When will bhalla start respecting ishita - Page 3

Originally posted by: rainbowgirl

Mrs Bhalla is turning into a typical annoying saas🤢🤢Ishita always tries to act mahaan which irks Toshi to behave like that, Ishita should be more tactful in her approach i feel when she knows that she isn't liked in Bhalla house🤔

Originally posted by: peric

the day raman shows his love for ishita in front of the family, n the way he took side of shagun earlier n he does same for ishita ... mrs bhalla will understand ishita is the rightful biwi of raman n bahu of their house

Originally posted by: serendipity.

<font color="#ff3366">First, as youve already said, yes, this is a TV show, it would be great if we stop relating it to real life... because we dont do it with any other shows... we dont do it with American shows which can get away with unrealistic outer space stuff like Vampires, dragons, monsters, superhuman creatures... so i think we at times become harsh on our desi shows, even though its funny to not point out their faults or laugh at the riot 😉</font>

<font color="#ff3366">I agree with your topic though ^^ this had nothing to do with this particular topic... was just pointing out generally. Other than that, yes, Ishita does deserve the long-deserving respect, BUT, till now, nothing has gone terribly wrong, im sorry, but in real life, youre way more realistic, divorces happen really easily in shows... not in real life... so in real life you tend to face wayy more harsher situations, especially when your husband doesnt want you, and your in-laws have not completely accepted you. Here, Ishita, honestly speaking is only a liability for the Bhallas, apart from the good bhallas... you know who they are... Like Mr Bhalla, Romy and Rinki... whereas RAMAN, TOSHI JI, SIMMI are all, tolerating her. They dont like her. Its as simple as thpat, but they know that theyre gonna have to deal with her... for the sake of their child, Ruhi.</font>

<font color="#ff3366">It will take time for Ishita to carve a niche for herself, and she, sooner than later WILL get the much awaited respect... but provided, she doesnt ruin it herself... which, i think... she is going to... since shes being such a 'detective' in Simmi's case. And, okay fine, BE the detective, out of ALL the people she could tell this to... she tells this to Toshi ji... LIKE REALLY? Like i mean come on, i think Raman trusts her more than Toshi ji does, and honestly, if Raman wouldve taunted her after she let him know, i would have been okay, understood, not hated it, but Toshi ji scolding and taunting her... i just hate it, because Toshi ji is genuinely getting on my nerves.</font>

<font color="#ff3366">Ishita could have even talked to Mihir who would have personally looked into the matter. Talked to Mihika.. MR. BHALLA... ANYONE but TOSHI!? -_- ab HOW is Toshi ji EVER gonna be able to like her, even when she comes to know that Simmi was at fault? Obviously she will have "the" soft corner for her daughter, yeah?</font>

<font color="#ff3366">So, the day Ishita stops doing this, and does lil things like shes been doing for the past few days... she will slowly, yet steadily... make home in the hearts of Bhallas... real soon :)</font>

Originally posted by: juggaad

<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">It's been what? 20 days since Ishita and Raman got married? People will take time accepting a new person into the family. And it has never been easy between the Bhallas and Iyers. Raman and Toshiji are prejudiced. They have decided the type of person Ishita is. Interfering, judgemental and ill mannered. In such a situation they will be taunting her every time they get a chance. I agree, it is the responsibility of the family members to make her feel welcome. But if they already did that, we wouldn't have a story, would we? Anyways, it is only Raman and Toshiji who are like that. The rest of the family has accepted her.</font>

Originally posted by: serendipity.

<font color="#ff3366">but so what if they keep calling her madrasi/madraasan? she doesnt even have a problem with that</font>

<font color="#ff3366">Mrs Iyer also keeps saying "PAANJABII" in the annoying overdone accent... and in a -ve way, like not praising them... so its okay, i guess? i find it cute and funny actually, when Raman calls her Madraasan... or even jhansi ki rani for that matter 😳</font>

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

that's an interesting and different perspective but wish atleast those madrasi jibe stop