Living for others

In today's episode Abha was telling that she has always thought abt other's happiness. Agreed!!! Then she should not have done the following things:

1) Confessing to Karan that she loves him

2) Confessing to Lata that she is married to Karan & cant marry Sanskar

If she is that much dedicated to the happiness of her family then she should go ahead & marry Sanskar without any hesitation. Every human being is selfish to a certain extent and Abha is not an exception. From the current scenario her plan of action is to somehow thwart Thakur's attempt to marry her off with Sanskar. If somehow she is successful...will she still be considered dedicated to her family?? Sanskar will be heartbroken, Thakur will be mad & Karan is already going through so much. Who is she actually showing her dedication towards??? Is it by any chance towards her father-in-law Jaggu who gives a damn to what happens to her??

Coming out clean will atleast save Sanskar, Karan & also Thakur😡 from the D-day massacre!!!!

Philosophically speaking, I've come in the past 5 years or so to believe you cannot and should not live for other people. You cannot bury your own existence, but are always free to do so.

It may sound selfish, but really it is not. To have God give you a life to do good with, to live happily not at the cost of others, is a blessing. Hand in hand with that is your soul and your heart and your brain. If you attach yourself to others and their wants/desires, right or wrong, you are denying yourself and your potential as a happy, multi-faceted and peaceful human being.

Personal happiness is not a sin. Hurting others and even yourself is.