may be because she was reluctant to disclose her doubt as she did not have any proof, how simply she could spoil joyful atmosphere there!
remember first she wanted to share wid iccha , but looking at her , that she is happy after so many years she stopped herself!and by the time her doubt increased everyone became against her , how she can expect veer to trust her when her family doesn't!she is not close to him like iccha!
No, but she knew what a good, loyal, truthful person Veer is na! So she could've thought that if she shared her doubts with him, he would impartially see through the problem and solve it! Anyways, Veer is almost jobless nowadays! CV's could've shown this track so that atleast Veer could've been given some responsibility as a good father!