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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Ishita is too overconfident of herself, she already knew that Simmy and Toshi are not ready to believe her, but instead like any simple wife who prefers to talk with her husband alone, she chose to talk in front of everyone and still she expects Raman to believe her...
She must know that the others will also add their point of views.
Hope she's shows to be more intelligent next time...


what makes you think a man who doesnt believe his wife in front of his family will believe her when they are alone????

and a simple wife? there shud not be any more simple wives anywhere in the world im sorry but its 2014!! women need to stand up for themselves. If she has something to say to protect herself or try punish a molestor than thats what she should do! infront of everyone why hide it so she can have one persons support (a person who has never really supported her before) usually in tv shows its shows the woman is quiet and talks about these issues secretly and is all like "oh ill prove hes guilty and ill hide wat im doing from everyone!" thats now how life works! stand up to ppl like this and punish them openly and publicly who cares who believes you are not and this parmeet guy needs to burn in hell somewhere so it should come out in open infront of everyone.




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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree totally

i posted this in another thread

One thing i liked was , irritable though he was , not for a moment did Raman believe Sarika's complaint was true

he thought she was lying and was constantly telling Ishita to vomit the truth

Ishita should have told him the truth before they reached home rather than taking decision to tell in front of the family

Sexual predators in the family must not be dealt with innocent bravado . It was a delicate situation . Very good that she has opted not to be quiet and bear it , but there was ample time to tell Raman instead of that stony silence inspite of his repeated queries and a declaration that i will speak only in front of full family

why

did not he deserve to know before them

had full family come to get her out of jail or had he come alone

even her family could not get her out , he could and did . So why was he not told . Yes , he would be incredulous which is natural but perhaps a lot of questions would rise in his mind before they reached home , even Parmeet was afraid of him being brainwashed .

This is no defence of Raman . I am neutrally enjoying the story .

Ishita called Bala , but it was Raman who got her out by pulling strings and he did not for a moment believe Sarika's trumped up charge . He deserved a detailed special hearing . After that would be later story .


When i see the serial , i see that there is lack of trust on both sides . Today most of the forum blames Raman for not believing Ishita outright . But i even see her lack of trust on him . She did not tell him even though he asked her many many times . She trusts Bala more , even discusses Raman with him . Not that i blame her for that . Its somewhat natural given her stormy relationship with Raman . But if Raman had been more close to his bhabi and discussed Ishita with her it would have been seen as an insult to her by quite a few . The fact is , he is a troubled man but he discusses his problems with no one and has arrived at his own judgement of Ishita's character , that she is a girl from a good family and obviously that girl Sarika must be lying .

But Ishita simply brushed his efforts to get her free for granted , did not bother to apprise him of anything and declared she will tell all but in front of full family . She has Bala on one side as her soul confidante and equates Raman with the full family she is living with .

No , Raman is her husband , seperate from other in laws and even Bala .

Yes he would be incredulous but incredulity would be by ANYONE listening to this , even own parents r incredulous when stories of sexual predators within family r blurted out . There can be no revelation without incredulity from the listener , it is spontaneous . But facts sink in and unconscious observations start . And spouses should be honest with each other , stormy or placid relationship .

First rule of marraige ...husband is NOT equal to in laws . He has a unique , special , perhaps most important place in the equation of life .

Same applies to wife .

Vultures and crows come to peck when spouse is uninterested in wife . This will set Raman re thinking . But the lack of trust issues r from both sides , though i hope i am proved wrong this time and Raman looks askance at Parmeet after this and catches him just like he caught Adi .

It does not matter about surmising whether he would have believed her or not , many times has Ishita believed Shagun over him . One HAS to tell husband first . Husband and in laws r not same . Still if he does not believe , other steps can ber taken .

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