Tapasya--not a bad mother at all

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Posted: 12 years ago
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In the last epi felt really angry on Tapasya for being such a bad mother who wont believe her child..this has made many of us against her..but today after watching the epi again I felt really sad for her..she was just a anxious mom who was scared due to her past..yes she should have remembered how much mukta had done but still when she was randomely hitting mukta her pain was seen..and as mukta was proved wrong I really dont completely blame her though partially yes..so Rashami take a bow!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Ishani--

In the last epi felt really angry on Tapasya for being such a bad mother who wont believe her child..this has made many of us against her..but today after watching the epi again I felt really sad for her..she was just a anxious mom who was scared due to her past..yes she should have remembered how much mukta had done but still when she was randomely hitting mukta her pain was seen..and as mukta was proved wrong I really dont completely blame her though partially yes..so Rashami take a bow!!



Not a bad mother but not a good mother either

Tapasya is still paying for the sins of her past and she is making both Raghu and Mukta payin for her sins

unnecessary too

when she has paid for them in the past before 18 yrs she did nothave to run away from Raghu she did not have to divorce him and she did not have to live away fom him
she ruined her life as well as of Raghu's who is so lonly that it is reflecting on his face on his soul and in his life who clearly misses his family and what did Mukta get nani and dada dadi she missed her parents

well I hope that is rectified now atleast she gets to live with her father
Tapsaya badly needs to set her priorities in life and she has ignored her duties too much
well doing social work ignoring your family is no social work

After 18 yrs she is still thinking of Ichchha and her family and she shud have gotton close to Mukta and tried to undrstand her listened to her even if she thought that Mukta is lieing

but uske ankho me mahanta ki patti pari hai
thorugh out of her life she has been obsessed with Ichchcha
when she was young she was selfish towards ichchha she wanted everythign that she got form her father or anyone else
now in disguise of her mahanta she is still obsessd with ichchha now differece is she wants to give everyhting she has to ichchha and her family
first she ignored her parents then her married life now again she is ignoring her family

well it wud be right ot say that tapasya has become a nice human being but a bad mother and a bad wife
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Monica,yes Tapasya was a bad wife to Raghu but as a mom she is scared.. scared bec. she is afraid her child will turn like that..its very natural for a mother..yes she should believe mukta but she couldnt prove herself right? but even then I too believe tapasya like raghu should believe her so i said partially..but Raghu believes her bec.he wasnt like tapasya..tapasya cant believe mukta bec. she is afraid that she will see herself in mukta..which iS a weakness that is failing her as a mother..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Ishani--

Monica,yes Tapasya was a bad wife to Raghu but as a mom she is scared.. scared bec. she is afraid her child will turn like that..its very natural for a mother..yes she should believe mukta but she couldnt prove herself right? but even then I too believe tapasya like raghu should believe her so i said partially..but Raghu believes her bec.he wasnt like tapasya..tapasya cant believe mukta bec. she is afraid that she will see herself in mukta..which iS a weakness that is failing her as a mother..



I understand that completley but look what she is doing to Mukta she is a child too not too grown up even she needs support and a child needs her mother the most and Tapu is matured and she has spent 18 yrs teaching the children of ashram

thru out her life she has this need that everyone shud understand her
there was one man who understood her completely but did she understand him ?
when is she going to realize that she too needs to understand people and their circumstances esp those who thinks she is their everything who love her the most they are the only people to have loved her esp her husband

after knowing Raghu she still did not believe him there is no logic in that she does not know Askah yet she belives him more then her own husband 😲

that is why i said she is still paying for the sins of her past and still obsessed with ichchha

in fact ichchha had always been center of her universe she still is


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Posted: 12 years ago
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But can't say she is a god mother...she should have think twice before she did it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Tapasya has always been a very bad wife for Raghu she was very unjust 2 him from day one..today also it surprises me that she overlooked Rathore's doubts..she overlooked who her daughter was just to believe that stranger,but I am just saying as a mom she cant completely blamed,of course she is 90% wrong but I believe 10% she ir rite as she is scared, confused and irritated at mai comparing her with mukta..but yes u r rite too..as a mom after 18yrs she should have talked to mukta alone aftr d mehendi case.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Ishani--

Tapasya has always been a very bad wife for Raghu she was very unjust 2 him from day one..today also it surprises me that she overlooked Rathore's doubts..she overlooked who her daughter was just to believe that stranger,but I am just saying as a mom she cant completely blamed,of course she is 90% wrong but I believe 10% she ir rite as she is scared, confused and irritated at mai comparing her with mukta..but yes u r rite too..as a mom after 18yrs she should have talked to mukta alone aftr d mehendi case.



Right u r her pschological problems just never let her be a gud wife and a mother which shud be more important to her but she ruined not just her life but as well as raghu's too

and I fell bad for her parents too since she was their only child but Jogi is the only one responceble and Divya too
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Posted: 12 years ago
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nish, she isnt a good mother but she cant be tagged as a 'bad' mother..she is scared,very scared..didnt u see the pain when she kept on hitting mukta? she was actually trying to hit tapasya..yes she should have understood her but..well..circumstances were such..mukta's words were proved wrong n tapasya lost..so she did it.. so a bad mother? i dnt think so.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Ishani--

nish, she isnt a good mother but she cant be tagged as a 'bad' mother..she is scared,very scared..didnt u see the pain when she kept on hitting mukta? she was actually trying to hit tapasya..yes she should have understood her but..well..circumstances were such..mukta's words were proved wrong n tapasya lost..so she did it.. so a bad mother? i dnt think so.


Yup..you are right..but whatever she is acting like a Mahaan now
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rasyafan



Not a bad mother but not a good mother either

Tapasya is still paying for the sins of her past and she is making both Raghu and Mukta payin for her sins

unnecessary too

when she has paid for them in the past before 18 yrs she did nothave to run away from Raghu she did not have to divorce him and she did not have to live away fom him
she ruined her life as well as of Raghu's who is so lonly that it is reflecting on his face on his soul and in his life who clearly misses his family and what did Mukta get nani and dada dadi she missed her parents

well I hope that is rectified now atleast she gets to live with her father
Tapsaya badly needs to set her priorities in life and she has ignored her duties too much
well doing social work ignoring your family is no social work

After 18 yrs she is still thinking of Ichchha and her family and she shud have gotton close to Mukta and tried to undrstand her listened to her even if she thought that Mukta is lieing

but uske ankho me mahanta ki patti pari hai
thorugh out of her life she has been obsessed with Ichchcha
when she was young she was selfish towards ichchha she wanted everythign that she got form her father or anyone else
now in disguise of her mahanta she is still obsessd with ichchha now differece is she wants to give everyhting she has to ichchha and her family
first she ignored her parents then her married life now again she is ignoring her family

well it wud be right ot say that tapasya has become a nice human being but a bad mother and a bad wife

agree but how would she knw that mukta will follow their footsteps mukta is also RPRs daughter right so their is a chance for her to be like him.first she needs to trust her daughter nd then think bout everything else.

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