Who are you?? Ishita answer - Page 3

Originally posted by: Bamonforever

But Ishita is being a very bad wife. I couldn't find any sympathy for her. She doesn't care a bit for her husband, what kind of marriage is this ?? Ruhi may be lucky to get such a mother, but Raman indeed is very very unfortunate to get such a wife.

Originally posted by: rainbowgirl

Yes they should have shown Bhallas thanking Ishita & congratulating Raman for getting married and bringing Ruhi home.

Dislike the way Mrs Toshi & Simmi talk to Ishita and dislike how Ishita acts like she's always right and whatever she does is correct, Even Raman's rudeness is 🤪

I was also waiting for such situation where the Bhallas' will thank her.
Raman was shedding tears in the court but did not say a thank to the woman whom his daughter was confided with all trust.

Originally posted by: -Priya-

true but even ishita is not caring to raman at all

it s a two way thing

would be nice if she initiated being nice to raman then i guess automatically they will stop saying that

Still Raman is too rude because he does not want to get out of his problems he as if is waiting for Shagun to be back and everything will be fine.

Originally posted by: Reina1

Everyone in both families has their own siyapa to deal with. I don't really think any of them care about how they are treating each other 😆 But in all seriousness, I think its very good representation of the so-called 'modern family'. Everyone is so consumed in their own mundane affairs, they forget that they actually live under one roof with a family.

everyone else sometimes it can be understood but when raman himself has no respect I'm not saying love because as if I'm saying when will the moon land on the earth which is impossible...the others will respect her.. Toshi change is something i preferred not to say a word.

Originally posted by: Mages

this is a compromise marriage...one can't expect...care...concern...love...passion comes automatically after marriage when the couple has lots of ego heated issues before marriage...Ishra married for ruhi's sake...they don't have a love marriage...everything goes slow phase in this relationship

ishu being a bad wife...did the journey of raman-ishu as husband-wife even started to tag ishu as a bad wife...they don't know each other...they don't understand each other...they don't talk to each other...they both are staying under one roof...in the same room...yet they are only strangers...how would one expect ishu to care for him...when both of them can't stand each other...

its a long journey for Ishra...before they are tag as bad husband-wife

just becos ishu doesn't care abt raman she has tag as a bad wife...then what abt shagun who left her kids and husband for another man...who doesn't care two hoots abt her husband and kids...who made a joke out of marriage and rituals...she must be a mahaan loving wife of raman

if ishu doesn't care for raman...so does raman...if you want to recall the moments before marriage...those gestures of raman are for his own benefit(Mr Tandon Issue)...and also his duty to help someone who is in trouble...he would have done the same if its not for ishu

both are sailing in the same boat...

@Mages I agree completely with you some of your words said all.
you know when you are married living under the roof of someone else whatever the situation the person keeps on asking WHO AERE YOU in an another word he's saying you are a stranger and this does hurt... I was thinking no need of vamp who keeps rolling her eyes North south east west
Only the situation is enough...
i really don't understand why Ishita being a dentist an educated girl who was living happily with her parents is doing with Raman he's very complicated his heart beats for a woman who never loved or respected him.
I want and wish Ishita to leave him though for two weeks it will be better.

the only word i can say the Bhallas are ungrateful...i hate the way raman-toshi-simi treats ishu...ishu doesn't say anything becos she have accepted them as family though she little bit cold towards them but she does care for them...but they are very rude and bitter to her...

Originally posted by: Butifuleyes

Nice post never understand why people where insulting ishitha. Everyone knows she married for ruhi sake, but still everybody's attitude, only sane person is the father Bhalla.

thank you there's nothing to insult her those doing so can't see Ishita taking care of Ruhi. what Raman did he took her out one night and left her on the road what if Shagun and Ashok would not have helped what if something bad would have happened to her he would have said sorry.

Originally posted by: Mages

the only word i can say the Bhallas are ungrateful...i hate the way raman-toshi-simi treats ishu...ishu doesn't say anything becos she have accepted them as family though she little bit cold towards them but she does care for them...but they are very rude and bitter to her...

Mrs Bhalla...the less say the better...she is even rude to Iyers...

they must not forget that...its becos if ishu ruhi is back in their home...the custody was given to Mrs Ishita Raman Kumar Bhalla not Mr Raman Kumar Bhalla...he would have lost the case to ashok and tag as a looser if ishu never helped him out...at least show some respect for the lady who brought the happiness back in their lives

I also hate it the little cold towards them is because the man whom she married is not supporting her, they are not yet a true couple there's absolutely nothing between them...
Yes the custody was given to Ishita I don't know why the Bhallas' can be so ungrateful and this Toshi she's like a chameleon she just changes her colour BOTH FAMILY AND RAMAN wanted to show and demean Shagun, they used Ishita and won the case.
Good Shagun left him in shock at least, though not married, he treats Shagun well in his friends circle...

Originally posted by: Savz_uniqueblis

ya both sides ve issues but raman,toshi n simmi doesn't treat her like human n insults atleast iyers started respecting after mrg n even ishu didn't care abt them but atleast consider them as humans n she is tough for ruhi sake otherwise if raman behaves well with ruhi she might not be tat tough also.ishu is human with her flaws but basically well mannered n good nature n good heart n prefers bravery when situations demand.as she said she can sacrifice r even can go to any extent for her loved ones.ya it's two way mrg n if raman is considerate with her n with his mouth n bonding starts she can see through d things n she is not mahan to guss in others mind n solve probs n give boons.in this paternity n dostana/yhm track of ashman(ashok-raman) d pain of ishu is completely sidelined n d main track r sidelined it seems for no.of epis as this sub track to ve stretch in episodes for d long run of d show lol.

Both sides may have isues but still Ishita and the Iyer begin to accept the truth of this marriage.She does not care much about them but still has respect for them she ran from the clinic for Simmy...
Yes her priority is Ruhi she only wants Raman to love her.. Now Ishita is not God that she will go to read what is going on in Raman mind and heart. Truely said Ishita is a human being with her flaws but she's very well mannered and well educated this shows the difference between how Toshi raised her kids and how Mrs Iyer raised both her daughters.
Raman could have said at least what is bothering him with the woman he married for the sake of Ruhi... Why he does not respect this marriage because there's no love...

Originally posted by: PreciousPri

I don't like the way Simmi talks to Ishita... IShita is atleast trying ... shows concern and is making an effort but this Simi 👎🏼

Mrs Bhalla has her own issues with Ishita... one that Ruhi is giving IShita more importance that her dadi and second that IShita is according to Toshiji always having a go at Raman and has joined hands with Mr Bhalla

Raman and Ishita are both equal in terms of tit for tat... so no surprise there

Romy couldn't care less

Only Rinky and Mr Bhalla actually speak to Ishita as a human

i never like how Simmy calls or treated Ishita previously she respects her bro not his wife...
Mrs Bhalla is not a kid that she can't understand things and how to deal with a little child who always wanted a mom and now that Ishita is there with her obviously she will give more importance to her mom...
Mr Bhalla cleared it that he's judging things according to what he saw is going on mainly Raman behaviour.
But Raman is a bit more rude.