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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think it was a tit for tat ..ishita first hurled accusations at raman without ever bothering to know his side of the story ..she assumed the reason why shagun left him to be that he was impossible to live with ..so raman in turn just gave it back to her in whatever way he deemed fit at the spur of the moment 😆😉 agree the words they exchanged were not pleasant to the ear but ..against the backdrop of them having to spend the rest of their lives together on account of this latest showdown ..i thought ..this fight was indeed a most exciting one to watch ..the foreshadowing for instance was really awesome😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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..So to get her custody he might go to an extent of even degrading a woman's respect/modesty!! Hez using his position to play his cards well and that is outright mean and rude on his part!!


You said it, Forget the judge, what kind of a sane person relate to him or understand what he went through when he's behaving bad?

Who will favour a man who's ready to degrade & disrespect a woman coz he wants to win his daughter's custody? Shagun's lawyer can argue this & make Raman lose custody of Ruhi for life saying if he can't respect women what good a father can he be to his daughter 🤔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well I don't agree that today was character butchering as Raman has always been a nasty person who would go to any extent to achieve his goals meven if it meant insulting a woman be it which I think has been shown in his character from start and today insult session was there to mainly keep this as a compromise marriage for a long time
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...RamonaG...

I think it was a tit for tat ..ishita first hurled accusations at raman without ever bothering to know his side of the story ..she assumed the reason why shagun left him to be that he was impossible to live with ..so raman in turn just gave it back to her in whatever way he deemed fit at the spur of the moment 😆😉 agree the words they exchanged were not pleasant to the ear but ..against the backdrop of them having to spend the rest of their lives together on account of this latest showdown ..i thought ..this fight was indeed a most exciting one to watch ..the foreshadowing for instance was really awesome😛



definitely Ramona...too much hate was needed for too much love...😳and the fight ws intresting too... the hatred drama reached the climax today...but still calling subus mom and using the fact that subu rejected her was not in a good light IMO. The problem is that Raman is not able to judhe Ishita,,,he thinks she is bad...and to ease her loneliness she is using ruhi...thats why he thinks doing evil with someone whose selfish is not unfair...and he forgets his limits in that look I am defending him again😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rainbowgirl

..So to get her custody he might go to an extent of even degrading a woman's respect/modesty!! Hez using his position to play his cards well and that is outright mean and rude on his part!!


You said it, Forget the judge, what kind of a sane person relate to him or understand what he went through when he's behaving bad?

Who will favour a man who's ready to degrade & disrespect a woman coz he wants to win his daughter's custody? Shagun's lawyer can argue this & make Raman lose custody of Ruhi for life saying if he can't respect women what good a father can he be to his daughter 🤔


Hahaha!! Exactly...Shagun lawyer can argue on this and it only leads to the downfall of Raman!! I was not supporting nor I would support Raman's behavior at anycost!! I was just trying to say, his character has not gone inconsistent yet...atleast to me I suppose! Whatever he has done today cannot be relatable but again I feel that has come from his desperation to win Ruhi's custody!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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definitely Ramona...too much hate was needed for too much love...😳and the fight ws intresting too... the hatred drama reached the climax today...but still calling subus mom and using the fact that subu rejected her was not in a good light IMO. The problem is that Raman is not able to judhe Ishita,,,he thinks she is bad...and to ease her loneliness she is using ruhi...thats why he thinks doing evil with someone whose selfish is not unfair...and he forgets his limits in that look I am defending him again😆



well ..i am always defending him too 😆 Ramans character is my fave 😳 thanks to KP doing such an awesome job ⭐️ i agree he went a bit overboard but as they say alls fair in love n war😆😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ishita is going to send Raman wedding card to Raman himself haha
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

Ekta kapoor😡 Can u pls stop showing the same character with such diverse behavior and traits. Raman Kumar Bhalla is a person who has been through a very bitter betrayal that has made him a shrewd man.On one side he is manipulative, emotionless and immoral.He tries to dig into a woman's past and show her down upon.He tries to show that how she was always rejected in her life

And at the same time he cries for his daughter...and that too like a two year old cries for his favorite toy...he makes us cry with his pain...he is so good at heart that he even supports his ex-wife's brother unconditionally.

Now which Raman to believe in? I love him and I hate him. My heart goes out for him and i feel angry at him too.Can u pls make his character a bit consistent.I dont say make him all goody goody but pls dont make jim do things that are unethical and dont suit his character.


what makes you think one person can't do all the above? Life is not black and white but full of shades of grey. A man can be cruel to a woman but be a loving husband to his wife and good father to his daughter. Which rulebook says he can't? it all comes down to motivation - what made him behave such way with the woman? what makes him a loving husband? a good father?

What you really want is an one dimensional person. A person with many different aspect would be similar to above, both good and bad points. A person could go out and kill and then show affection for their family. But your point above is no they can't!

BTW I am not a fan of EK, but I was so interested and really surprised to see your post stating a person cannot be diverse. Everyone one of us has million tiny quirks that makes us the whole we are. We are not the same with everyone we met in life. A true fact.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

cssudha - first of all i would say a beautiful analysis dear,,,loved ur pov...though even i believe that Raman's conduct is justified most of the times...but what he did with ishita today was a bit overboard IMO.He said to his mom that his daughter's custody is imp for him but for that he cannot let go of whats fair and whats not...but that rule applied only to mihir i suppose 🤔

At this point of time...i feel his conduct with Ishita is so rude and cold bcoz 1) he thinks her mom is greedy and Ishu is manipulating Ruhi and 2) bcoz he hates that being a stranger Ishita is taking the most imp decisions for his life...dats the only benefit of doubt I can give him...though its a different case i like him a lottt too...hope his wifey settles all scores in future! rudeness ke badle silent treatment 😆



Thank you for ur kind words Malika, nice to meet you! This is Sudha, btw!!

And about your points I completely agree!! I'm a girl myself...Who would spare a damn about a guy who makes fun on ur infertility!! And I agree that he shouldn't be so mean towards Iyers...By heart, hez a good guy but as he himself said, situations make ppl bad...Haha!! Thats all I can say!! Both were equally wrong!! And I wish they realize their words and repent!!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't agree. I personally do not think that the characters have been butchered. They're still consistent. You people are perhaps omitting the fact that Raman-Ishita has a hate relationship, and when they lash at each other's, they can go to any length to do it. Both Raman-Ishita have been harsh to one another in that scene, degrading each other. LOL
Plus, it's not all of a sudden's theres this fatherly love blossoming for Ruhi. It has been shown midly in the show that Raman loves his daughter but he ain't able to express it somehow. Ruhi's absence is making him realised how much he misses her and love her. Let's not forget the flash back moments when Raman adored Ruhi when she was a kid, such love doesn't die that fast.

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