped Simmi from slapping Ishu... Not like Simmi gave a disclaimer or an 3 months advance notice that she is going to slap Ishita right?! When things happen in the moment of heat, nobody has control over what they SAY or what the DO... We are NORAML humans yaar NOT god or some freaking harry potter, to have every single situation under our control at all times. There are times, when we ourselves are NOT able to account for our actions & words, so how am I to account for what someone else does?! The words Simmi & Toshi spoke, Raman is in NO WAY held responsible.
AND, I know it might be like, "Why the F did Raman bring up their relationship matter?" BUT like I mentioned before in the moment of heat, you have NO control over what you're saying or doing. AND we all know RKB, how he reacts, so technically there's NO surprise over her Bros.
I believe that Raman knows Pervmeet is playing a double game. Because, if Ishu had insisted him NOT to tell this to the entire Family than how is it she would have told Pervmeet?! In the pretext of asking her questions, his mentally calculating certain things... That's quite OBVIOUS from his EXPRESSIONS... PLEASE ZOOM IN... I beg of you'll PLEASE ZOOM IN and see Raman EXPRESSIONS, it speaks VOLUMES. His EXPRESSIONS changed in an INSTANT when he read the messages like he KNEW that the bas***d was playing mind games.
AND now FINALLY, Forget about whether Raman TRUSTS Ishita BUT the one thing we can be sure off is that he doesn't trust that Pervmeet either. Did you guys ZOOM IN on Raman, when Pervmeet was trying to leave the house he DID NOT... I repeat he DID NOT..he as in Raman DID NOT try to stop him at all. He was just standing there... If he did not TRUST Ishu, he would have been the first one to have went and stopped that BLOODY Pervmeet from leaving lekin this MAN...My MAN...Raman did not even bother to move an inch from his spot.
As for Simmi, Pervmeet & Toshi, I might come up with a different post for them...maybe...maybe not. BUT as of now all I wanna do is, HIT THEM SO HARD THAT MY FIST WILL PHASE THROUGH THEIR FACE & COME OUT THE OTHER SIDE. AND that's just 1 of the MANY things I would do. I've prepared an ENTIRE list for them, lekin the level of BRUTALITY in the things in the list, kinda even sends shivers down my spine so just IMAGINE the fate of this TRIO.
Today YHM as a TEAM once again PROVED to be the BEST out of the entire lot. Every single one of them including Romi did their part RIGHT. They all PREFORMED exceedingly WELL... It was PERFECT, it was an MINDBLOWING Performance from everyone. They made you forget that this is just show AND literally took us into the their life. AND this is REALITY people, what they portrayed today is what ACTUALLY HAPPENS in the REAL world today in fact maybe worse. BUT seriously the entire cast DESERVES a STANDING OVATION for this BRILLIANTLY executed Episode.
POINT to NOTE; If you wanna see REALISTIC shows, than today's episode was THE REALITY.
P.S. The trauma Ishu went through deserves a separate post and I will definitely come back with another post to justify her. Even she's being bashed AND that PISSES me off to a whole NEW level. Meanwhile; If you're a Women do read this, http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4001889 Men are welcome as well, I'm not being sexist.
Kabhi Neem Neem Kabhi Shahad Shahad
