Originally posted by: krystal_watz
Tiny: But why get into that situation at all? Prevention is better than cure. In my state, I've seen lots of girls getting married who got annullment within 24 hours of marriage. Yes. And this is not the medieval era where a girl becomes "arakshaniya" if she's ditched at the altar. In today's day, she might be talked about for a while, but eventually it will fade. In today's day, you can get married as long as you are alive. 😆 Nobody remains pariah for life because of marriage breaking.
And why should've Vishnu got married just so the girl does not get ditched? Isn't it unfair on him that he should first get married against his wish, and then try to work it? Itna kuch kyun kare yaar? 😆
in vishnu's case i don't agree.
bcoz this situtn is not why 2 get in2 it yaar. if vishsnu'd probs then he cud'd refused even after naani's sermon.
oder prsns i can't say. i can agree wid u on this but not in this case.
and yaar many mrgs happen like this in reality & in shows but they show they moved on & mrgs r v.gud
and u r saying why 2get in2 this situtn. if all r thinking like this na that give in2 the feelings society will've havoc & its structure will fail & we"ll bcum like wild animlas & dogs.
here i agree wid kools thta if we all give in2 feelings like the cases r in UT naa thne society will b in havoc. luk wat western society has bcum just bcoz of this type of thinking??
prevention is better than cure is applied only in those cases whic i described if u've hints abt it.oderwise here in such cases its lile common cold or simple fever which anytime can occur & cure is also not expensive
@and abt vishnu and i don't think it was unfair on him bcoz he himself was ready 2 make it real. he talked abt his mrg 2 mukta wid only mukat & rpr & assumed thet hes getting mrd 2 he r widout confirmn.so i won't call it unfair on him in this case.
i'd told u that vishnu himself wanted 2 work on the mrg. meethi didn't force him nor anyoder prsn forced him directly or indirectly not even naani while here rpr, mkta & ak all 3 conspired & pressurised him directly & indirectly so thta he can't even try 2work on his mrg which he himself wanted.
if he'dn't wanted 2 try out then he was free 2 do wat he wanted but he didn't .so here vishnu was not forced by any1 that he shud work on his mrg. he himself wanted it.
plz im trying this again & again he himself wanted so theres no quesn of fairness arises.i hope u understood wat i m saying. and now i cna't make u understand anymore . i m not v.gud.plz ask the same quesn 2 kool si think she"ll b much better give u gud answer on it & make u understand also.