Ishita -ve mind

Tanni

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Loveforlife

I so damn agree with you! Has Raman ever shown his good side to Ishita? Ishita saw Raman was disturbed, she helped him understand the truth but when she heard him saying ' I have Won' she felt Raman was happy only because he was right and not Ashok... How in the world will she not think this? She has seen Raman behave disconnected with Ruhi ( during the custody thingy period he never acknowledged Ruhi properly) then seen him behaving rudely with her... All he was ever concerned with was to be one up on Ashok so that he could prove it to Shagun what she really lost! I might sound like that gist piti record to you but let me write this again WHY DOES EVERYONE EXPECT ISHITA TO BEHAVE LIKE A SATISAVITRI? Let Raman prove it in front of Ishita that he love Ruhi truly by turning into a dotting, caring father and not like one he is now! Why should Ishita show respect toward Raman!? What has he done as yet to EARN it? I like what Ishita told Raman yesterday... Ishita showed Raman the 'mirror' yesterday... Nothing she said was out of line... This is entirely my opinion and I do not force anyone to accept it... Cheers!

For once they have dared to show a gutsy, independent, a real woman and I have no complains about It! The character sketch of Ishita is a super awesome one... I am not saying she has no flaws... As Tanni puts ' she is human too' but she does not need to treat Raman as God...

Raman's bonding with Ruhi and Ishita seeing his caring side will be in the coming tracks... The CV's have set the perfect stage for this...

Honestly, I find Raman's character to be of a heroine and Ishu's to be a hero😆.
Yeah..Raman always measured his losses and wins in terms of defeating AshGun. And, that is seen by Ishita couple of times. So, why won't she think this time also? Raman doesn't give any chance for Ishita to understand his real pain. Raman loves Ruhi, but did he ever express that loudly, not by actions and not even by his mentality.

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Raveena

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Honestly, I find Raman's character to be of a heroine and Ishu's to be a hero😆.
Yeah..Raman always measured his losses and wins in terms of defeating AshGun. And, that is seen by Ishita couple of times. So, why won't she think this time also? Raman doesn't give any chance for Ishita to understand his real pain. Raman loves Ruhi, but did he ever express that loudly, not by actions and not even by his mentality.

I love both the characters... Both Raman and Ishita have gone through a lot... But Ishita has some how managed to take clear decisions in her life, well almost... She couldn't conceive, she decided to opt for adoption, when she wanted Ruhi she decided she will marry Raman whatever the circumstances... She saw Raman disturbed, she went and did the DNA... Raman on the other hand is most of the time hesitant... He still dwells in the past, his past came in between him and Ruhi, Ashok could easily hassle him... When Raman finds he balance between his old emotional side and this new improved side that's when he will learn to move on... The ability to ' Move On' that's the difference between the two characters...

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Tanni

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Loveforlife

I love both the characters... Both Raman and Ishita have gone through a lot... But Ishita has some how managed to take clear decisions in her life, well almost... She couldn't conceive, she decided to opt for adoption, when she wanted Ruhi she decided she will marry Raman whatever the circumstances... She saw Raman disturbed, she went and did the DNA... Raman on the other hand is most of the time hesitant... He still dwells in the past, his past came in between him and Ruhi, Ashok could easily hassle him... When Raman finds he balance between his old emotional side and this new improved side that's when he will learn to move on... The ability to ' Move On' that's the difference between the two characters...

Ishita is one woman character which is so strong that she can even men in all angles. I just love her. And, I love Raman too...a well developed vulnerable character. Even, I feel sorry for him most of the times. But, sometimes, I don't see any reason to be sorry for him, like the last episode.

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Raveena

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: TanniSDaya

Ishita is one woman character which is so strong that she can even men in all angles. I just love her. And, I love Raman too...a well developed vulnerable character. Even, I feel sorry for him most of the times. But, sometimes, I don't see any reason to be sorry for him, like the last episode.

I find Raman so sweet... He created this false barrier of pride and anger around of him but we have seen through flashbacks that he is a genuine, kind and loving person... Ishita does not know this side of Raman, unfortunately she has not seen these flashbacks! 😆 He just needs to show these flashbacks to Ishita and will eventually happen once these barriers break... So much pride and so many prejudices... Both of them remind me of the two famous Austen characters..

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NidhaA

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Ishita and Raman are equally bull headed in my opinion. They take it in turns to taunt each other and hurt each other.

To Ishita, Raman appears to be a very materialistic man. To understand the little nuances of a person , to understand what their eyes say and not their words , you need to know the person on a close level. She has most of the time Raman coming home drunk and more recently Raman trying to push away Ruhi. She is not privy to Raman's phone conversations or other moments with Ruhi. Even yesterday when she saw him hugging Ruhi and saying they won , if she was close enough and her mind open enough she would have judged Raman differently.

Raman sees Ishita as someone who is too righteous and too interfering even now when she is his wife. Shagun has affected him so deeply that he doesn't trust any woman now. Why should he with what that conniving woman did ? He can't see the goodness in Ishita because his past still masks him. It is more so for him than for Ishita. Raman has built walls around himself to not get trampled over again.

In short both of them need time. At present no one's fault out weighs the other.

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NidhaA

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Someone mentioned that Ruhi's and Ishita's relation seems over done. To me it looks completely natural. A mother who has never gotten a child to love and never had any hopes and a daughter who despite having a mother never knew what mother's love was , they will tend to love each other deeply right. Ishita is a child specialist to add , even though a dentist , as such she is bound to treat children with kindness right and this is not a lone case either , there are other shows with similar portrayals of mother child bond.

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Ishrafanno1

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: TanniSDaya
Sorry guys, I don't get it. Whenever Ishita gives lecture to Raman,
everyone hates her or is disturbed by her. But, whenever Raman
misbehaves with her (after marriage), not everyone seems to be disturbed
with that. Why so? Ishita is a woman and Raman is a man, that's why?
Why won't Ishita be angry with Raman? Whenever Raman gets angry with
her, ends with saying I'll throw you out, go to you appa, etc. So, you
think she doesn't remember all this when venting on Raman? She is a
human too. Her previous sorrows will come into her present. Oh! I guess
that's okay for Raman, but not for Ishita.

Sorry again friends, for spoiling your moods. But, couldn't stop saying.

Agree 100% with you. Ishita has always come to raman'a rescue and in turn he has been nothing but mean to her. What ishita did was right today. She deserves some glory too.

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Nadia

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

thanks everyone for your lovely comments

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Rami

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Posted: 11 years ago

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iagree here but her luv fr ruhi makes her blind n she reacts n thz way if she stays stil fr a whil n thinks may b she ll undrrstand his pov n since ishu always hav seen his hard n stone face she thinks he doesnt care fr ruhi aww i totaly agreee wd yur ps

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