Raman: Father, Punjabi & Husband

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Posted: 11 years ago
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As far as Hindi TV is concerned, my expectations are at a very low standstill. There is little to nothing that wouldn't be absolutely foolish to expect. That being said, even Kekta shows have their highs and then perpetual lows until the channel is forced to end the show. YHM is at that very high right now, won't you say?

Raman's character, for one, is getting such mature and beautiful development. In tonight's episode, Karan Patel carried out a plethora of emotions. It was actually pretty brilliant to see. In an episode of hardly twenty minutes, he did such variety of scenes and each one, with such versatility and skill. 👏

Raman is not a good or a bad man. He is a damaged man. You can make that out by the number of emotions he undergoes. For one, there is the faade of stoic rudeness. Behind it, there is a father who longs for the love of his son and feels remorse because of the distance he has created between his daughter and himself. That bit with Ruhi complaining that his beard pricks and Bala with his son and the whole effect it had on the man, coming out with a light tear - it was course and real and hits where it hurts. So, Raman isn't a good man or a bad man, but a damaged one. I enjoy damage, I do. 🤔

But then he's also Punjabi, which isn't a culture, it's a freaking lifestyle, an adjective, 😆in fact. Look at how Raman and Mrs. Bhalla laugh at mistakenly intoxicating Ishita. No matter how many blows you survive in your life, man, if you are Punjabi, it's extremely hard to get rid of that Punjabi and absolutely natural edge to your nature. Priceless stuff! 😆

Lastly, the way Raman stood up for Ishita was all too good but I wouldn't elaborate on it much because I am quite sure there'd be independent posts on that scene. Here, I am only just going to note how realistic his defense was, even if theatrical. We may not have the strongest interpersonal relationships or even consider our relationships genuine ones, but Indians have a massive thing for family over which they have no control. Ishita is Raman's family now and he doesn't love her, no but he wouldn't let just anybody come and bark at her. Very realistic! 😳

While this lasts, I am enjoying the show, with all this awesomeness! The writers and directors and the actor involved have made Raman into someone so much more likable, relative and brilliant than before. Amazing development and so good to see, I say. And let's just say before I go, not only Raman but everybody was a riot in tonight's episode. One of my favorites thus far! 😃

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Just one word...beautiful post! ⭐️
Enjoyed reading your point of view.
Even i do enjoy damage...rather my past record of favs have somewhat followed the same pattern. 😆
Hope to see ya more often here.😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kanks! 🤗
Im so glad to see you here, and im glad we're enjoying the show together... since this is a finite show... i really hope, the awesomeness remains... and only grows!
Coming to the topic, which is RAMAN my most favourite Fictional Indian tv character at the moment... i just cant tell you. I totally relate to all his emotions even though i havent ever in life gone through even 1/4th of them? But he... Karan Patel... makes them so realistic, you dont have a choice but to relate to it. Karan patel, for sure is a thorougly gifted actor, genuinely.
The way he has portrayed Raman Bhalla is absolutely applaudable. And, youve put it just right. He's not a bad man, or a good man for the sake of it. He is DAMAGED. A broken man. The way his character has grown and is growing... i mean hes growing on me... YOU KNOW? 😛 😆 im loving these different sets of emotions and stuff coming from him and am greedily waiting for more.
Im yet to watch the epi, but i can say from all the posts and the Live Updates that today's episode too, belonged to THE RKB, and i know im going to absolutely love it.
I would have commented more, if i'd have seen the epi and my excitement would have probably reduced, but at the moment, i havent seen the epi yet, and i am overly excited to see it and i need to shower and iron and stuff, so yeah << see, I DONT MAKE SENSE, BLAME YHM, okay bye! :D
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Excellent Post. Well thought out and well written.
Imactful especially about Raman's complex nature and Punjabis being a lifestyle
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree. 😛

Originally posted by: Malika

Just one word...beautiful post! ⭐️
Enjoyed reading your point of view.
Even i do enjoy damage...rather my past record of favs have somewhat followed the same pattern. 😆
Hope to see ya more often here.😊



I have a thing for masochism, mate. If you do too, well, we are doomed but in this together. 😛
I should be around if I feel like writing. 😳 Thanks!

Originally posted by: serendipity.

Kanks! 🤗

Im so glad to see you here, and im glad we're enjoying the show together... since this is a finite show... i really hope, the awesomeness remains... and only grows!
Coming to the topic, which is RAMAN my most favourite Fictional Indian tv character at the moment... i just cant tell you. I totally relate to all his emotions even though i havent ever in life gone through even 1/4th of them? But he... Karan Patel... makes them so realistic, you dont have a choice but to relate to it. Karan patel, for sure is a thorougly gifted actor, genuinely.
The way he has portrayed Raman Bhalla is absolutely applaudable. And, youve put it just right. He's not a bad man, or a good man for the sake of it. He is DAMAGED. A broken man. The way his character has grown and is growing... i mean hes growing on me... YOU KNOW? 😛 😆 im loving these different sets of emotions and stuff coming from him and am greedily waiting for more.
Im yet to watch the epi, but i can say from all the posts and the Live Updates that today's episode too, belonged to THE RKB, and i know im going to absolutely love it.
I would have commented more, if i'd have seen the epi and my excitement would have probably reduced, but at the moment, i havent seen the epi yet, and i am overly excited to see it and i need to shower and iron and stuff, so yeah << see, I DONT MAKE SENSE, BLAME YHM, okay bye! :D



Arena! 🤗 Why don't you come around again after you've actually watched the episode. It'd be most fascinating to read your two cents. 😆

Originally posted by: eternalasha

Excellent Post. Well thought out and well written.

Imactful especially about Raman's complex nature and Punjabis being a lifestyle



I am Punjabi. I know the drill. 😆
Thanks very much! =]
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Epiphany ... 👏👏👏 ... take a bow , my dear ...

You've beautifully summed up all our thoughts on the epi today !

You're right ,... YHM is at its best now ... am keeping my fingers crossed ... (my toes too ...😆 ) ... ekta shows are famous for sending a perfectly good story down the drain !

Totally loved the epi today ...

the STAR of the show was Raman ... no doubt ...Karan Patel was at his awesome best ... what range of emotions ...

Embarrassed with wife's phone call in the office ...
Friendly banter with Bala ...
The aching reminder of Adi's absence in his life on seeing Shravan-Bala ...
The pure joy of just kissing his daughter without the ghosts of the past or doubts haunting him...
The barely concealed chuckle of glee shared with his mother on learning Ishu was drunk ...
The enraged hubby on seeing his wife being insulted ...

Karan was fabulous !!! 👏

Everyone, every scene, every dialog ... was on the dot today ...

A truly enjoyable epi !!!!!!



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful analysis. Thanks for the post.
Loved the episode. Awesome one. Loved divyanka and karan patel. In fact loved all in episode. Excellent actors.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rusha4003

Epiphany ... 👏👏👏 ... take a bow , my dear ...

You've beautifully summed up all our thoughts on the epi today !

You're right ,... YHM is at its best now ... am keeping my fingers crossed ... (my toes too ...😆 ) ... ekta shows are famous for sending a perfectly good story down the drain !

Totally loved the epi today ...

the STAR of the show was Raman ... no doubt ...Karan Patel was at his awesome best ... what range of emotions ...

Embarrassed with wife's phone call in the office ...
Friendly banter with Bala ...
The aching reminder of Adi's absence in his life on seeing Shravan-Bala ...
The pure joy of just kissing his daughter without the ghosts of the past or doubts haunting him...
The barely concealed chuckle of glee shared with his mother on learning Ishu was drunk ...
The enraged hubby on seeing his wife being insulted ...

Karan was fabulous !!! 👏

Everyone, every scene, every dialog ... was on the dot today ...

A truly enjoyable epi !!!!!!





You've summarized is so well yourself. I agree and oh, yes, everything was top notch tonight.

Originally posted by: Ishra2

Beautiful analysis. Thanks for the post.

Loved the episode. Awesome one. Loved divyanka and karan patel. In fact loved all in episode. Excellent actors.




Thank you.
Oh, yes! Most excellent, we're all so impressed. 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Totally agree with you...Raman is doing an outstanding job...👏 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Can I just start by saying that your post is as meaningful and intuitive as is your username? 😃 I absolutely adore your post and I hope you will come back to do reviews of the episodes more often 😃

I agree, YHM is at the highest it will ever be, and I doubt we as viewers mind riding on this high either. Today's episode was excellent and high on content!! It had the right mix of comedy and emotion; this is what great episodes are made of!

Today's episode was a more indepth look into the man who is Raman Kumar Bhalla. We all have that one poison that seeps into our soul and destroys us, damaging us! For Raman, it is the loss of his son, his family, the thought of losing his daughter, and the whirlwind of emotions that he has wrapped up within himself. Raman Kumar Bhalla is a common man, the kind of man you find around you...like you said, he isn't good, he isn't bad, he is the epitome of a flawed man who still has the ability to draw you to him!

Raman and Ruhi were natural and heart wrenching today! These are the kind of scenes that mark the quality of this show! They are perfect, soft, and endearing! Bala and his son's scene was so symbolic but so apparent too; this is the kind of father-son relationship Raman lacks with his child and his internal guilt/remorse was so evident today. I LOVE KARAN PATEL!!!!!!!!! I think I am going to leave it at that 😃

Raman and Ishita were such a fun duo today! While Ishita was vulnerable, Raman was bold and dignified! I love that he apologizes to Bala for talking to his mother rudely, but also making sure to be firm when he reminds the lady that Ishita is his wife now. There doesn't need to be love there immediately between these two, but there does need to be respect. And it was so evident today that Raman has atleast the slightest bit of respect for his wife to know that when she is being insulted, he should step in and defend her.

Thank you for your post! I absolutely loved reading it :D Please do write in here more 😃

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