That shows the different b/w man and woman - Page 2

Originally posted by: serendipity.

her dadi dada raised her. literally. he plays NO part in her brought up. all he did for her was probably pay for her expenses. thats about it. whatever he will do now, from after hes come to Delhi... will be what he does for his daughter, will be par of the bringing up. but for now... this paternity MU crap has to end first.

Originally posted by: ronshaan

as i said b4 .. i m trying to see this situation from every one's view

if i see it from raman's view - i feel sorry for him and understand his feelings

if i see it from ruhi - same ... i can feel what she been tru

yes ishita knew its not her child - but she loves her more then her own mother

can raman love ruhi even if he knew - if the truth was - ruhi wasnt his child ????

Mom 's are always special your right a women has big heart but men are not bad but they are too sensitive if they have suspicious mind that doesn't go so soon they can go to any extent and women has power to forgive but men don't .

Originally posted by: ronshaan

when shagun left him it was shown he was raising the child...

and when he came back they said he came back after 3 yrs .. that means he raised ruhi at least 1 and half years and then went out to become some thing... **even mrs bhalla said he raised her**

Originally posted by: rittika

May be if he knew ruhi as any other child and not his illegitimate child he would have loved Ruhi. Right now he is being told that she is his then wife's kid but still he has not stopped caring for ruhi . As i said he is not able to listen to his heart because ashok's words are too much on his mind.

So thats what i feel. Sorry if i offended you by any ways

Originally posted by: rockstar29

Mom 's are always special your right a women has big heart but men are not bad but they are too sensitive if they have suspicious mind that doesn't go so soon they can go to any extent and women has power to forgive but men don't .

Originally posted by: serendipity.

umm... 1 and a half years mai koi baccha raise nai hota, ronshaan :)

yes, he was the dad, so obviously looked after her, but he left her at an extremely tender age! That is exactly the age when children are starting to learn, and jahaan se parvarish shuru hoti hai.

As a girl, I knew how a woman feel towards any kid...But I dont think all men are bad either!! They too have fatherly feelings towards their children but they don't open up as that of a woman do!!

Coming to Raman, I think it differs...We cant compare Ishita with Raman regarding Ruhi...!! She look at every kid in the same way because she cannot conceive and especially with Ruhi she is emotionally bonded!! And Raman, he loves her but the thought of loosing her and his dilemma that Ruhi might not be his kid making him go crazy!! And I do not agree with those who say Raman hates Ruhi...No, that is absolutely wrong!!

Great post Ron
...seriously, women are generally epitome of love and patience. Men are generally lil bit opposite. Exceptions are always there.

Originally posted by: cssudha

As a girl, I knew how a woman feel towards any kid...But I dont think all men are bad either!! They too have fatherly feelings towards their children but they don't open up as that of a woman do!!

Coming to Raman, I think it differs...We cant compare Ishita with Raman regarding Ruhi...!! She look at every kid in the same way because she cannot conceive and especially with Ruhi she is emotionally bonded!! And Raman, he loves her but the thought of loosing her and his dilemma that Ruhi might not be his kid making him go crazy!! And I do not agree with those who say Raman hates Ruhi...No, that is absolutely wrong!!