Please not kill Tamil dear cvs - Page 5

I'm a South Indian and though ceremonies vary from state to state the essence is the same and I can distinguish between them. I couldn't help but wonder how they are mixing more than one cultures.

The language, the dressing, the ceremony have all been exaggerated multifold. Even with the cinematic liberties allowed, they are taking it too far.

I understand your frustrations. As Tamilian it must be very frustrating to put up with wrong pronunciations .Marathi speaking actress acting as South Indian lady and trying very hard to portrayal her role , which is resulting into over acting . I give her lots of credit. I agree at times her character is very annoying but this doesn't bother me. Many shows have used local language to make an impression but no one else in the Show speaks Tamelian why should she ? What really upsets me is how Punjabi culture is represented in the show . Few dialogs and Mrs Bhallas representation during Hindu ceremony is unacceptable to me . I know our Hindu rituals differ from state to state but mrs Bhalla not knowing basic rituals is very insensitive .

Media plays a significant role in entertaining, informing, and instilling values to diverse audiences in society. The danger lies in stereotypes that are integrated into messages used to sell show for entertainment .Generalizations and stereotypes are a modern day ying and yang. One cannot exist without the other emerging.Stereotypes are a subset of generalization but seem to stand alone nonetheless. They are created when knowledge is lacking or unattainable and the substitution of thoughts and opinions are implemented. This often leads to misjudgment and unfair discrimination toward certain people and situations. Not only do stereotypes affect opinions and thoughts but they also affect behavior. They are found everywhere, and though portrayed innocently, they affect and impact the mindset of many.

Writers should be careful with stereotyping cultural differences. I am not Tamilian or Punjabi .I am an Indian who grew up in very diverse society and thought to respect every culture around me . For few laughs in the show they need not to insult both cultures . I have Tamilian friends and Punjabi friends . I have attended wedding from both side and enjoyed the cultural difference in our religion . Both cultures had something to offer and enjoy and learn from .