Raman Bhalla - Love you and Hate you!! - Page 3

@Saffi: I love how u always come up saying its Ekta!!🤣

On your post...I agree on Ishita!! Raman atleast confront with pros and cons but Ishita always end up blasting everyone right there!! Shez very much impulsive but her intentions were always good!! Today her outburst was completely justified cuz any sane woman would outrage the guy who talk shit about them!! Again, she should completely understand Raman regarding Ruhi rather than accusing him...hez afterall Ruhi's father!!

I don't agree. I personally do not think that the characters have been butchered. They're still consistent. You people are perhaps omitting the fact that Raman-Ishita has a hate relationship, and when they lash at each other's, they can go to any length to do it. Both Raman-Ishita have been harsh to one another in that scene, degrading each other. LOL

Superb post!!!
The first part was so heart touching to see Raman crying for his daughter but then he was so mean to ishita !!!!!

Originally posted by: cssudha

@Saffi: I love how u always come up saying its Ekta!!🤣

On your post...I agree on Ishita!! Raman atleast confront with pros and cons but Ishita always end up blasting everyone right there!! Shez very much impulsive but her intentions were always good!! Today her outburst was completely justified cuz any sane woman would outrage the guy who talk shit about them!! Again, she should completely understand Raman regarding Ruhi rather than accusing him...hez afterall Ruhi's father!!

LOL I have too much experience with Ekta that's why I constantly bring it up. It's self-explanatory when you remind yourself that this show is by the wonderful Ekta Kapoor.

Yes, that's what I mean. Whatever Raman was trying to do was for Ruhi, and I'm fine with that. The only conflicting things were:

• He was never shown attached to Ruhi, and today's breakdown seemed to come out of nowhere. Where was all this emotional sadness when Ruhi went running to Raman at the court? I'm not against Raman breaking down. In fact, it would be a redeeming quality if he did, but they should have built up to it. Today's scene felt kind of "in your face" and unrealistic.
  
• The argument he makes (or the CVs are showing us) is that he could do anything for Ruhi... except use Mihir to testify against Shagun since it's pretty obvious that Shagun is his sister. So Mihir means more to him than Ruhi then?
  

And about Ishita, a few more things:

• How did she know that Raman was the one who sent her sister's mother in law there? That was a complete assumption. Imagine how stupid she would have seemed if Ashok or someone else sent her.
  
• It's fine that she's attached to Ruhi, but she IS an outsider and she has no rights to even be involved in this case. She should have denied the responsibility to the judge (by the way, only in Ektaland, judges make these weird decisions). And she has no right to criticize Raman or Shagun about their parenting because they're Ruhi's parent's, NOT Ishita. She is in no way related to Ruhi at all right now. It would be one thing if Raman/Shagun were behaving in extreme manners with Ruhi (such as abuse), but there has been nothing like this shown.
  

In fact, I'm on Raman's side today, and not Ishita's. He shouldn't have used Ishita's sister's MIL but he's a very practical thinker. All Ishita does is unreasonably accuse (Ekta heroines once again). She has accused Raman for numerous things that just don't make sense and from experience, she will continue to accuse him.

Hmmm well in my opinion ... firstly both KP and DT were excellent... forgetting everything else they did a superb job.. such fire and intensity 👏

I don't blame Raman for being manipulative, particularly in this situation that he is in. Had Ishita or any woman been in his shoes and had her child ripped from her by a total stranger who was apparently now plotting w/ the ex to keep them separated, that woman would go completely unhinged. Raman, in contrast, does show some limits: he could easily have thrown Mihir, for example, to jail so that the Iyers were happy w/ him & willing to persuade Ishita to support him. But he didn't.

same with Ishita's character too... she could able to justify other's acts but not Raman's... She could give a benefit of doubt to Shagun even though she saw somethings with her own eyes... but she simply jump into conclusions only with raman n related... why???? and she always pokes him by saying no woman would live with him for a day too... both the characters r confused in my thinking... they r held up in situations , that's all i could say...
Raman actually trully cares for woman... but with ishita, he doesn't like her interference...in his daughter's case... whre Ishita doesn't even know about his past , and what happened btwn him n shagun...

Basically Ekta mata & her pea brained CVs haven't learnt to write proper screenplay even with inspired story 🤢 🤢 😆 😆

I think he is really complex character and i like him!

Hi everyone, gone through all discussion.. nd really intresting POV of all.. so far as I concerned, I love ths complex character of Raman Bhalla..

Firstly I give credit to KP who is doing simply fab job in portraying the complex character of 'Raman Bhalla'.. He was jst brilliant in displaying varied emotions in the last epi .. Father-daughter tele convo was the highlight of the show and KP was at his best in tht scene..

Raman & Ishita are two contrasting personalities and both of them have diffrent idologies towards life.. But one thing is very common in their persona.. that is Prejudice against each other..

Raman is very nice, kind hearted, sophisticated humanbeing from inside but on the surface he show worst nature of his.. Specially to Ishita.. He pretends to be self centred, cold, bitter, egoistic and shrewd.. and ths is understandable.. his ex-wife's betrayal has manipulated his good senses.. He is kind of compelled not to trust any woman.. Presently he is on a verge of losing custody of his only child. And he knows that Ishita and he share a mutual feeling towards each otoher and that is intensive disliking ( Not haterad as I find it very strong word)..
Presently he is only concerned in getting custody of his beloved daughter Ruhi.. and any man of his flesh (who is betrayed nd heart broken) will do all in his power nd will go to any extent to get back the only person who is matter the most in his life.. Though his behaviour towards Ishita was very awful in the last epi, it was graspable. (atleast to me)..