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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21
i also think the same she must stop interfering in Raman life and in HIS daughter's life she must talk about her previous life when she was in love with Subbu.
he's not a good person as he left a woman in the middle of the street all alone during the night..
He's only a bit rude when he said he'll throw her out. In everything he brings her father in their conversation, but still she does not answer back.
Both has their positive and negative side not only one...
I'm entitled to my pov.

Yeah...both have faults and good things. But, it seems like fans see Ishita's negative sides more, and Raman's positive side more (though they are equally bad or good). I don't have any problem with any character. I like IshRaHi...all three. But, most of the time blaming one ignoring others' fault, is not rational.

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Anju.

@ALUJNA21

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: TanniSDaya

Yeah...both have faults and good things. But, it seems like fans see Ishita's negative sides more, and Raman's positive side more (though they are equally bad or good). I don't have any problem with any character. I like IshRaHi...all three. But, most of the time blaming one ignoring others' fault, is not rational.

i like discussing the show and the CHARACTERS not the actors.

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babithaj

@babithaj

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: TanniSDaya
Sorry guys, I don't get it. Whenever Ishita gives lecture to Raman, everyone hates her or is disturbed by her. But, whenever Raman misbehaves with her (after marriage), not everyone seems to be disturbed with that. Why so? Ishita is a woman and Raman is a man, that's why? Why won't Ishita be angry with Raman? Whenever Raman gets angry with her, ends with saying I'll throw you out, go to you appa, etc. So, you think she doesn't remember all this when venting on Raman? She is a human too. Her previous sorrows will come into her present. Oh! I guess that's okay for Raman, but not for Ishita.

Sorry again friends, for spoiling your moods. But, couldn't stop saying.

May be u r right... But yesterday the way she kept on blaming.. was too much... didn't u felt??? she very well saw his pain, but still she wants to blame him... she enjoys blaming him... thats what i felt atleast... Being woman v tend to pity people n care them... here even though sh ecares for him... she loves to taunt him by saying things she really doen't know or she never tries to know... thats pity trully...😭

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

]i like discussing the show and the CHARACTERS not the actors.

Yup...the actors are best at their roles, we can only praise her, cos they are perfect for their roles. It's characters which makes us think, discuss and argue😊.

Edited by TanniSDaya - 11 years ago

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: babithaj
May be u r right... But yesterday the way she kept on blaming.. was too much... didn't u felt??? she very well saw his pain, but still she wants to blame him... she enjoys blaming him... thats what i felt atleast... Being woman v tend to pity people n care them... here even though sh ecares for him... she loves to taunt him by saying things she really doen't know or she never tries to know... thats pity trully...😭

Infact, I too was surprised too see her giving lectures again .but, when she went ahead, I felt it was needed for Raman. Someone needs to hurt him on same place, so that he can get over that analyzing his faults.

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Anju.

@ALUJNA21

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: TanniSDaya

Infact, I too was surprised too see her giving lectures again .but, when she went ahead, I felt it was needed for Raman. Someone needs to hurt him on same place, so that he can get over that analyzing his faults.

But the fact is he never analyses his faults not a bit also for example his father asked him to say sorry for leaving Ishita on the road alone during the night.
Weird it is six years Shagun left he still has not overcome the facts.

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akruz

@akruz

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

I felt a bit disconnected in yesterday's episode...while it was shown in the last two episodes that ishita understood ramans trouble and hence wanted to give him some peace of mind, I felt she got angry at him abruptly for no reason ...she didn't think that though Raman went to the clinic to get the test done he never did it...but still she remembered only the parts where he misbehaved with ruhi and never those parts were he was feeling the pain, she even saw him crying ...so Cudnt accept ishita turning hostile all of a sudden...

But on a different note Raman is equally annoying...when she took care of him while the tea incident and even ystrday he was not giving her the status of a wife ...I don't understand will anything ever bring them close???? :(

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TBDRESS

@TBDRESS

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: TanniSDaya
Sorry guys, I don't get it. Whenever Ishita gives lecture to Raman, everyone hates her or is disturbed by her. But, whenever Raman misbehaves with her (after marriage), not everyone seems to be disturbed with that. Why so? Ishita is a woman and Raman is a man, that's why? Why won't Ishita be angry with Raman? Whenever Raman gets angry with her, ends with saying I'll throw you out, go to you appa, etc. So, you think she doesn't remember all this when venting on Raman? She is a human too. Her previous sorrows will come into her present. Oh! I guess that's okay for Raman, but not for Ishita.

Sorry again friends, for spoiling your moods. But, couldn't stop saying.

You bring up a good point and I agree with you to some extent. I wasn't active on the forum way back then, but I think the things Raman said to Ishita about her infertility were quite low and inappropriate. Since that time, obviously both Raman and Ishita have been rude to either other (and possibly Raman way more than Ishita) but I think there is a difference between being rude and actually commenting very negatively on someone as a person, which is what I felt Ishita did today.

In terms of why we defend Raman but not Ishita...personally speaking, I think its because I relate more to Raman's character. The way Ishita's character and her bond with Ruhi have been etched, both come across as extremely contrived, at least to me. Maybe if they toned her down a bit I could relate to her more.

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

All negative things doesn't actually mean negative. Why don't you see that Ishita did it purposely just to make Raman understand his faults and that next time he doesn't repeat the same?

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Raveena

@Loveforlife

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Posted: 11 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: TanniSDaya
Sorry guys, I don't get it. Whenever Ishita gives lecture to Raman, everyone hates her or is disturbed by her. But, whenever Raman misbehaves with her (after marriage), not everyone seems to be disturbed with that. Why so? Ishita is a woman and Raman is a man, that's why? Why won't Ishita be angry with Raman? Whenever Raman gets angry with her, ends with saying I'll throw you out, go to you appa, etc. So, you think she doesn't remember all this when venting on Raman? She is a human too. Her previous sorrows will come into her present. Oh! I guess that's okay for Raman, but not for Ishita.

Sorry again friends, for spoiling your moods. But, couldn't stop saying.

I so damn agree with you! Has Raman ever shown his good side to Ishita? Ishita saw Raman was disturbed, she helped him understand the truth but when she heard him saying ' I have Won' she felt Raman was happy only because he was right and not Ashok... How in the world will she not think this? She has seen Raman behave disconnected with Ruhi ( during the custody thingy period he never acknowledged Ruhi properly) then seen him behaving rudely with her... All he was ever concerned with was to be one up on Ashok so that he could prove it to Shagun what she really lost! I might sound like that gist piti record to you but let me write this again WHY DOES EVERYONE EXPECT ISHITA TO BEHAVE LIKE A SATISAVITRI? Let Raman prove it in front of Ishita that he love Ruhi truly by turning into a dotting, caring father and not like one he is now! Why should Ishita show respect toward Raman!? What has he done as yet to EARN it? I like what Ishita told Raman yesterday... Ishita showed Raman the 'mirror' yesterday... Nothing she said was out of line... This is entirely my opinion and I do not force anyone to accept it... Cheers!

For once they have dared to show a gutsy, independent, a real woman and I have no complains about It! The character sketch of Ishita is a super awesome one... I am not saying she has no flaws... As Tanni puts ' she is human too' but she does not need to treat Raman as God...

Raman's bonding with Ruhi and Ishita seeing his caring side will be in the coming tracks... The CV's have set the perfect stage for this...

Edited by Loveforlife - 11 years ago