I am trying hard to undertsand her properly. In one hand she is very admirable that she is moving on and not crying buckets of water. (that's what I would do! cry )
On the other hand...
You have known your sister all your life, is she a bad person?😕 She should know what kind of a person Tanya is. That's what being good sisters are about. You share a powerful emotional bond. You know your sister through and through. More than any other relationship sister's share that bond. Where you know when your sister is troubled without her mentioning it, you sit beside your sister while she goes through crappy situations. And you know when your sister screams at you and tells you to go away she really didn't mean it. And something deep inside is killing her. It is also the only relationship on earth where sacrificing is allowed. That's just my side of it. I like what's mine and I won't give it to anyone. But if my sisters needed it I would happily sacrifice everything I had. But ONLY for my sisters. That too happily! Because seeing them happy brings me the greatest joy.
This might not sound right to a lot of you or maybe you just don't share the same sisterly bonds as I do. My sisters mean the world to me! I can do anything for them. I cry when they go through stuff. I laugh when they are happy. When they are in problems and they don't tell me I just pray that everything gets fixed for them. I do everything in my power to bring them little joys.
That brings me to Trish, in her mind she thinks Raj wanted Tanya, And Tanya wanted Raj....then it should be easy. Yes they played you but maybe it took time for them to realize their love. Be happy that they got each other and accept it. She is still very cold about it. Then she mentioned if Tanya ever stole something precious. Is Raj a toy you can steal? he is a grown up man. Does she think Tanya seduced Raj in to getting him or he would've been hers? That's the only place where her Trish's resentment toward Tanya is justified. But right now it seems childish. Maybe not childish but it makes her a bad sister in my eyes. But she never looked like the nice caring sister to begin with! It is being drilled into her over and over again that Raj and Tanya love each other. When Rajdeep mentions Raj finally got his love. or when Tanya's friend said she knew she loved Raj. Or any part where Raj is too protective of Tanya. Then coming in a separate car so he can be alone with her. Or going to honeymoon separately. All this should tell Trish they love each other. She just keeps getting hurt more and more. Her being hurt is acceptable, her being mad seems wrong to me. Shouldn't she be glad that she didn't steal the man her younger sister loved? or She didn't marry Raj when he wanted Tanya? Do you not care about your little sister's happiness?
She is allowed to be mad at Raj though! Full force fury! The guy clearly played you. You thought he loved you . You wanted to marry him and what does he do? marry your own sister. That too when she was in her bridal outfit. That was sad.
Trish has gotten a shock and now after marriage to a nice guy (who by the way she is playing! so if her marriage breaks I won't feel an ounce of sympathy. I would be overjoyed) her shock should be over. All the anger, resentment can stay but the shock should be over. Now she should honestly ask herself and her sister why that happened. Even if her sister doesn't tell her she should keep going after it. She didn't even let Tanya talk. Don't you remember all those times when Tanya looked so distressed? did that not break your heart? or were you too busy not caring?
And sorry to say what the girl is going through is nothing. She had a heartbreak but ended up marrying a good rich guy who loves her. Tanya got raped by a monster and the guy who loves her sister married her. Trish reminds me of my little sister. Nothing seems like a important problem to her except her own. So her hurt feelings are worth everything but even someone dies crying infront of her it doesn't matter much!
Trish is strong, Tanya is not. But Trish is insensitive and Tanya is not. I highly dislike insensitive people. Tanya might be weak, but she really really cares about her family. Every step she has taken she has thought of her family before herself.
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