Is Shagun Realizing her Faults? - Page 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: rockstar29

True soon she might realize the mistakes and when ishra are madly in love she might want to get back and as ekta serial lead shown mahan she might make way but Raman might not allow .
Leap after leap ishra joining and breaking might go on later.


😆...actually we all know this about Ekta, but still we end up watching her show. Cos, no way, she makes us fall for her show😆!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

She's not realising her fault she's only turning jealous since Raman was alone and she was with Ashok everything was fine because she's damn sure Raman still love her.. so now it is a bit of insecurity...

agree with u..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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great post tanni
shagun has always kinda disagreed with ashok but he fools her and at times she has agreed with ashok you can see a sort of guilt in shagun like for instance yesterdays episode and im sure in future she will regret choosing ashok. also, you can see she is not fully negative as she has cared a litle for her daughter and she does kinda like her and thats why she was upset wth ishita when she lost her daughter but then she doesnt go meet her and pretends alot makes me think shes disgustnig and only does things for her benefit
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kavmuks

Yes he is and it worries since she will go and tell the truth to Raman and will want to come back with Ruhi. and Our Ravan kumar will surely accept Shagun and Ruhi just to show Ashok that he won her THINGS back.




i hope this does nt happen infact i want something similar but then raman dumping shagun and using her
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lfc2010


i hope this does nt happen infact i want something similar but then raman dumping shagun and using her


No...don't want that to happen. What will happen to Ishu😭?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: TanniSDaya


No...don't want that to happen. What will happen to Ishu😭?



oviousy i dont want that to happen either i just want raman to maybe act like gettng coser to shagun and make shagun fall for him and then leave her
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think Shagun is that bad of a person. I think she is really stupid and naive. She was living a really simple life, and when she saw this guy who promised to give her everything she didn't care about anyone else. It's addictive to her almost, like people who get addicted to drugs or alcohol. They will do anything to get what that nasha, and they don't care who it hurts even if it's their family. I think Ashok has really manipulated Shagun a lot. He knows exactly what to say to her, and he probably knows a lot of girls like her that want that glamorous lifestyle really badly. It's so easy for him to keep her hooked, and she keeps wanting more and more.

You can tell she does feel bad for Raman and her kids. But I think this lifestyle has consumed her, and she has no where to fall back on now so she has to stay with Ashok. I'm pretty sure her parent's don't want her after what she did, Raman sure doesn't want her, so she has no where to go besides staying with Ashok. She knows if she doesn't do everything he want's that she will be left on the streets. She's not even married to him, so she couldn't even get spousal support money from him. He owes her nothing, and she has no job so she has no where to go.

That is why it's very important to get an education, so men like Ashok can't control us. It's important for women to be independent and have their own jobs so they are their own leader. When we women depend on men they take advantage of it, and they can make us do anything because we have no where else to go. It's pretty sad, and I feel for Shagun because she's screwed for life.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think Shagun is that bad of a person. I think she is really stupid and naive. She was living a really simple life, and when she saw this guy who promised to give her everything she didn't care about anyone else. It's addictive to her almost, like people who get addicted to drugs or alcohol. They will do anything to get what that nasha, and they don't care who it hurts even if it's their family. I think Ashok has really manipulated Shagun a lot. He knows exactly what to say to her, and he probably knows a lot of girls like her that want that glamorous lifestyle really badly. It's so easy for him to keep her hooked, and she keeps wanting more and more.

You can tell she does feel bad for Raman and her kids. But I think this lifestyle has consumed her, and she has no where to fall back on now so she has to stay with Ashok. I'm pretty sure her parent's don't want her after what she did, Raman sure doesn't want her, so she has no where to go besides staying with Ashok. She knows if she doesn't do everything he want's that she will be left on the streets. She's not even married to him, so she couldn't even get spousal support money from him. He owes her nothing, and she has no job so she has no where to go.

That is why it's very important to get an education, so men like Ashok can't control us. It's important for women to be independent and have their own jobs so they are their own leader. When we women depend on men they take advantage of it, and they can make us do anything because we have no where else to go. It's pretty sad, and I feel for Shagun because she's screwed for life.



good post but dont agree fully the education bit was correct and shagun being naive was also correct but shagun is educated girl she should realise that she is being used infact she does but yet continuously blindly believes ashok. I dont feel for shagun i guess what goes around comes around and she will realise that in future when ashok dumps her or refuses to marry her that she should never have left ashok
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It will be too late when shagun realises her faults. As she wont get anything from raman now.ruhi will bring both ishu and raman closer in their marriage relationship
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shagun isn't evil though. She's just very selfish and her selfishness causes people to look at her in a bad lens.

I see Shagun as one of those self centred people. They have many dreams (often involving material/ superficial things) and are very much concerned with themselves. I'm assuming that she used to dream about having a rich house, hot husband, tons of money, etc. Normal dreams that quite a few girls dream about I think. And then she got married to Raman. Before his change, Raman was a nerdy guy. As appearances mattered to Shagun a lot, his look was not appealing. And not only that, she felt that her dreams were not coming true, she did not have a rich house, hot husband, tons of money, etc. She was strictly middle class and she hated it. She did the traditional have kids, live with in-laws thing. But as a self centred person who thought only about herself most of the time, she did not find fulfilment in her current life. Honestly, I think its something quite a few women go through (especially in arrange marriages). Anyways, then comes along this guy who made out of the stuff of her dreams and it turns out, he's interested in her! Suddenly, it's like her dreams are coming true and she feels more fulfilled. So naturally, she leaves Raman and gets with Ashok.
Regarding her kids, she isn't an evil mother. But as she's selfish, her first priority is herself. Her happiness at the cost of others. So she left Ruhi behind, got Aditya and sent him to a boarding school as per Ashok's wish. But she still does care for them. She likes Ruhi. But not as much as she likes her rich life with Ashok and her happiness. She just has different priorities.

Regarding Raman, yes she cheated him. And I think she does somewhere feel some tiny bit of guilt. That's why she wasn't too pleased when Ashok was being super touchy with her in front of Raman. But again, it doesn't effect her directly so she doesn't give it too much importance.

Honestly, she comes across as a very selfish, but believable person. You can totally see the line of thinking in her brain. All her brain thinks about is herself. And occasionally Ashok because he's become an important part of her happiness, thus self (he provides the money to fulfil her dreams and without him she is nothing and she loves him, physically at least).

I do feel pity for her in that Ashok really is not the perfect, dreamy guy. He's just using her and will probably discard her the moment she gets old or something. But at the same time, she consciously choose to follow what she thought would bring her happiness.

I think since this is an Ekta serial. There will come a point in time where she'll end up repenting and become a typical villain bent on destroying IshRa marriage.

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