Cut the poor guy some slack

I know all of us are very upset with the way Raman behaved with ruhi in the SBS segment, though I don't accept his behavior or agree with it in anyway I feel sorry for the guy

That son of a b**** ashok has told him a lie that has shook his core
The poor guy has been dealt with horrible cards in life- he married a woman and loved her from the bottom of his heart and she ditched him to be with another man. She took his son away on false charges called him a child beater. Then when he was finally on solid ground she took his daughter away and he had to fight for the custody of his daughter, his reason for him to liv. Finally when things were settlig down ashok comes and tells him that Ruhi, the daughter whom he loves so much actually isn't even his daughter.
How do you expect a person to react?
Ishita needs to be his North Star, his guiding force a person who can teach him to trust again, to live again, to let go of his bitter past and look at a rosy and bright future

Honestly I too was pissed after the SBS segment but I feel we need to cut the poor guy some slack and wait for him to change for the better with Ishita's support and love

Yes.

Originally posted by: soni2004

Yes.

He's reacting out of hurt and anger. And while we don't like his treatment of Ruhi, he removed himself from the situation by getting away from her as quickly as possible.

I'm not sure what they will do now. I have no idea to tell you the truth...it will be interesting to see what transpires tomorrow.

Exactly I have no idea what to expect but so far the makers haven't disappointed so I'm goin I keep faith and trust them to do something that will make all the negativity stop

I LOVE your post. Finally some positivity and understanding

Is Raman not a grown man? does he not posses one iota of sense? is he so gullible still from his past that he'l believe whatever crap is told to him? 😲

Thats y I said he is just weak man who needs love n care to make him strong

Yup we need to wait n see.

Originally posted by: rainbowgirl

Is Raman not a grown man? does he not posses one iota of sense? is he so gullible still from his past that he'l believe whatever crap is told to him?😲

How can Raman not learn from his past mistakes and have better judgement? Even kids learn to be careful from things they have been hurt before.

I agree he isn't thinking rationally but look at it from his POV e knows his wife cheated on him so how does he know that she wasn't having an affair from way before?
He has been hurt and cheated very badly that has made him a sceptic and a pessimist
That's why he needs ishita na.. To tech him that not everybody is a cheater and make him believe an trust again

I hv not seen sbs segment... But i agree he really needs to be given benifit of doubt...

As for Ishita... She is really coming across as a dumb person... Being nice and seeing positives in others is a gud quality but judging a person without checking the other side is pure dumbness ...

Originally posted by: _Serz_

Thats y I said he is just weak man who needs love n care to make him strong

Exactly he needs to be reminded taught an shown that not everybody is a cheat and he can trust people specially people who live him and care about him
That's why Ishita's role in his life is so important, she's is goin to be his light at the end of the tunnel