So many times ishita has saved them,still they ...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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...i dontlike the degrading way they speak to ishita when things go wrong.esp toshi ji... Cmon ishita saved their daughters life brot her bak to comfort of her home ...still they doubt her and speak degrading to her..when will this get fixed..???? i do not get the logic😡.. I know ekta is taking some cinematic liberties to sensationalise twists..lbut she can take care of this aspect.. Toshi's regressive way of treating her bahu and Raman's violent disrespectful way..this is higly jarring sometimes...cvs pls take care😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree, I am not a fan of the whole 'getting drunk and yelling at your wife when anything goes wrong' approach. I mean Raman being educated himself should know that Ishita is not stupid. But lets say even that understanding was clouded by anger...there is no reason to bring this in front of the entire family. There are other ways of showing anger, not throwing glasses and being disrespectful. And Toshiji is also pretty upsetting at times. I am pretty thankful that she is not the evil plotting saas, but this blind faith in Raman and outright disrespect of her DIL in front of her own mother was a bit too much. If there is an issue, it can be solved in different ways. Even if Ishita hadn't done so much for the family, it is no way to treat anyone, especially without even considering her side for a second.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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This time , even Ishu is not sure... Even she is feeling guilty... So, it is expected... Also, its just Toshi... She's harmless.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Reina1

I agree, I am not a fan of the whole 'getting drunk and yelling at your wife when anything goes wrong' approach. I mean Raman being educated himself should know that Ishita is not stupid. But lets say even that understanding was clouded by anger...there is no reason to bring this in front of the entire family. There are other ways of showing anger, not throwing glasses and being disrespectful. And Toshiji is also pretty upsetting at times. I am pretty thankful that she is not the evil plotting saas, but this blind faith in Raman and outright disrespect of her DIL in front of her own mother was a bit too much. If there is an issue, it can be solved in different ways. Even if Ishita hadn't done so much for the family, it is no way to treat anyone, especially without even considering her side for a second.

exactly very very very well said👏 I too am not a fan ofthem showing raman drunk whenev things dont go his way,... I mean whats this serial perpetuating...drun violence towards women???? Ishita cvers up everything for ruhi... Hahahaha like a real domestically violent household... So they show yeh behaviour normal hai???? Making a joke out of it?? When will raman learn to give BASIC respect to his wife..toshiji should let him grow up now😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@tm agree/with u... no offence men r men no mtr wat thy do thy r right bass...

toshiji as/mom supp raman...

wNt to see watt rkb has to say whn trth comes out regdd deal..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@tm agree/with u... no offence men r men no mtr wat thy do thy r right bass...

toshiji as/mom supp raman...

wNt to see watt rkb has to say whn trth comes out regdd deal..

but the prb is its a vicious circle... Nothing makes raman happy..even spoilers say...raman after the truth comes out abt the land deal...raman will only walk out furious out of the house...then then whattt??? To storm bak Drunk in at midnite after meeting ashok laughing at shagun..n then coming bak home to illtreat ishita again ,n tell her ki apney aapko tees maar khan mat samjho..ek land deal hi toh bachaai hai.l😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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thr r no spoilefs aftr tomm...
agree the way rkb acts pisses off...
he will unn one day sure..
we can jst wait...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jay_tapori

exactly very very very well said👏 I too am not a fan ofthem showing raman drunk whenev things dont go his way,... I mean whats this serial perpetuating...drun violence towards women???? Ishita cvers up everything for ruhi... Hahahaha like a real domestically violent household... So they show yeh behaviour normal hai???? Making a joke out of it?? When will raman learn to give BASIC respect to his wife..toshiji should let him grow up now😡


The bold part is so accurate. Domestic violence is a real issue in India, and other countries accross the globe. It is NOT right to show a man OR woman drunk and abusive towards their spouse. The way Raman treats Ishita on several occasions has subtle hints of this, and by making light of the entire thing and showing it in a comic angle is ridiculous. It needs to stop. It is neither romantic nor funny, and Ishita making it 'no big deal' is annoying. If the creatives are reading any of this, PLEASE understand the weight of such an act, and how it can impact the viewers. You want to show Raman as an angry young man, do it, but not to the extent that he appears to be abusive, even subtly so.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Promoting abuse no matter how trivial sends the wrong message. The fact that Ishita is putting up with this behaviour solely for Ruhi is unacceptable. The characterization of Raman needs to improve, its about time the CVs started making him show some real remorse for this actions and at least start treating ishita with the respect she so rightfully deserves.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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this family will never change...i don't keep any expectations from them...and it looks like even ishu is used to it...

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