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sharanya

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: prejudiced

Yup we need to wait n see.
The guy has been through a lot and matter of time before his senses kick in and he realizes what the truth it.

True that!!
I think once his mind is alcohol free he will start using the brains the good lord has given him 😆

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sharanya

@shaaranya

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: sayali_d23
I hv not seen sbs segment... But i agree he really needs to be given benifit of doubt...

As for Ishita... She is really coming across as a dumb person... Being nice and seeing positives in others is a gud quality but judging a person without checking the other side is pure dumbness ...

Hopefully sooner rather than later she will realise that there is a soft jetted human being inside the stone cold exterior of Raman Kumar Bhalla

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sharanya

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: sayali_d23
I hv not seen sbs segment... But i agree he really needs to be given benifit of doubt...

As for Ishita... She is really coming across as a dumb person... Being nice and seeing positives in others is a gud quality but judging a person without checking the other side is pure dumbness ...

Hopefully sooner rather than later she will realise that there is a soft jetted human being inside the stone cold exterior of Raman Kumar Bhalla and she will begin to understand him and help him move on from his bitter past

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947708

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Sadist Ashok knows to trap Raman he did but Raman seriously needs to move on .

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sharanya

@shaaranya

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: rockstar29
Sadist Ashok knows to trap Raman he did but Raman seriously needs to move on .

I agree, I think this will be the last time Raman will be vulnerable
Once this is sorted and Ishita is with him his life will be happy and he wouldn't be affected by a word that creep ashok says

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eternalasha

@eternalasha

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: shaaranya
How do you expect a person to react?
Ishita needs to be his North Star, his guiding force a person who can teach him to trust again, to live again, to let go of his bitter past and look at a rosy and bright future

Honestly I too was pissed after the SBS segment but I feel we need to cut the poor guy some slack and wait for him to change for the better with Ishita's support and love

Great post Sharaanya - if what happened to him happened to any of us - some of us might well have some of the same reactions - he is a fallible human being

While I didn't like nor agree with Raman's poor behaviour - what they showed isn't all that unrealistic - humans do get triggered more often than not and react irrationally and unkindly. Just because they got married they are not going to turn lovey dovey all of sudden much as we would like that. Especially when they are being played and manipulated by vengeful and vile people like Ashok. Raman doesn't actually have much guile - Ashok knows his sore points and goes straight for them

I love what you said about Ishita needing to be his North Star - to keep grounding him to the truth and what matters - and that is exactly what will make him slowly alter his behaviour and reveal his true nature. - She just has to be careful that she doesn't get manipulated by ShaShok - this is where she has things to learn too

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Cutegem.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

nice post, i completely agree with you

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Mages

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

raman is a weak man...he has changed his exterior looks and attitude but he couldn't change his soul...he is still the same emotional RKB...in short to say emotional fool RKB...this is one reason why Shashok attacks him and they win becos they know raman is a weak guy becos he is emotional...they take advantage of his vulnerability and weakness...

i can't blame raman for his doubts becos his creepy wife did cheat him...and its normal of raman doubt becos that women had an affair with another man while she was married to raman...and even when she was pregnant with ruhi...her affair was going strong with ashok...so raman's confusion is bound to happen...

but what makes me think he is a looser for that very moment that he never introduce his wife to his friends and left her alone...what kind of gesture is this...doesn't he have basic manners...he was showing off in the court and infront of ashok that ishu is his wife...what happen now...can't he introduce ishu to his friends and shut shagun's mouth...even his friends are pathetic loosers...talking abt raman's painful past which they know will hurt him...its better to have no friends...this is no way to treat your newly married wife...who doesn't know anyone...and had to take silly taunts of his past...which has nothing do with her...no wife could tolerate hearing the love story of her husband's ex-love...ex-marriage...though they married with a compromise but she is a wife...unwillingly it does hurt...and ishu face was written how much she was hurt...he should have introduce ishu as his wife and shut his pathetic friends mouth so that his past is not raised

but its obvious gesture from RKB...he has shagun in his mind 24/7...that very moment...i felt he forgot...he is a married man

this man needs to move on...his creepy ex-wife is not worth the love and wounds he is nursing for her...

Edited by Mages - 11 years ago