The Difference b/w Mrs. Bhalla & Mrs. Iyer is Proved Again! - Page 2

Originally posted by: aimf

Very nice observation, Tanni. Yes, that is the difference. But Madhu also has her angry moments, like when she locked up Toshi in the store room during the lodi celebrations. I do agree that after the wedding, Madhu has mellowed down a lot with the bhallas, but Toshi is yet to let her reserves and prejudices down. Let us see what it takes for Toshi to really accept Ishu as a daughter, as part of her own family, rather than as a glorified nanny for Ruhi.

Originally posted by: simples28

Yeah dear😊nice observation😃

I also loved how Mihika said "Its ok akka"😊😊so sweet!!

Oh n by the way..I want to know this..does anyone here think Ishita lost on purpose?..

Originally posted by: Heema22

I donot like to compare mothers . They have their own agenda and they do weird things to protect their love ones . I have seen many Moms Lie , fight , give up their Principles ( not my mother )even kill someone to protect their offsprings ( newspaper info ) so it's nothing new to me that both mothers are rather peculiar .

Since the TM has posted very interesting comparison . I want to put my two cents in.

Mrs Bhalla irritates me for many reasons . Sometimes being a good mother gets in the way of being a good person . Lately she is insecure and behaves like a lady how have fear of loosing her love one to her rival . when she agreed to this very strange marriage she only had one motive to get Ruhi back and see her son happy . Nothing wrong I will do the same . Any thing to see my son happy and keep my darling grand daughter with me. Now she got her Ruhi back and mrs Bhalla is fearful of losing her to Ishita .

Mrs . Iyer . doing what she thinks is best for her daughter.Ishita must get married ,she was rejected by someone and cannot bear a child . Mrs Iyer cannot endure this . She must show her relatives and friends that her Ishoo is married and has a child .she has been very different since Ishoo is married to a man who doesn't love her or care for her.This is very strange to me , very difficult to digust . ( or is this the sophistication every one is talking about ? ) But this is TV .

So both mothers are doing motherly duties . They both get awards for supporting loveless marriage. Both are winners .

Originally posted by: Walden

@ bold- Exactly! Mrs. Iyer's universe revolves around getting Ishita married off. Yes companionship is very important in life, but what good is "education" if you feel that your daughter's life is useless unless and until she is married off and has kids. Mrs Iyer's behavior and actions just reinforce the idea that women who are infertile are somehow inferior and their lives empty, and so should be happy with whatever kind of husband they get in life.

Originally posted by: the_Rij

I don't agree much with this. Ishita is an educated girl and there must be a big hand of her mum. Mrs Iyer wanted her daughter married and every mother wanted their daughter married and have a good life too. If you see she wanted to find the good one for her daughter just like Mrs Bhalla wanted for her son. nd it is not Mrs Iyer who wanted Ishita to marry with Raman actually she was not happy with this. But she has given that freedom to her daughter to take the decision so I am happy with her. And you know how she put the condition for her daughter in the marriage that she should be allowed to work , to go to any training, this shows how they value the education and her daughter too.

After marriage only she is seen to be happy with her son in law as she has started to acknowledge the goodness. And she knows that her daughter really loves Ruhi and she has valued that too. So no complain to Mrs Iyer from my side😊